Abazali bakholelwa ukuthi izingane zabo ngeke zenze izidakamizwa
Kunezinkolelo eziningi nokungaqondi kahle okuphathelene nokwanda eminyakeni yamuva yokusetshenziswa kabi kwezidakamizwa ezinganeni, futhi akuzona zonke ezenziwa yizingane. Enye yezinkolelo ezinkulu ezithathwe ngabazali ngokuphathelene nokusetshenziswa kabi kwezidakamizwa yilokhu: Ngeke kwenzeke kumntanami.
Abazali nje abafuni ukukholelwa ukuthi izingane zabo zizobandakanyeka ekusebenziseni izidakamizwa, izidakamizwa noma ezingekho emthethweni, kodwa iqiniso lingaphezu kwama-43 amaphesenti asebekhulile esikoleni esiphakeme babika ukuthi basebenzise izidakamizwa okungenani kanye ngesikhathi sokuphila kwabo.
Kungaba Khona Entsha Yakho
Uma unesithakazelo, uyangena engozini yokuzibandakanya ekusebenziseni kabi izidakamizwa, ngisho nokuphumelela kakhulu, intsha eningi ephumelele. Ungase ucabange ukuthi izingane zakho zizokwenza izinqumo ezizwakalayo njalo, kepha ubuchopho babo abukathuthuki ngokugcwele, ngakho-ke ukwahlulela kwabo nokwenza izinqumo kungase kungabi yilokho ocabanga ngakho.
Ngisho nezintsha "ezinhle" ezivela emizini emihle futhi ziya ezikoleni ezinhle zingabandakanyeka ekusebenziseni kabi izidakamizwa, ikakhulukazi ukuphathwa kabi kwezidakamizwa, ngokusho koMkhandlu kaZwelonke mayelana nolwazi lwezeMpilo kanye neMfundo. Abazali kudingeka baqonde izizathu zokuthi kungani intsha inquma ukuqala ukusebenzisa izidakamizwa.
Kungani Intsha Isebenzisa Izidakamizwa
Ngokusho koMkhandlu, ukuqonda ukuthi kungani izingane zishintsha izidakamizwa zingasiza abazali - kanye nothisha, abaqeqeshi nabanye - babuze imibuzo efanele futhi bangenele ngokushesha uma kunenkinga. Nazi ezinye zezizathu ukuthi intsha inquma ukuhlukumeza izidakamizwa:
- Ukubalekela noma ukuzibulala
- Ukungabi nokuzethemba
- Ukuthatha ingozi, ukufuna injabulo
- Ukucindezela kontanga
Kungani Kusetshenziswa Izidakamizwa?
Eminyakeni yamuva, ukusetshenziswa kwentsha yezidakamizwa ezingekho emthethweni kuye kwaqeda noma kunqatshwa, kodwa kuye kwaba nokwanda okwesabekayo ekusetshenzisweni kwemithi kadokotela. Ngokusho kocwaningo loMkhandlu, lezi ezinye zezizathu ezenza intsha ishintshe izidakamizwa zemithi:
- Kukhona okungaphansi kwesithunzi
- Izinganekwane ukuthi ziphephile
- Kulula ukuthola
- Kulula ukufihla
- Abazali bancane amathuba okuthukuthela
Abazali Bangenza Umehluko
Izindaba ezinhle abazali bangazenza okuthile ukuvimbela ukusetshenziswa kabi kwezidakamizwa. Okokuqala, ungagcina imithi yakho ekhaya lakho ukuze kungatholakali kalula. Gcina amaphilisi akho bese ulahla kahle imithi engasetshenzisiwe.
Okwesibili, khuluma nezingane zakho ngezingozi ezihilelekile ekusebenziseni izidakamizwa. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi intsha efundiswa ekhaya mayelana nezingozi zokusebenzisa izidakamizwa ingamaphesenti angama-50 okusebenzisa izidakamizwa kunabesilisa abangafundiswa ngezingozi ekhaya.
Imithombo:
Umkhandlu kaZwelonke mayelana nolwazi lwezeMpilo kanye nemfundo " Ithenda elikhathazayo: Kungani intsha ishintsha imishanguzo yemithi (PDF) " November 2009.
Ukuhlukunyezwa Kwemithi Nokuphathwa Kwezinsizakalo zeMpilo Yengqondo "Ucwaningo lukazwelonke olusetshenziswa ngokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa kanye nempilo