Ucwaningo lwamuva olwakhicilelwe ngoJuni 2012, lubonise ukuthi abafundi be-high school e-United States babe nenqubekela phambili enkulu kule minyaka engamashumi amabili edlule ekuthuthukiseni imikhuba eminingi engozini yokuziphatha engcupheni ehambisana necala elibangela ukufa ekudleni kwabo, ukuphazamiseka kwemoto. Intsha eningi iyakhuphuka futhi iningi liphuza futhi lishayela . Kodwa, umkhuba omusha wokukhuluma noma ukuthumela imiyalezo kumafoni awo omakhalekhukhwini ufaka izinga lokufa kwentsha.
Ubuchwepheshe bulethe futhi izingozi ezintsha endaweni yokuxhashazwa njengenye yezingane eziyisithupha ezibikwa ukuthi zihlukunyezwa nge-imeyli, amakamelo okuxoxa, imibiko esheshayo, amawebhusayithi, noma ukuthumela imiyalezo ezinyangeni ezingu-12 ezedlule. Ukusetshenziselwa izidakamizwa ze-Marijuana kuyasetshenziswa futhi isetshenziselwa intsha yamabini ombili kaningi kunokubhema ugwayi. Umbiko wenzalo yokuziphatha engcupheni yentsha ehlongozwayo ingatholakala lapha, uhlelo lwezokuHlola lokuHlaliswa kweNtsha kweNtsha: Okukhethiwe ku-2011 Health Risk Behaviors kanye nemiphumela yezempilo ngocansi. Kuyinkinga kubazali ukuthi abafundi abaningi esikoleni esiphakeme ezweni lonke bayaqhubeka nokuziphatha okuzibeka engozini ngenxa yezinkinga ezinkulu zezempilo. Abazali kufanele baqaphele ukuthi kunezindlela ezithile zokuziphatha eziyingozi ezingase zitholakale phakathi kwabafundi besilisa kunabesifazane besifazane. Ngokusho kombiko abafana bathi:
- okungajwayelekile noma engakaze agqoke amabhande asezihlalo;
- okungajwayelekile noma engakaze agqoke izigqoko zezimoto;
- ukulimala ngenkathi usebenzisa umzimba, ukudlala ezemidlalo, noma ukusebenza ngokomzimba;
- ukushayela ngemuva kokuphuza utshwala ;
- isikhali sokuthwala;
- isibhamu esithwala;
- ukuhlanganyela nokulimala empini yangempela;
- isikhali esithwala impahla yesikole;
- esongelwa noma elimazwe ngesikhali esikoleni sesikole;
- ukulwa empilweni yempahla yesikole;
- ukusetshenziswa kogwayi okwamanje okungasetshenzisiwe;
- ukusetshenziswa kwamanje kwe-cigar;
- ukuphuza ngokweqile kakhulu kwe-episodic;
- ukusetshenziswa kwansuku kanye nokusetshenziswa kwamanoni;
- ukusetshenziswa kwe-cocaine yamanje;
- heroin yokuphila, steroid engekho emthethweni, kanye nokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa ezijova;
- ukuqala ukubhema ugwayi, utshwala nokusetshenziswa kwensangu ngaphambi kweminyaka eyi-13;
- ukubhema, ukuphuza utshwala, nokugcoba esitolo esikoleni, ngezinye izikhathi kubhekiswe ngezinombolo 420 ;
- ukunikezwa, ukudayiswa, noma ukunikezwa izidakamizwa ezingekho emthethweni esikweni sesikole;
- ukuqala ubulili ngaphambi kweminyaka engama-13 ubudala;
- Ukuba nabalingani bobulili abane ngesikhathi sokuphila kwabo;
- ukusetshenziswa kotshwala noma izidakamizwa ekugcineni ngokocansi;
- umlingani wabo angasebenzisi amaphilisi okulawula ukubeletha ngaphambi kokulala ngokocansi okokugcina; futhi
- esengozini yokudlula ngokweqile nokuqhathanisa ngokweqile.
Ngokuphambene nalokho, abafundi besifazane babekhona amathuba kunokuba abafundi besilisa babike:
- ukuphoqeleka ukuba abe nobulili;
- uzizwa udabukile noma ungenathemba;
- ukuziphatha okuhlobene nokuzibulala;
- umlingani wabo angasebenzisi ikhondomu ekugcineni ngokocansi;
- ukuphuza <3 izibuko / usuku lobisi;
- ukuzila ukudlala isisindo noma ukulawula ukuzuza kwesisindo;
- ukuthatha amaphilisi okudla, ama-powders, noma uketshezi ukuze ulahlekelwe isisindo noma ulawule ukuzuza kwesisindo;
- ukuthatha laxatives noma ukuhlanza ukuze ulahlekelwe isisindo noma ukulawula ukuzuza kwesisindo;
- hhayi ukubamba iqhaza emsebenzini wokuzikhandla noma wokulinganisela;
- hhayi ukubamba iqhaza ekuqiniseni izivivinyo; futhi
- hhayi iqhaza kumaqembu ezemidlalo.
Ukuze uthole ulwazi oluthe xaxa mayelana nokuziphatha okusemthethweni kwentsha, vakashela lezi zinsiza:
Ukusetshenziswa Kwezidakamizwa Ezisencane Nokuhlukumeza
Bonke abasha abona uhlobo oluthile lokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa noma ukuxhashazwa esikoleni noma kumaphephandaba, thola izinsiza lapha ezihlanganisa izibalo, izihloko zamanoni, i-heroin, utshwala nokuningi ukukusiza ukuthi ukhulume nomntanakho kanye nomzali ngokuqondene nokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa ezisencane . Sonke singathanda ukucabanga ukuthi intsha yethu ngeke ihlanganyele nezidakamizwa, kodwa ingenza-futhi yenze-yenzeke.
Ngingazi kanjani ukuthi Ingane Yami Isebenza Ngokuzilimaza?
Yiziphi izibonakaliso ezongitshela uma ingane yami ilimaza yona?
Yiziphi izibonakaliso ezongitshela uma ingane yami ilimaza yona? Ngifundile ukuthi umngane wakhe osondelene naye useluleka ngokusika. Indodakazi yami manje isichitha isikhathi esiningi yedwa ekamelweni layo. Kungenzeka yini ukuba azilimaze ngamabomu? Thola lapha.
Ubunzima Bube Ngumfana Osikhathazekile
Abazali bayazi ukuthi ukucindezeleka kangakanani ukubhekana nokuziphatha okunzima okukhathazayo intsha ngokuvamile kubonisa. Lokho abazali abaningi abangaqapheli ukuthi intombazane eyenza ubuhlungu ivame ukulimaza futhi ibhekene nobunzima obukhulu ngaphakathi. Nakhu okudingayo ukwazi ukusiza.
Ukubhekana Nengane Ekhohlisayo Ebalekela
Umzali ucela usizo kumntanakhe osondayo obalekela. Udokotela unikeza izinyathelo eziningana nezinsiza ukuze lokhu kungabikho kokulawula isimo sezingane ngaphansi kokulawula.
Intsha Iyagijima
Kufanele benzeni lapho behamba nokuthi kufanele benzeni lapho bebuya ekhaya.
Izinkinga zesikole
Izinkinga zeSikole zithinta izinsizwa ezithintekayo futhi kufanele zibhekane nemiphumela - nsuku zonke esikoleni. Abazali abathintekayo besencane bangathola iseluleko nokusizwa lapha.
Umhlahlandlela womzali wokucindezeleka kwentsha
Bazali, uma ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho ingase ibe nokucindezeleka noma wazi ukuthi ingane yakho inenkinga yokucindezeleka, lo mhlahlandlela uzokusiza uqonde izinkinga ezibhekene nentombazane yakho futhi ikunike iseluleko ngalokho okufanele ukwenze.
Ukusinda Ingane Yakho Ekhathazekile 5 Usuku Lwe-Inthanethi Yokukhulisa Abazali
Funda ukuthi ungaphendula kanjani ngokuphumelelayo futhi usinde ekukhuliseni intsha ekhungethweyo kanye neklasi lethu lababelethi be-intanethi Funda ukufunda Ukusinda Ingane Yakho Ekhathazekile Ezinsukwini Ezinhlanu .
Ukukhulisa Abazali Abahluphekile
Okwenza ukwelashwa komndeni kusebenze intsha
Iyini indlela yokuziphatha kwentsha?
Yonke Imithombo Yabazali Abanenkinga Yokukhathazeka