Ukukhulisa ingane akulula. Ukukhulisa ingane ekhungathekile kuyinkimbinkimbi nakakhulu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane yakho inenkinga yokusebenzisa kabi izidakamizwa , izinkinga zokuziphatha, noma izinkinga zempilo yengqondo , ukungenelela kuyadingeka. Kukhona izinto eziningana ongayenza ukusiza ukuqondisa ingane yakho endleleni engakalungi ngaphambi kokuba ibe ngumdala. Nazi amathiphu ayisithupha okubeletha okukhulisa intsha ecindezelekile:
Xhuma nengane yakho engcono kakhulu ongayenza.
Ekubelethweni kwentsha ekhusayo kuyinto evamile ukulingwa ukuba ufulathe ingane yakho njengoba izinkinga ziba nzima kakhulu. Kodwa, ukugcina uxhumano oluqinile nengane yakho, kubalulekile. Yisebenze ekukhulumeni okuphumelelayo futhi uzame ukugcina ubuhlobo obuhle kakhulu.
Ubuhlobo bakho nezingane ezisenkingeni ngeke kuphelele. Kodwa, ukusebenzisa isikhathi sekhwalithi ndawonye futhi ubonise ingane yakho ukuthi uyayikhathalela ingahamba isikhathi eside ekusizeni ingane yakho ibe ngcono.
Bheka isimo sakho sentsha ngokubona okuhlukile.
Inqubo evame ukusetshenzwa ngabahlengikazi ukubuka isimo noma ukuziphatha kwentsha ngokuhlukile kulokho okwenzile, inqubo eyaziwa ngokuthi i-reframing. Kulokhu kushintshe ukuqondisisa kombono kulokho okubangela ukuziphatha kwentsha yakho ngokuvamile kugxila.
Ngezinye izikhathi abazali kanye nentsha bangakwazi ukuzithokozisa ngokubuka isimo ngesimo esisha; okuyinto evame ukulandelwa ukwenza noma ukucabanga ngezinto ezahlukene.
Futhi nansi izindaba ezinhle ngempela - uma umzali esabela ngezindlela ezehlukene akukho okukhethayo kumfana kodwa nokuthi enze ngendlela ehlukile.
Funa usizo lobuchwepheshe.
Intsha eningi ekhathazekile izuza ngohlobo oluthile losizo lochwepheshe ekuboneni isizathu esiyinhloko sezinkinga zabo kanye nosizo ekusebenzelaneni nabo.
Ukuthola usizo kwentsha ekhungethweyo lapho beqala ukubhekana nezinkinga kuvame ukuphumelela kakhulu kunokulinda kuze kube yilapho izinkinga ziba zimbi nakakhulu.
Kwabazali abathile, lokhu kungaba isinyathelo esinzima ukuthatha. Abanye besaba ukuthi ukuzama usizo kuyisibonakaliso sobuthakathaka kodwa akukho lutho olungaqhubeka luvela eqinisweni.
Izinzuzo zokufuna usizo lobuchwepheshe kumntombazane onenkathazo zihlanganisa: usizo oluhlangenwe nakho ekuboneni izizathu ezenza ingane yakho iphumelele, ubuchwepheshe ekuboneni ukuthi yini ekungenelela kwemitholampilo okuyophumelela kakhulu nokusekela ekusizeni ingane yakho, wena nomndeni wakho ukuba niphumelele lesi sikhathi esinzima.
Yazi lapho ingane yakho isenkingeni.
Ukwazi ukuthi ingane yakho isenkathazweni kuyiphi ikhiye ebalulekile yokuvula izici ezibangela izinguquko eziphazamisayo kumntanakho. Ochwepheshe abasebenza nentsha bachaza ukuziphatha okubi kwentsha njengokusebenza, okusho ukuthi lokhu kuziphatha kungukubonakaliswa kwangaphandle kwezimpikiswano ezidinga ukunakekelwa.
Ukuziphatha okukhathazayo kumasha kuthatha izinhlobo eziningi. Ngokuvamile, izimpikiswano zengqondo yengqondo ezinjengokucindezeleka, ukungahloniphi , nokuziphatha okuyingozi . Ngesinye isikhathi, intsha iphendukela ezidakamizweni noma utshwala ngomzamo wokuqeda ubuhlungu babo.
Ngaphansi kokuziphatha kwentombazane yakho evuthayo noma yokuphikisana cishe kunobunzima obukhulu.
Ukuqaphela lokhu kungakusiza ukuzwelana nezidingo zentsha yakho.
Thatha isinyathelo uma ingane yakho isenkingeni .
Abazali abanezingane ezikhathazekile ngokuvamile bavalo ukwesaba. Abazali abaningi bayazibuza ukuthi bazokwazi yini ukuthi benzeni uma isimo sihamba ngaphandle kokulawula, ukubeka ingane, noma abanye engozini.
Izimo zezinkinga azivamile ukusebenzisana nentombazane engenamandla ngokomzwelo noma engakwazi ukubhekana kahle nezimo ezicindezelayo. Ukuthatha izinyathelo zokwazi kusengaphambili indlela yokubhekana nalezi zingozi eziyingozi kungenza kube lula ukuphendula ngokuphumelelayo uma udinga ukwenza njalo.
Khumbula, ungahlala ubiza u-911 noma uthathe ingane yakho ibe yiphuthumayo.
Izinsongo zokuzilimaza, ukukhuluma ngokuzibulala, noma izinsongo kwabanye abantu kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi kuthathwe ngokungathí sina.
Zinakekele.
Uma ucindezelekile futhi ucindezelekile, ngeke ube usizo olukhulu kumntanakho. Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uthatha izinyathelo zokuthola ukwesekwa nokuzinakekela.
Uma uphila kahle, uzobe uhlomele kangcono ukubhekana nentsha yakho enenkathazo. Thatha isikhathi sakho futhi uzinike amandla akho ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi uhlala emoyeni nangempilo enempilo.