Futhi Indlela Ethinta Ngayo Izingane Zokukhulelwa
Ezikoleni nasekhaya, isijeziso somuntu (CP) lapho umzali, umgcini wezomthetho, noma umqondisi wezemfundo ezama ukuyeka ukuziphatha okungafuneki ngokubangela ingane ukuba izwele kabi noma ubuhlungu. Ukujeziswa okuphoqelekile kubandakanya ukufaka izibhamu , ukushaya ingane, ukushaywa ngesandla esivulekile, isibhamu noma into enjengebhande, inkinobho, intambo, i-paddle, ibhodi noma i-fly swatter.
Nakuba iNkantolo Ephakeme Yase-United States inqume ngo-1977 ukuthi isijeziso somuntu namanje sisisimthethweni sokujeziswa ezikoleni, uma nje ivinjelwe ekuphambeni noma ekugodleni, umthetho wendawo uvumelekile ukuba uwedlule lo mthetho.
Nokho, ekhaya, ikakhulukazi uma kunquma ukuthi yini eqondwa ukuqeqeshwa okufanele kwengane engaphansi kokunakekela izingane, imithetho eqondisa ukuthi yiziphi izinhlobo zokujeziswa komuntu ngaphandle kokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ezihlukahlukana nezimo zombuso nezendawo. Ukujeziswa okukhohlisayo kufaka phakathi ukuhleka kwezindlebe, ukufaka umsizi oshisayo olimini lomntwana, ukuvalela ingane egumbini, ukubopha ingane phansi, nokucela ingane ukuba ikwazi ukuzikhandla ngokweqile ngokuzivocavoca noma ukuvumela ingane ukuba ihambe indlu yangasese.
Ukuthuthukisa Ukuqonda Komphakathi kwe-CP
Kusukela isinqumo seNkantolo Ephakeme Yango-1977, izinhlaka eziningi zombuso nezendawo zenze imithethonqubo emisha elawula lokho okungafani nokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane uma kuziwa ekukhipheni izinyathelo zokuqondiswa kwezigwegwe ngokumelene nengane engalungile.
Izifunda ezingu-31 kuphela, kanye neDec nasePuerto Rico, ziye zaqala ukuvinjelwa kwezigwegwe esikoleni, kanti ezinye ezingu-19 zithi ziyakuvumela ukuba ziqhubeke, kuphela i-Alabama, i-Arkansas, ne-Mississippi zisasebenzisa le ndlela yokwenza izigwegwe njalo.
I-Georgia, eLouisana, eMissouri, e-Oklahoma, eTennessee naseTexas, ikakhulukazi emadolobheni amancane, asezindaweni zasemaphandleni, isasebenzisa lolu hlobo lokujeziswa njalo kodwa ngezinga eliphansi.
I-Canada, iKenya, iNingizimu Afrika, iNew Zealand, futhi cishe yonke iYurophu ivimbele lo mkhuba ngokuqondile.
Eminyakeni yamuva, i-ejensi yamazwe omhlaba wonke ephikisana nemithetho eqinile emhlabeni jikelele ukuvimbela izingane ukuba zingabhekene nodlame olungadingekile, nganoma yiluphi uhlobo.
Ngisho nasekupheleni kuka-1989 eMhlanganweni weMalungelo eNgane eNhlanganweni yeziZwe, amazwe emhlabeni wonke ahlangene "ukuthatha zonke izindlela ezifanele zomthetho, ezokuphatha, ezenhlalakahle nezemfundo ukuvikela ingane kuzo zonke izinhlobo zobudlova ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, ukulimala noma ukuhlukunyezwa, ukunganakekelwa noma ukwelashwa ngokweqile, ukuphathwa kabi noma ukuxhashazwa. "
Funda ukuthi ungaqeqesha kanjani izingane zakho ngaphandle kokuhlunga .
Ukuhlawuliswa Kweziboshwa Akufanelekile Kuzingane Ezizikhukhumeza
Ukusetshenziswa kwezijeziso ezingekho emthethweni akufanelekile izingane zokunakekelwa kwabantwana, ikakhulukazi ngoba izingane eziningi ezamukelwe ziye zahlukunyezwa futhi zazinakekelwa kakade emakhaya abo okuzalwa.
Ukuhlukunyezwa ngezinye izikhathi kushiya ingane ngokubekezelelana okuphezulu ngenxa yobuhlungu. Umnakekeli okhungathekile angase aqale ngokushaya ingane, kodwa uma bengayitholi impendulo abayifunayo kusuka kumntwana, qala ukushaya kanzima futhi kanzima. Ukwengeza, isijeziso somuntu singase silethe izinkumbulo ezimbi zokuhlukunyezwa okudlule noma ukuvimbela ingane ukuba yakhe isinamathiselwe kubantwana noma abazali abamukelayo.
Abaningi bezengqondo zokuziphatha kwengane bakholelwa ukuthi izifundo zokuphila azidingeki zifundiswe uma isiyalo sithukuthele futhi sibuhlungu, futhi isijeziso somuntu sivame ukushiya ingane ngokukhathazeka okukhulu futhi ukungakwazi ukwethemba izibalo zabazali.
Kubantwana abaningi abasha noma abazali abamukelayo, ukungavunyelwa ukuphambanisa ingane kungase kube nzima ukuqonda njengoba iningi lethu lakhuliswa ngabazali abashaya. Yebo, iningi lethu "lenze kahle," futhi ngethemba ukuthi amaphuzu angenhla asiza ekuqondeni ukuthi kungani ukuhlambalaza noma ezinye izinhlobo zokujeziswa ngokomzimba akuzona ezenzweni ezingcono kakhulu ezinganeni noma ezithintekayo noma intshisekelo enhle yomndeni okhulayo noma owamukelayo uzama ukunamathela kumntwana.
Nokho, kunezinye izinketho eziningana uma kuziwa ekufundiseni abazali abakhulayo nabazali abamukelayo.