Amathiphu Awusizo Kubazali Abanemikhakha Entsha
Intsha ebalekelayo ayibi. Benze isinqumo esibi. Bazibophezele ekucindezelekeni ukuthi bazizwa isidingo sokubalekela. Esikhundleni sokubhekana nezinkinga zabo futhi bexazululwe, bakhetha ukugijima kuwo.
Sidinga ukufundisa ingane yethu ukuthi ingabhekana kanjani nezinkinga zabo, ngisho noma inkinga yethu. Uma benamathuluzi afanele ukulungisa ezinye izinto ezingase zenzeke empilweni yabo, ingcindezi iyanciphisa, futhi akusadingeki ukuba babalekele.
Wonke umntwana oye wazama noma uyazi enye intombazane ebalekile.
Angizange ngihlangabezane nentsha kepha engazi ukuthi kukhona okuhlangenwe nakho komuntu okubalekela. Lokhu kungaba inkinga yangempela, kucatshangelwa ukuthi intsha eningi izothokozisa isipiliyoni.
Awukwazi ukuwavala.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungathanda ukwakha udonga obakuzungezile, kungcono ukukhetha noma ukuphuma umnyango. Inkulumo engiyisebenzisayo, "Ayikho imigoqo kulezi zindiza, futhi iminyango ivala abantu ngaphandle." Lokhu kunzima, futhi ngiyakwazi, kodwa futhi kuyiqiniso kakhulu. Njengomzali, ngingaba nethente lokuphepha, ibhokisi lamathuluzi kanye nesibhagi esikhukhumezayo ngokomzwelo, kodwa nginqabe ukubekwa uchungechunge.
Angifuni ukuba bahambe. Ayikho into abangayenza kuze kube yilapho ngifuna ukuba bahambe. Intsha yami yazi lokhu ngoba ngibatshela ngamazwi futhi angabi ngamazwi.
Abazali abasha ababalekela abazali ababi.
'Ucwaningo olwenziwa yi-National Runaway Switchboard yezingane ezibiza inkonzo lukhombisa ukuthi cishe amaphesenti angu-16 okubalekela ahlukumezekile ngokomzimba, ngokomzwelo noma ngokobulili.' (Ukuthatha inkinga enkingeni yokubalekela, nguGary Miller) Izingane zokuhlukunyezwa zivame ukunamathela futhi zingagijimi kuleso simo.
Uma intsha yakho igijima:
Shayela amaphoyisa ngokushesha. Ungalindi amahora angu-24, yenzeni ngokushesha. Cela abaphenyi bangenele ingane yakho kwisikhungo seNational Crime Information Centre (NCIC). Asikho isikhathi sokulinda sokungena kwi-NCIC kwabantwana abangaphansi kweminyaka engu-18. Thola igama nenombolo yebheji yesiphathi okhuluma naye.
Phinda ubuyele kaningi.
Shayela wonke umuntu ingane yakho yazi futhi ibhalise usizo lwabo. Sesha yonke indawo, kodwa ungashiyi ifoni yakho ingalindelwe.
Cinga igumbi lakho lesikhukhunjwana nganoma yini engakunika ulwazi mayelana nokuthi uya kuphi. Ungase futhi ufune ukuhlola ibhilidi yakho yefoni nganoma yiliphi izingcingo okungenzeka zenze kamuva.
Shayela i-National Runaway Switchboard 1-800-786-2929 noma i-1-800-RUNAWAY, ungashiya umlayezo wengane yakho nabo. Baxhaswa yiBhodi Yomndeni Nezinsizakalo Zezokuphathwa Kwezingane Nezinkambiso, uMnyango WezeMpilo waseMelika kanye Nezinsizakalo Zabantu.
Lapho Ingane Yakho Ifika Ekhaya:
Thatha ikhefu kusuka komunye nomunye.
Ungaqala ukukhuluma ngakho ngaso leso sikhathi. Imizwelo yakho iphezulu kakhulu kuleli phuzu ukuze uthole noma iyiphi engxoxweni. Hamba izinkomba ezimbili ezihlukene kuze kube yilapho usubili uthola ukuphumula.
Buza futhi ulalele.
Kungani baphuma? Ungase ufune ukuhlola umthetho noma amabili ngemuva kokukhuluma nabo, kodwa ungenzi njalo ngenkathi ukhuluma nale nkulumo. Batshele ukuthi uzimisele ukucabanga ngakho, futhi uzobazisa.
Khuluma!
Batshele indlela ozizwa ngayo ngokuya kwabo, babatshele ukuthi bakulimaza ngokushiya. Bazise ukuthi ayikho inkinga wena, ndawonye ongeke ukwazi ukuyixazulula. Uma bezwa sengathi ukugijima kungase kuxazululwe okuthile, baxoxe nabo kuqala, ungakwazi njalo ukunikeza ezinye izinqumo, ngakho bangenza isinqumo esingcono.
Thola usizo.
Uma lesi kungeyona okokuqala noma unenkinga yokukhuluma lapho bebuya, sekuyisikhathi sokucela usizo. Lokhu kungaba ngumuntu ohlonishwa ngumntanakho, ie umama noma umalume. Noma ungase ufune ukufuna usizo lochwepheshe , indawo eyodwa yokuhlola inthanethi ikhulisa Intsha Yanamuhla.