Izinkulumo Zokukhuluma Abazali Abazobhekana Nabo Abasha
Ukukhohlisa kuyinkinga evamile yokuziphatha kwentsha. Ngezinye izikhathi baqamba amanga ukuze bagweme ukungena enkingeni futhi, ngezinye izikhathi, balula iqiniso ukuze babheke abangane babo okuhle.
Izizathu Eziyisikhombisa Ukuthi Ukukhohlisa Kubi
Kubalulekile ukugcizelela ukubaluleka kokuthembeka. Khuluma nengane yakho ngemiphumela evela ekuqambeni amanga. Nazi amaphuzu okukhuluma awusizo ongawasebenzisa uma ukhuluma ngezingozi zokulala nomntanakho:
- Amanga aphula ukwethemba. Ukuthembela kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu kubazali ukuba babe nezingane zabo, ikakhulukazi uma ingane ifuna amalungelo amaningi. Yenza ingane yakho iveze ukuthi uma elele ngezinto ezincane-njengokungathi unomsebenzi wesikole noma cha-ngeke ukwazi ukumethemba ngezinto ezinkulu, njengokungena nabangani noma kumcimbi.
- Kuwuphawu olubalulekile lomlingisi olumele luthembeke. Khuluma nomntanakho ngokubaluleka kokubonakala sengathi uthembekile. Abantu abathembekile bathola imithwalo yemfanelo eyengeziwe kanye namalungelo, okubalulekile ukuze bakwazi ukufeza okuningi ekuphileni.
- Ukukhohlisa akusebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi ngendlela ocabanga ukuthi kuyokwenza. Iningi lentsha ecabanga ukuthi amanga azobahola ekuhluphekeni, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukukhumbuza ingane yakho ukuthi kukhona ithuba elihle lokuthi uzobanjwa uma ekhohlisayo, ngaleyo ndlela elahlekelwa ithemba futhi kumele aqale kusukela kwesikwele eyodwa ukuze abuyele emuva.
- Ngezinye izikhathi ukuqamba amanga kuyisimo senkinga enkulu. Tshela ingane yakho ukuthi ukuqamba amanga kukubangela ukuba ukhathazeke ngalokho okunye okuqhubekayo. Ukukhohlisa kungase kube umzamo wokufihla iphutha elikhulu noma inkinga enkulu.
- Ukukhohlisa kuhlanganisa ukucindezeleka. Uma ingane yakho inomshini oqinile wokuziphatha , ukungathembeki cishe kuyomcindezela. Nakuba imizamo yakhe yokuqala yokungathembeki ingase ibe ukwenza impilo yakhe ibe ngcono, ukumboza inkohliso kubangela ukucindezeleka okukhulu.
- Amanga amanga aholela kwenye. Ukukhohlisa kuholela emangeni amaningi. Futhi ngokuvamile, ukungathembeki kukhula ngokushesha. Ingane yakho ingathola ukuthi ayikwazi ukulandela ithrekhi yeqiniso futhi amanga akhe angase aphume ngokushesha.
- Amanga azohlanganisa izinkinga zakho, angabenze bahambe. Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho iyazi ukuthi ukuqamba amanga ukuphuma enkingeni kuyomenza kube nenkinga enkulu nakakhulu. Mvuze ngokuthembeka, ikakhulukazi uma kunzima ukuthi akhulume iqiniso.
- Amanga amancane amancane angagwenywa ngokuhlale efuna okuhle esimweni. Khuluma nengane yakho ngokuthi ungabonisa kanjani umusa ngaphandle kokuqamba amanga. Uma umngane ememela ekuphumeni futhi akafuni ukuya khona, asikho isidingo sokuqamba amanga. Mfundise ukumane nje anqabe umnikelo ngaphandle kokulimaza imizwa yomngane wakhe ngokuthi, "Cha, ngiyabonga." Asikho isidingo sokungena emlandweni omude, ongathembeki emzamweni wokwehlisa imizwa yomngani.
- Ukungathembeki kwenza kube nzima ukugcina ubungane obuhle. Tshela ingane yakho ukuthi ibheke okuhle ngaphandle kokusakaza iqiniso. Msize abone ukuthi akudingeki abe yinkohliso, kodwa futhi akufanele abe mhlophe kangangokuthi uhlambalaza . Msize athole ibhalansi ukuze akwazi ukwethembeka ngaphandle kokuhlukunyezwa.
- Ukuqamba amanga ukubuka ama-backfires amahle. Fundisa ingane yakho ukuthi ayidingi ukudala amaleveli amakhulu amenza abonakale ethakazelisayo. Kunalokho, mfundise ukwakha abangane bakhe futhi abasize bazizwe bejabule. Esikhundleni sokuzama ukuphuma kubo ngomzamo wokubajabulisa, uzoba nabangane abangcono uma ethembekile nabo.