Izingane ezinezinwele zizwa ukuthi zihlukile uma zisencane
Abazali bavame ukuzibuza ukuthi kufanele babatshele yini izingane zabo. Phela, abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi akulungile ukutshela abasha ngekhono labo lobuhlakani ngoba besaba ukuthi lolu lwazi luzobangela ukuthi izingane ezinjalo zizuze i-ego. Bacabanga ukuthi izingane zingase zizikhukhumeze futhi zibekezelele abanye . Bakholelwa nokuthi izingane ezithola ukuthi zinezipho zizokwakha izinkinga zomphakathi futhi zizihlukanise nezifunda nabo.
Kodwa iqiniso linabantwana abanesipiliyoni kaningi kakade banezinkinga zomphakathi futhi ukufunda ngezipho kungabasiza.
Ingxabano Ngesikhathi Ithi "Yenziwe Ngesipho"
Nakuba befunda ukuthi banesidingo esikhethekile singasiza izingane ezineziphiwo, abanye abazali nabafundisi abavumelani negama elinesipho ngoba banomuzwa wokuthi kusho ukuthi "unesipho," okunye ezinye izingane ezingenayo. Le mpikiswano ivela ekukholweni ukuthi zonke izingane zilingana ngakho-ke zinezipho.
Kodwa ukuphika izingane ezinamakhono amaqiniso ngamakhono abo engqondo angenza okubi kakhulu kunokuhle. Iqiniso liwukuthi izingane ezinesiphiwo esizwakalayo zisencane kakhulu ukuthi azifani nezinye izingane. Bangakwazi ukuchaza ngokucacile imizwa yabo yokuhluka njengento engalungile, ngokuvamile bezibona bephutha ngandlela-thile noma njengokuthile okungalungile kubo. Kungase kube ukukhululeka okukhulu ezinganeni ezihlakaniphile ukuzwa ukuthi azikho amaphutha nokuthi kukhona isizathu sokuthi bahluke.
Ukwengeza, izingane ezinezipho zivame ukuzizwa zihlukanisiwe futhi zodwa futhi zakha izinkinga zomphakathi ngoba zizwa zihlukile. Kungase kube nesikhathi esinzima ukwenza abangane , noma bangase bazizwe bengacatshangwa futhi bengathandwa. Ezimweni eziningi, izingane ezinesiphiwo sinezinkinga ezikoleni zesikole lapho ziphoqelelwa ukudala ubungane nabafundi ebangeni labo.
Izingane ezinenkinga yokuzibandakanya nabalingani nabo ekilasini ngokuvamile azikho ukukhathazeka nokwenza ubungane nezingane ezindala noma ezinye izingane ezinesipho.
Ukuvumela Izingane Ziyazi ukuthi Zinikeziwe Ngeke Zilimaze
Ukutshela ingane ukuthi unesipho ngeke kumenze ahluke ngoba kungenzeka ukuthi ingane isivele izwa ngaleyo ndlela. Ngokuphambene nalokho, ukuvumela izingane zikwazi ukuthi zinekhono futhi zixoxe ngamakhono abo engqondo nazo kuzosiza izingane ezinjalo ziqonde ukuthi kungani zizwa sengathi zingaphandle. Ukuzenza sengathi ubuphiko bomntwana abukho ngeke kubenze leyo mizwa ihambe, njengoba nje ukuzenza ukukhubazeka kwengane engekho ngeke kwenzeke ukukhubazeka kudlule.
Izisetshenziswa zezingane ezifuywayo
Uma abazali bekwazisa izingane abanesipho, bangazidlulisela ezinhlobonhlobo zezincwadi ngale ndaba. "Umhlahlandlela wokuPhumela abantwana we-Gifted Kids for Ages 10 & Under" futhi "Umhlahlandlela Wokusindisa Izingane Zamafuphi: Incwadi Yengane Entsha" iyasiza esikoleni samabanga aphansi kanye nabafundi besikole esiphakeme, ngokulandelana.