Umzali Ucela Ukusizwa Ngokungaqondisi Intsha
Umama ocindezelekile ucela usizo kubhulogi: Nginendodakazi eneminyaka engu-17 ebalekele okungenani izikhathi ezingu-10 eminyakeni emibili edlule. Njalo lapho ehamba, ngilinde amahora angu-48 bese ngibiza amaphoyisa. Ngikhathazeke kakhulu ngalokhu futhi nginamathela kulo mzuzu ngento okufanele ngiyenze. Akasekho ekhaya njengoba ngibhala lokhu. Ungibize futhi uma enza, wenza njengokungathi akukho okwenzekile.
Manje wenqaba ukuza ekhaya futhi angikwazi ukuthi yini enye okufanele ngiyenze. Ngimthanda ngayo yonke inhliziyo yami, ngimenzele ukwelulekwa ekhaya kanye nokwelapha okwelashwa, uvele nje engcolile futhi ufuna ukwenza izinto ngendlela yakhe. Imithetho ayilandelwa nhlobo. Into encane kunazo zonke, njengokungafani nokusebenzisa ifoni noma ukuthi ayikho emdlalweni webhola ngoba wayenenkinga esikoleni noma esikoleni esinqunyiwe ngalolo suku, kuyoholela kuye noma ngemuva kokushiya esikoleni futhi wenze lokho engikusho ukuthi cha. Ngisekupheleni kokukhethwa kwami futhi ngeke abe ngu-18 kuze kube ngu-Agasti ozayo. Ngithandazela kakhulu indodakazi yami nokuphepha kwayo.
Impendulo kaKathy: Kunezinyathelo eziningana okudingeka uzithathe ukuze uqinisekise ukuphepha kwendodakazi yakho. Ukuziphatha kwakhe akuphelelanga futhi uthola ubunzima bokubhekana nentsha enesineke futhi ehlukumezeka kakhulu.
Njengoba isinyathelo sokuqala sithole indodakazi yakho ibe yindawo yokuhlala yesikhashana lapho ezobe iphephile khona lapho usebenza ukuze uthole lesi simo ngaphansi kokulawula.
Khona-ke sekuyisikhathi sokuxoxisana inkontileka yokuthi bobabili ningaphila. Sebenza nomthandi womndeni ukuthuthukisa imithetho ebhaliwe yokuhlala endlini yakho, ukufaka akukho ukugijima. Lapho intsha ingenayo emininingwaneni yesakhiwo abalindeleke ukuba baphile ngokuvumelana nemigomo.
Khumbula ukuthi ukuziphatha kwentsha yakho kuyisibonakaliso sokuntuleka kokulawula ozizwayo ngaphakathi.
Uma imithetho isungulwe inselele yakho elandelayo ukusiza ukubhekana nezinkinga engakwazi ukubhekana nazo. Njengoba indodakazi yakho iselashwa ukwelashwa futhi unomlando omude wokwenza lokho akufunayo, ungasichitha isikhathi sokuthola usizo kumhlengikazi womndeni ukuze uthole intombazane yakho ethintekile ibe yindawo yokulashwa.
Kuloluhlobo lwezinhlelo zokwelapha kuyoba nzima ngaye ukuthi abaleke futhi angakwazi ukubhekana nezinkinga zangempela ngemuva kwakhe kokuziphatha kokulawula. Uma ephendulela 18 ngeke isabe isinqumo sakho sokumthola ekwelapheni. Njengomdala omdala, indodakazi yakho izothola usizo kuphela uma ikhetha ukwenza kanjalo.
Lesi yisimo esinzima ukubhekana nayo, indodakazi yakho inenhlanhla yokuba nomzali okhathazekile ngaye futhi ezama kanzima ukumsiza. Ngithemba ukuthi lolu lwazi luyasiza, ngitshele ukuthi lokhu kusebenza kanjani.
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