Ukwenza okuphelele nokuzwela kungabeka ingane yakho engozini
Ubuhle buyamangalisa ngezindlela eziningi, kepha izingane ezinesipho zingase zibe nezici ezingathinta ukuthuthukiswa komphakathi nezomzwelo. Ukuze uqonde ingane yakho enesipho , kuwumqondo omuhle ukubona ukuthi ubuphi ingane yakho ingathonya kanjani ukuziphatha kwakhe.
Izinkinga Ezitholakala Ekuthuthukiseni Ongenasisekelo
Amakhono okuqonda okuthuthukisiwe awahambisani ngaso sonke isikhathi ngamakhono asezingeni eliphezulu emphakathini nangokomzwelo.
Uma amakhono ethuthuka ngezinga elihlukile, ukuthuthukiswa kuchazwa ngokuthi " okungenasisekelo ." Kwezinye izimo, izingane ezinezintandokazi zingangena ezinkingeni lapho amandla abo engqondo engahambisani namanye amakhono abo. Ngokwesibonelo:
- Izingane ezinezintambo zingakwazi ukuqonda kahle izinto ezingaqondakali kodwa zingase zingakwazi ukubhekana nalezi zinkolelo ngokomzwelo, okuholela ekukhathazeni okukhulu ngokufa, ikusasa, ubulili nezinye izinkinga eziphambili.
- Ukuthuthukiswa kwengane enesibhakabhaka kungabangela ukungakwazi ukuqedela umsebenzi abakwazi ukucabanga ngokuhlakanipha. Lokhu kungaholela ekukhungathekeni okwedlulele futhi kusebenze. (Perfectionism ingadlala indima kulokhu kuphazamiseka kanjalo.)
- Ingane enekhono ingakwazi ukuhlanganyela ezingxoxweni zabantu abadala mayelana nezindaba ezinjengokufudumala kwembulunga yonke noma ukulamba kwezwe ngomzuzu owodwa bese kuthi umzuzu olandelayo ukhale futhi ukhale ngoba ingane yakwamukela ithoyizi. Lokhu kungahle kudibanise abantu abadala, futhi kubangele ukucindezela ekuziphatheni okufanele iminyaka.
Izinkinga ezitholakala Emandleni Aphezulu Okukhuluma Ngezwi Nezwi
Ngenkathi izingane ezinesiphiwo sikwazi ukufunda, ukukhuluma, ngisho nokucabanga ngaphezu kwebanga lesigaba, lawo makghono angeke asetshenziswe njalo ngezindlela ezinhle. Ngokwesibonelo:
- Izingane ezinezinwele zingaba izingxabano kanye / noma ezikhohlisayo. (Abadala bavame ukuphawula ukuthi lawa bantwana bangabameli abancane.) Abazali nabanye abantu abadala kumele bakhumbule ukuthi, nakuba isikweletu kufanele sinikezwe izingxabano ezinengqondo futhi ezikholisayo, ingane isengumntwana futhi idinga isiyalo esifanele , kungakhathaliseki ukuthi silungile noma silungile kanjani ukuziphatha kungase kubonakale. Izingane ezibona ukuthi zingakwazi ukuphatha abantu abadala zingazizwa zingalondekile.
- Ingane enekhono ingazama ukufaka abazali nabafundisi othisha.
- I-vocabulary eyinkimbinkimbi kanye nezinzwa ezithuthukisayo zokuhleka usulu kungabangela izingane ezineziphiwo ukuba zingacatshangwa, ezingenza bazizwe bephansi futhi benqatshiwe. (Lesi sizathu esisodwa isizathu sokuthi abantwana abanesipiliyoni bakhetha ukuhlala bezungeza abantwana abadala nabantu abadala.)
Izinkinga ezitholakala ekungaphelelweni nasekuzweleni ngokomzwelo
Kuyajabulisa ukuba namakhono aphezulu, kepha lawo makghono ngezinye izikhathi adala ukulindela okungenangqondo. Ezinye izingane ezinezipho ziba ngabaphelelisi, zilindele ukuthi zithole izilinganiso eziyikhulu zamaphesenti kukho konke ukuhlolwa. Isipho singaholela ekucabangeni okungaphezu kokusebenza. Lezi zinkinga zingabangela izinkinga zokuziphatha; Ngokwesibonelo:
- Ukungafani kahle kungabangela ukwesaba ukwehluleka, futhi kubangele ingane enesiphiwo sokugwema ukwehluleka ngokungafuni nokuzama into ethile (kubandakanya nokwenza umsebenzi wesikole).
- Ukubheka okuhle, ukucabanga, kanye nokukwazi ukubona ngaphesheya kokusobala kungabangela ingane enesipho ukuba ivele amahloni, ibuyele ezimweni ezintsha ukuze ucabangele konke okushiwo.
- Ingane enekhono ingadinga imininingwane ephelele ngaphambi kokuphendula imibuzo noma ukunikeza usizo, okwenza ukuba avele enhle emphakathini.
- Ukuzwela okukhulu kungabangela izingane ezihlakaniphile ukuba zithole ukugxekwa, noma ngisho nentukuthelo evamile, ngokwayo. Ama-sleeping sleights awavuki emhlane.
- Ukuzwela kanye nomqondo othuthukile wokulungile nokungalungile kungaholela ekukhathaleleni izimpi, izingane ezilambile, ukungcola, ubudlova nokungabi nabulungisa. Uma begcwele izithombe nezinkulumo zalezi zinkinga, bangakwazi ukungena ngemvume bese behoxiswa noma baze bahlushwa " ukucindezeleka okukhona ."
Cishe zonke izici zobunikazi zingenza izingane ezinesiphiwo sizizwe "zihlukile," ngisho nasencane kakhulu. Kubalulekile, ngakho-ke, ukuba uhlanganise nabo nabantwana abafana nabo kanye nabantu ababaqondayo.