Lapho usengumntwana, cishe wababona abazali bakho behamba beya emhlanganweni wenkomfa yabazali nabafundisi esikoleni. Mhlawumbe ukwesaba le mihlangano ngenxa yokwesaba owacabanga ukuthi uzothola kamuva. Noma mhlawumbe ubheke phambili ekubukeni ubuso bakho kwabazali emva kokuzwa izinto ezinhle uthisha wakho azokusho.
Kungakhathaliseki okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho okudlulile, wena kuphela umqondo ongaqondakali wenkomfa yomzali-uthisha konke okwenzekayo nokuthi kwenzekani emhlanganweni onjalo.
Njengoba manje ungumuntu omdala futhi unesibopho sokubamba iqhaza kulezi zenzakalo, ake sichaze ukuthi yini ongayilindela ngesikhathi sombuthano womzali-uthisha.
Iyini Ingqungquthela Yomzali Nomfundisi?
Ingqungquthela yomzali-uthisha ngumhlangano phakathi kwabazali bomfundi nothisha noma othisha, ukuze baxoxe ngenqubekela phambili yentuthuko yengane, emphakathini nasemayelana nokuziphatha okulindelekile eklasini. Ezinye izihloko, ezifana nomsebenzi wesikole , izinselele ezingokomzwelo, noma izinkinga nabangani, zingase zivele.
Uthisha wengane yakho kufanele ahlangane nomzali ngamunye ngosuku olulodwa. Ezinye izikole zihlukanisa isikhathi futhi zinikeze izingqungquthela ntambama nakusihlwa. Isikhathi esichithwa ngabanakekeli bomntwana ngamunye sivame ukulinganiselwa kumaminithi angu-10 kuya kwangu-15 ngakho-ke sihloniphe isikhathi sabanye abantu futhi ugcine ingxoxo kuze kube sekugcineni.
Okushiwo yiNgqungquthela Nendlela Yokulungisa
Izingqungquthela ezinhle kakhulu zabazali nabafundisi zilandela i-ajenda ehleliwe. Uthisha kufanele abe nezibonelo zomsebenzi wesikole wengane yakho, noma yiziphi izikole zokuhlolwa ezifanele, nokubheka iqhaza lokufunda kwezingane, umsebenzi wezemfundo nokukhula komphakathi okuzokwabelana nawe.
Njengomzali, kuyasiza ukulungiselela imibuzo ethile kumhlangano wothisha nganoma yini edidekile noma ephakamisa ukukhathazeka phakathi nezinyanga ezimbalwa ezedlule zesikole. Futhi, qaphela isikhathi osichitha nothisha. Uma ungeke uthole yonke imibuzo yakho ephendulwayo cela umhlangano noma ucingo ngesikhathi esisodwa.
Ukuvama
Cishe uzoba nezinkomfa zabazali nabafundisi ezihleliwe njalo noma ezimbili njalo ngonyaka, njengendlela yokuziphatha, ukuhlala uvuselelwe ngemfundo yengane yakho. Hlola ikhalenda yesikole ukuze ukwazi ukuhlela kusengaphambili wena kanye nomunye wakho obalulekile ukuya khona.
Kungase kube okungafani nalokho uma ingane yakho ihlukunyezwa ngokwezemfundo noma ikhona nezinye izinhlobo zezinkinga uthisha angasikisela inkomfa eyengeziwe. Ungesabi lo mcimbi. Esikhundleni salokho, yiphathe njengethuba lokungenelela ekuhlangenwe nakho kwesikole somntwana wakho ngendlela enhle.
Lalela okungenani njengoba ukhuluma, futhi ugcine ingqondo evulekile njengoba ukhuluma nothisha wengane yakho. Phela, ingane oyibona ekhaya ayikho neze into efana nayo kanye nokuziphatha esikoleni.
Ungacela inkomfa ekhethekile yomzali-uthisha uma unenkinga mayelana nentuthuko yengane yakho. Ungase ufune ukucela ingqungquthela yothisha uma ungatholi ulwazi olwanele mayelana nemfundo yengane yakho ngamanothi, ama-imeyili nomsebenzi weklasi obuyisiwe kusuka kumfundisi. Ngokuqinisekile kuyinselele ukujoyina ingqungquthela ngosuku lwakho lomsebenzi, kodwa isikhathi esichithwe manje sizovimbela ukuphazanyiswa esikhathini esizayo uma ingane yakho iqhubeka nesilayidi esingaphansi kwezemfundo.
Indlela Abazali-Abafundisi Abakhombisana Ngayo Njengoba Izingane Zakho Zithuthuka AmaBanga
Ngenkathi izingqungquthela zabazali-uthisha zijwayele ezikoleni zasenkulisa nasesikoleni samabanga aphansi, cishe cishe ziyodlula lapho ingane yakho ikhula. Esikoleni esiphakathi nasesikoleni esiphakeme, ingane yakho iyakwazi ukubhekana nomsebenzi wokufunda kwakhe. Uzothola ulwazi mayelana nezinqubo zekharikhulamu kanye nezikole ezenzakalweni ezifana nokubuyela kusihlwa esikoleni, ubusuku bekharikhulamu futhi uhlangabezane nobusuku bootitshala.
Njengengane yakho ubudala, impendulo oyitholayo kubafundisi bayohlala ngokuyinhloko emibikweni yokuqhubekayo kanye neklasini ehlisiwe kanye nomsebenzi wesikole owutholayo.
Izinhlelo eziningi zesikole zinengosi ye-intanethi ongayisebenzisa ukulandelela inqubekelaphambili yengane yakho ezifundweni, ukuhlolwa, kanye nomsebenzi wesikole. Noma kunjalo, ungabi namahloni ngokucela ingane yakho ukuba ihlanganyele nayo inqubekela phambili yakhe yezemfundo nawe - noma ngisho nokubuza othisha - ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi konke kulandelwa.