Ubudlova buchazwa yi-American Psychological Association njengendlela eyingozi ngokweqile. Izibonelo zobundlovongela bobusha emphakathini wanamuhla zibandakanya ukudlwengulwa kwamalanga, ukubulala abantu, ukudubula esikoleni kanye nokulwa. Njengabazali bentsha, siyazi ukuthi lezi zinhlobo zokuziphatha ezinobudlova zivame kakhulu kunokuba zifanele. Kodwa-ke, wazi ukuthi ukubulala kungesizathu esibili esiholela ekufeni kwabantu abasha abaneminyaka eyi-10 kuya kwengu-24 ubudala e-United States ngokusho kweCDC? Sidinga ukuthatha ingxenye ekhuthele ekuvimbeleni ubudlova obusha emiphakathini yabashumini babo.
Ukuze abazali bavimbele udlame empilweni yabo yentsha, badinga ukuqonda ukuthi izimbangela zini zokuziphatha kwentsha enobudlova. Lapha ngibhale izimbangela ezivame kakhulu zobudlova phakathi kwentsha:
Ithonya leMidiya
Ubudlova kumaphephandaba bungathinta ingane yakho futhi kungabangela ukuba benze izenzo ezimbi. Ucwaningo olwenziwa ngamanyuvesi amaningana, I-Influence Media Media Violence on Youth , lithi, "Ucwaningo olwenziwe ngethelevishini oludlamezayo namafilimu, imidlalo yevidiyo nomculo ubonisa ubufakazi obungacacile bokuthi ubudlova bemithombo yezindaba bukhulisa amathuba okuziphatha okunonya nokuhlukumezeka kokubili okusheshayo nangesikhathi eside, izimo zesikhathi. " I-'imidiya 'lapha ichazwa yilokho ingane yakho ebonayo, ezwa noma exhumana nayo engatholakala kwi-inthanethi, kuthelevishini, kumamagazini, kuma-movie, emidlalweni yevidiyo, ekukhangiseni, njll. Ukuphila kwethu kwentsha kugcwele imidiya engase ibe nemilayezo enobudlova. Okuningi mayelana nabezindaba kanye nentsha:
- Fundisa Intsha Yakho Ukuba Yizilimi Zokufunda
- I-intanethi ayiyithathi imidiya yendabuko phakathi kwentsha
- Ukubeletha kahle kuMsakazo Wokugcina: Ukugcina Izingane Zethu Zabantu
Umakhelwane wakho wezingane
Lapho uhlala khona, indawo yengane yakho ingabangela ingane yakho ukuba yenze ngokufutheka kakhulu. I-CDC ibhekisela ezenzweni eziningana ezibangelwa umphakathi ngokobudlova kwentsha kubandakanya amathuba amathuba omnotho, amazinga aphezulu obugebengu kanye nezakhamuzi ezingenamakhaya. Ngakho-ke, uma uhlala endaweni lapho intsha iphoqelelwa khona ukuba ijoyine izigameko ukuze iphile futhi ilwa yilona evamile, ingane yakho iyakwazi ukuziphatha kabi futhi ihlanganyele ekuziphatheni okubudlova.
Ukuhlukunyezwa Kwamakhaya Nezingane
Izingane ezihlala nodlame ekhaya zingaba abantu abanobudlova. Uma ingane yakho ihlala nokuhlaselwa ekhaya ekhaya, ifunda ukuhlukumeza. Njengoba ukuxhashazwa kwezingane kubonakala njengomjikelezo, izingane zokuhlukunyezwa zingaba yizihlukumezi. Lokhu kuziphatha okuthukuthela kuvame ukuqala emusha wabo.
Ngaphezu kweyodwa ngithole ama-e-mail kumama omama abasha abenza ngokufutheka kubo. Baqhubeka bethi umyeni wabo ubaphatha kabi, ukuzwakalisa kubo kunzima ezinganeni zabo futhi ngokuyinhloko ungumhlukumezi endlini yabo. Laba mama bayazibuza ukuthi kungani izingane zabo zingaqondi ukuthi zibahlukumeza kanjani ngoba ziye zaba yisisulu sokuhlukunyezwa kukababa. Okushiwo la ma mamama ukuthi izingane zabo zifunde ukuziphatha kwabo koyise. Kuyinto iqiniso elidabukisayo futhi akulula ukulungisa, kodwa lowo ngumjikelezo wokuhlukunyezwa.
Ukuqapha Abazali Abanele
Intsha eyathola ukulingana ngokwanele ngabazali babo noma izibalo zabazali ijwayele ukuziphatha ngokuziphatha okubi noma izenzo zobugebengu ngoba benza izinqumo ezimbi. Uma abazali bengenzi indima ebalulekile empilweni yabo yentsha, intsha ihluleka ukulawula. Benza ubungane nabantu abangalungile, abazami ukwenza konke okusemandleni esikoleni futhi bayeka ukunakekela ngekusasa labo. Intsha idinga isiyalo esihle futhi esiqinile - lokhu kungenye yezizathu zokuthi kungani.
Ukucindezela kontanga
Ukucindezela kontanga kungabangela ubudlova kwentsha lapho abangane bakho bentsha bejwayele ukuziphatha okubi. Lokhu kungaba ukuziphatha okuhlukumezayo kwabantwana, ukuziphatha okubungozi okufana nokuphuza utshwala noma ukuphuza izidakamizwa noma ukuyingxenye yeqembu lezenhlalakahle kwakungumlutha kuyingxenye evamile - ukuba yingxenye yeqembu lebhola kungaba isibonelo salokho.
Ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa
Ukusebenzisa kabi izidakamizwa kanye nokulutha ngokweqile kungaholela ekuziphatheni okubudlova. Nakuba ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa zokuzilibazisa kufanele kukujabulise, ukusebenzisa isikhathi eside izidakamizwa ezingekho emthethweni kuvame ukuletha imizwa yokucindezeleka, intukuthelo nokukhungatheka. Lokhu kungaholela intombazane ukuba ibonise ukuziphatha kokuhlukunyezwa nokufutheka.
Imicimbi Ebuhlungu
Ukubhekana nemicimbi ebuhlungu kungabangela ukuhlukumeza kwentsha. Ngokwesibonelo, uma umfana elahlekelwa umngane engozini yemoto ukuthi nabo bahilelekile ukuthi bangathukuthela ngokuthi bebodwa abahlala kulo. Njengoba intukuthelo isesimweni esijwayelekile sesisindo, ukuqhuma okukhulu okuvela kulo mfana kubonakala kulungile.
Ukugula Kwengqondo
Ukugula ngengqondo kuyisinye isizathu esibangela ubudlova phakathi kwentsha. Izinkinga zempilo yengqondo ezifana ne-ADHD, i-bipolar, i-ODD, ukukhubazeka kokuziphatha noma eziningi zabanye abakuthola namuhla, bonke banokuziphatha okubi noma imizwa evuthayo njengezimpawu ezivamile.
Isifo sengqondo ngezinye izikhathi sifihla ngemuva kwezinye izimbangela zobudlova kwentsha. Ngokwesibonelo, intombazane ene-bipolar disorder ingase isebenzise izidakamizwa. Uma lo mfana eqala ukuhlukumezeka, ukusebenzisa izidakamizwa kungafihla ukuthi ukugula kwe-bipolar kuyingxenye yezizathu.
> Imithombo:
> Impembelelo Yezobudlova Zomphakathi Ezinganeni Nezingane Zengane: Amathuba Okungenelela Kwemitholampilo. I-American Academy of Child Ingqondo Yengane Yengane.
> Ubudlova Bentsha: Izingozi Nezivikelo Zokuzivikela. Amasevisi Wokulawulwa Nokuvimbela Izifo 30 Aug 2011.