Isikole samanje (noma i-prekindergarten) yisikhathi esibanzi esichaza ukuchaza imfundo esekelwe ekufundiseni izingane zakuqala. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi imfundo yasenkulisa esemgangathweni iveza inzuzo ekufundeni nasekuthuthukiseni kwengane, ikakhulukazi ezinganeni ezihluphekile. Kodwa e-US, inani nezinhlobo zezingane zasenkulisa ziyahlukahluka kakhulu-ezinye izingane ziya emnyakeni owodwa wezinsuku zasenkulisa ngaphambi kokungena enkulisa; abanye bangosuku olugcwele, izilungiselelo ezifana nesikole eziqala eminyakeni engu-2; ezinye izingane azikho esikoleni.
Ngaphezu kokuzikhethela ukuthi bangene esikoleni samabanga aphansi noma cha, baneminyaka engakanani ubudala nokuthi bahlala isikhathi esingakanani, abazali banamafilosofi ahlukene okufundisa - njengoMontessori, izinhlelo zokudlala, noWaldorf. Kubazali, inqubo yokunquma okungcono kakhulu encane yakho uma ifika emfundweni yezingane zakudala ingaba nzima. Ukuze uqalise, uLaura Gradman, umeluleki wezobuchwepheshe onelayisensi, umcebisi wezemfundo, nomnikazi weChicago Preschool Pro, unikeze amathiphu okukusiza ukuba ufunde lezi zikhetho.
Ukucabangela Komndeni
Nakuba bonke abazali befuna okungcono kakhulu kwabantwana babo, kulungile ukukhetha ngokuphathelene nesenkulisa esekelwe izidingo zomkhaya wonke, hhayi nje kuphela kwengane.
Ngokusho kukaGradman, osiza imindeni ngezinqubo eziyinkimbinkimbi zokungenisa izikole zasenkulisa eChicago, "Abantu bayangibuza ngaso sonke isikhathi, 'Iyiphi iminyaka engcono kakhulu yokuqala zasenkulisa?' Ngokwethembeka, impendulo yami ithi, 'Kuncike kulokho okusebenza emndenini wakho.' "
Lokhu kungasho ukuthi uma ulungele ukwamukela umntwana omusha emndenini, ingane encane ehlala ekhaya nomama noma ubaba isikhathi esigcwele ingase izuze ohlelweni lwezinsuku zasenkulisa yesikhashana. Noma, ingane ehlala esikhungweni sezinsuku zokunakekelwa ekhaya ingase ilungele uhlelo olwengeziwe lwekharityhulam. Ngokuvamile, izinketho zasenkulisa zingasuswa kalula ngokusekelwa isikhathi eside futhi sikwazi ukuhlinzeka ngosizo lwezingane, ikakhulukazi uma umndeni wakho unabazali ababili abasebenza.
Ukulungela kwangasese
Izingane ezincane ezifaka izinhlelo zasenkulisa zivamise ngezigaba ezihlukene kakhulu zentuthuko, ezingenza umsebenzi wakho njengomzali uzame ukucacisa ukulungela ukulungele ingane yakho yasenkulisa. Kodwa qiniseka ukuthi izinhlelo eziningi zasenkulisa zilindele ukuthi izingane zibonise izindlela eziningi zokuziphatha ezifanele nentuthuko.
"Uzobona ukuziphatha okunamandla esikoleni sasenkulisa, okuyinto enengqondo ngoba lapho uneminyaka engu-3 ubudala, ubheka ingane eyazalwa ngoSepthemba futhi uyiqhathanise nengane eyazalwa ngo-Agasti olandelayo," kusho Gradman. "Eminyakeni emithathu, omunye wabo ube nezinyanga ezingu-11 ngaphezulu ukuze afunde ukwenza izinto. Kulungile. Izikole eziningi zibheke lokho njengokuhlukahluka kokuhlangenwe nakho kanye nobubanzi ngokuya kulokho abantwana abakwaziyo. Izingane zonke ziletha into ehlukile etafuleni. "
Izidingo Ezikhethekile noma Ezihlukile
Akuzona zonke izinkolo zasenkulisa ezidalwa ezilinganayo. Ngenkathi ingane yakho ingase ibe "ilungele" yasenkulisa, kungenzeka ukuthi ayihambisani kahle nayo yonke inqubo yokufundisa esemncane lapho. Ezinye izinhlelo zingase zithuthukise ngokwengeziwe ingane engacacile futhi isethuliwe ngaphezulu; ezinye izinhlelo zingase zibe nokubekezela okwengeziwe kwengane encane engakafundile ukuzithiba ngezinye izindlela zokuziphatha.
Izinkulisa zasemakhaya, ezithinta imindeni ezidinga usizo olubanzi olusekela izingane ngezinselele zokuthuthukisa, ziyatholakala. Kubalulekile ukuhlangana nabothisha nabaphathi ukukhuluma ngezinkathazo zakho bese unquma ukuthi uhlelo lwezingane zasenkulisa lukulungele yini ingane yakho.
I-Potty Training Factor
Ngezinye izikhathi kungase kubonakale sengathi ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi yi-stick lapho ingane yakho yokulungele ukufundela esikoleni isilinganiswa khona. Futhi ngenkathi ezinye izikole zisho ibhizinisi uma kuziwa ukwamukela kuphela izingane ezingasebenzisa le potty, ezinye zizinzima kakhulu kanti ezinye izinhlelo zizokusiza ekuqeqesheni.
"Ezinye izikole zizokuthi, 'Sizosebenza nawe futhi sisize ingane yakho ishintshe uma inengozi.' Kodwa abanye ngeke. Lo mbuzo okufanele uhlale uwubuza uma ungena esikoleni samabanga aphansi, "kusho uGrdman.
Kubuye kuncike ekutheni ingane yakho ingena esikoleni zasenkuleni. Ngokusho kukaGradman, izinhlelo eziqala ngo-3 zivame ukuthi ingane yakho iqeqeshe imithi, kodwa uma uhlelo luqala ngo-2, akuyona into esikoleni esiyoyifuna.
Uma ingane yakho ihlukunyezwa nokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi, into engcono kakhulu okufanele uyenze ukubuza isikole.
"Ngingathi, 'Sisebenza kanzima kuso, kodwa isikole siyeza ngenyanga. Ingabe lokhu kuyinkimbinkimbi futhi kuyashesha, kudingeka kuqeqeshwe ngamanzi, noma uzimisele ukusiza ingane yami ishintshe uma ingozi? '"Kusho uGrdman.
Amafilosofi ezemfundo
Njengoba abazali beqala ukubheka izinkolo zasenkulisa, cishe bazohlangana namafilosofi ahlukene ezemfundo - i-Montessori, i-Waldorf, i-academic, i-play-based kanye nefilosofi entsha esaziwa ngokuthi "ingenaschooling," ingenye yezinqumo ezithandwa kakhulu.
" Ngomntwana oneminyaka engu-3, kunzima ukwazi ukuthi yini engase ibenzele yona. Ngokuvamile, ngeluleka abazali ukuba bakhethe ukuthi yini ehlala nabo, "kusho uGridman.
Ifilosofi evamile yezingane zasenkulisa isekelwe ekudlaleni, okuyisikhathi sevulethi yefilosofi eqhubekayo yemfundo okucwaningwayo okubonisa ukuthi iyona ephumelela kakhulu kunomkhakha wezemfundo noma wendabuko. Esikhathini sesimiso esisekelwe esikoleni sokuqala, ukudlala ekilasini kuhlanganisa amathoyizi nezindawo ezikhuthaza izingane ukuba zisebenzise imicabango yazo futhi zihlanganyele emisebenzini ehlukahlukene. Nakuba kungase kubonakale sengathi "badlala nje," izingane empeleni zithola ukuxazulula izinkinga , izibalo zakuqala nokufunda nokubhala, namakhono omphakathi.
Kodwa wazi kanjani ukuthi yikuphi okubuyisana nawe?
"Ngikhuthaza amaklayenti ukuba afunde ngefilosofi noma isitatimende sezithunywa kwiwebhusayithi yesikole," kusho uGradman. "Ngisho noma bengayazi amafilosofi ahlukene ngamagama, vele ufunde ngoba kuzokunikeza ukuqondisisa ukuthi othisha baxhumana kanjani nengane yakho, ukuthi bayokuyala kanjani ingane yakho, ukuthi yini abayilindele, ukuthi usuku luhlelwe kanjani , konke. Uma usufundile ukuthi uzobe uhlobo lwama-resonate nawe noma cha. "