Injongo yokuphila ibalulekile kulezi zintsha
Izingane ezinezinwele zivame ukuzwela kakhulu futhi, ngenxa yalokho, zivame ukubhekana nokucindezeleka okukhona . Funda kabanzi mayelana nalolu hlobo lokucindezeleka nokuthi lubonakala kanjani kubantwana abanezintandokazi nabanye ngokubuyekezwa.
Kuyini Ukucindezeleka Okukhona?
Ukucindezeleka okukhona kwenzeka lapho umuntu ehlangana nezinkinga zokuphila ezifana nokuphila, ukufa, izifo, inkululeko nokucindezelwa.
Umuntu obhekene nokucindezeleka okukhona kukhona imibuzo yokuphila futhi ngokuvamile uzizwa kungenalutho. Ngenkathi abanye abantu bengase babe nalolu hlobo lokucindezeleka ngemva kwesenzakalo esithile esibuhlungu, njengokufa komuntu othandekayo, abantu abanesipho bangase bahlupheke ngokuzenzakalelayo; okungukuthi, akukho mcimbi ovelayo owenzayo.
Okwenza izingane ezinezintandane zithathwe ukucindezeleka okukhona
Izingane ezinezinwele zingabhekana nokucindezeleka okukhona lapho kuneminyaka engamahlanu ubudala. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, izingane zingase ziqale ukuqala ukuthi zikhona ukuthi azifi. Ukufa kwesilwane, ilungu lomndeni noma isenzakalo esibuhlungu esivela encwadini noma ezindabeni kungenza ingane ikwazi ukufuna ukwazi ngokufa. Ngenxa yalokho, ingane enomsebenzi ingase iqale ukukhathazeka ngokufa futhi ibuze nencazelo yokuphila. Kodwa, njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, kungenzeka kube khona umcimbi okwenza kube nzima ukungena kwengane encane ekhona.
Abantu abanesipiliyoni bazo zonke ubudala banezici eziyingqayizivele ezingase zenze zisengozini ekucindezelekeni okukhona.
Isibonelo, aziqapheli kuphela imvelo futhi abone indlela abantu nezindawo ezixhunyaniswe ngayo emhlabeni wonke, baphinde bakhiphe ukungabi nabulungisa, ukuhlukumeza abanye nokuhlukunyezwa kwamandla. Ngenxa yokuthi abantu abanesipiliyoni bazizwa benesithakazelo ezindabeni ezinjalo, bangazizwa bengenathemba lapho abanye bebonakala bengakhathazeki ngokucindezelwa, impi, ubumpofu nokungabi namakhaya.
Ukungaboni kahle kwamanye amazwe ezindabeni zomhlaba kungabangela izingane ezinezintuthwane nabantu abadala ukubuza umqondo wokuphila. Ngaphezu kwalokho, iqiniso lokuthi abantu abasemazweni asathuthuka bazalwa emibhalweni abantu abaningi eNtshonalanga abangakwazi ukuyiqonda bangase bahole abantwana abanesiphiwo sokungabaza ukufaneleka kwendawo yonke.
Indlela Abazali Abangasiza Ngayo
Azikho izimpendulo ezilula emibuthanweni eminingi imibuzo enezingane ezineziphiwo eziphathelene nezwe, kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi abazali abanezingane ezinesipho kufanele baxoshe ukukhathazeka kwabo. Abazali bangasiza izingane ezinamakhono, kuqala futhi ngokubaluleka, ngokuqinisekisa imizwa yabantwana babo futhi bangabagxeka ngokuba "ababucayi kakhulu."
Bangasiza futhi izingane zithole izinsiza zokusiza ukuze zisekele noma zenze ukuba zibandakanye emsebenzini wokuzithandela ekhiphe isobho noma indawo yokuhlala. Ukubuyisela emuva ngalezi zindlela kungasiza izingane ezinezintono zizwe sengathi ziyingxenye yesisombululo kunengxenye yenkinga.
Lapho Ukucindezeleka Okukhona Kuqhubeka
Uma ingane yakho enekhono ibonakala ingaxilisi ngemva kokuzindla ngenjongo yokuphila, ilahlekelwa isithakazelo kumigomo yakhe evamile noma iqala ukuhoxisa emndenini nabangane, kubalulekile ukuthola usizo. Qaphela ingane yakho ukubona ukuthi ingabe ihlangabezana nezinguquko ekudleni noma imikhuba yokulala, ikhala kalula noma ivame ukukhathazeka.
Intsha ecabanga ukuzibulala idinga ukungenelela ngokushesha. Phatha lesi sibonakaliso sokucindezeleka njengesimo esiphuthumayo sezokwelapha.
Ngisho noma ingane yakho inezimpawu ezinzima zokucindezeleka, ingcweti yezempilo yengqondo ingaba yesevisi. I-psychotherapist ingasiza ingane ukuhamba ngemizwa yakhe yokucindezeleka nokukhathazeka ngokuphila nezwe.