Okwenza izingane ezinezintuthwane zingase zibheke njengezicabange kakhulu
Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sasePoland uKazimierz Dabrowski sathola izindawo ezinhlanu lapho izingane zibonisa khona ukuziphatha okujulile, okubizwa nangokuthi "ukukhululeka" noma "ukuphakama okukhulu". Ziyi-psychomotor, izinzwa, imimoya, ingqondo, nokucabanga. Izingane ezinezinwele zivame ukuba nezinhloso eziningi, nakuba ngokuvamile kuvamile.
Ingabe ingane yakho isikhalaza mayelana nokuhlangana kwamasokisi akhe?
Beka izandla zakhe phezu kwezindlebe zakhe lapho i-movie iqala emidlalo yaseshashalazini? Unenkinga yokuhlala uhlale? Thola ishukumiso sokukhala izinyembezi ngomculo noma umsebenzi wobuciko? Lezi zibonakaliso ze-overexcitabilities (OE).
I-Psychomotor
I-overexcitability ye-psychomotor ivame kakhulu kubantwana abanesiphiwo. Kubonakala ngokuyinhloko ngamaningi aphezulu wamandla. Izingane ezine-OE zibonakala zihamba njalo. Ngisho njengezingane, zidinga ukulala kancane kunezinye izingane. Njengabantu abadala, bayakwazi ukusebenza amahora amaningi ngaphandle kokukhathala.
Izingane ezine-OE nazo zingase zingakhishwa njenge-ADHD. Kodwa ngenkathi bekwazi ukusebenza, banamakhono okugxila ngokugxila ngaphandle uma bengakhuthazwa ngokwengqondo. Ukuntuleka kwengqondo kungaba yinkinga kulaba bantwana esikoleni.
Isibonakaliso esiyinhloko salokhu kuqina kuyinqwaba yamandla. Izingane ezinezimo eziphuthumayo zokucindezeleka kwengqondo zivame ukuhlolisiswa nge-ADHD ngoba izici zifana.
Zingafaka:
- Inkulumo esheshayo
- Ukuziphatha okuphazamisayo
- Ukuncintisana
- Ukukhuluma ngokucindezela
- Ukuhlela okuphoqelekile
- Imikhuba emibi kanye nama-tics
- Okuthandayo isinyathelo esisheshayo nemidlalo
- Ukuveza imizwa yemvelo
- Ukulala
Okuvamile
Isibonakaliso esiyinhloko salokhu kuqina ukuqwashisa okuphakanyisiwe kuzo zonke izinzwa ezinhlanu: ukubona, iphunga, ukunambitha, ukuthinta, nokuzwa.
Izingane ezinomthelela omkhulu wokuziphatheka komzimba zingagula ngenxa yephunga lokudla okuthile noma, njengabantwana, zizonda ukuhamba ngotshani ezinyaweni zazo. Injabulo abayithola ekuthandeni nasekutheni ukudla okunye kungabangela ukuba badle ngokweqile.
Uma ingane yakho inomthwalo wokuziphendulela ngokwemvelo, ungabona ezinye zalezi zimfanelo:
- Ukuqonda ubuhle, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kubhaliwe, umculo, ubuciko noma imvelo, kuhlanganise nothando lwezinto ezifana nobucwebe
- Ukuzwela ukuthunga, ukuthanda, noma ukugqoka kokudla
- Ukuzwela kokungcola
- Ukuzwela okuthinta inhliziyo (ukukhathazeka ngezinto ezithile esikhumbeni, amathegi okugqoka)
- Ukulangazelela injabulo
- Udinga noma ufisa induduzo
Ubuhlakani
Lokhu okunamandla yiwona owaziwa kakhulu kunabantwana abanamakhono. Kubonakala ngemisebenzi yengqondo. Izingane ezihola ngale ndlela zibonakala zicabanga njalo futhi zifuna izimpendulo zemibuzo ejulile. Ngezinye izikhathi isidingo sabo sezimpendulo sizobafaka enkingeni esikoleni lapho ukubuza kwabo uthisha kungahle kubonakale sengathi kuyinselele. Bangase babonise amaningana kulezi zici:
- Isifiso esijulile
- Uthando lwolwazi nokufunda
- Uthando lokuxazulula izinkinga
- Ukufunda kwe-Avid
- Ukubuza imibuzo edingayo
- Ukucabanga kwemfundiso
- Ukucabanga okuhlaziya
- Ukucabanga okuzimele
- Ukugxila, ikhono lokugcina umzamo wokuhlakanipha
Ukuzicabangela
Isibonakaliso esiyinhloko salokhu kuqina kuyidlala yamahhala yomcabango. Imicabango yabo ecacile ingabangela ukuba bacabange ngeso lengqondo ukuthi kungenzeka kangakanani kunoma yisiphi isimo. Kungabenza bangabi namathuba noma bahlanganyele ezimweni ezintsha. Ungabona ukuthi ingane yakho ibonisa:
- Amaphupho ajwayelekile
- Ukwesaba okungaziwa
- Ukuzijabulisa okuhle
- Ukucabanga komlingo
- Uthando lwezinkondlo, umculo nomdlalo
- Uthando lwefantasy
- Ukuhamba phambili
- Abalingani bokucabanga
- Ukubukwa okuningiliziwe
Uzwela
Isibonakaliso esiyinhloko salokhu kanzima ubuzwe obunomzwelo obuhlukile.
Ngezinye izikhathi izingane zikholelwa ngokweqile ngokweqile ngokomzwelo, zikholelwa ukuthi zine-bipolar disorder noma ezinye izinkinga ezingokomzwelo nezinkinga. Ngokuvamile yizingane ezizokhuluma ngazo ukuthi, "Uzwela kakhulu ngokwabo." Ingane yakho ingabonisa lezi zimfanelo:
- Ukucindezeleka okukhulu
- Ukukhathazeka
- Imizwa yecala kanye nomqondo wemfanelo
- Imizwa yokungafaneleki nokungaphansi
- Ukuphelelwa yisikhathi nokwesaba
- Uzungu
- Ukukhathalela abanye
- Umqondo ophakeme wokulungile nokungalungile noma ukungabi nabulungisa nokuzenzisa
- Imemori enamandla yemizwa
- Izinkinga ezilungiswa ukushintsha
- Ukucindezeleka
- Udinga ukuphepha
- Ukusabela ngokomzimba emizwelweni (isisu esiswini esibangelwa ukukhathazeka, isibonelo)
Ukukhomba Ukukhululeka Ukusekela Ingane Yakho
Ungakwazi ukuqonda kangcono ingane yakho enesipho uma ubona amandla abo angakusiza ukuba umzali ophumelelayo futhi osekelayo. Isibonelo, uma ingane yakho ikhululekile ngokomzwelo, uyazi ukuthi uzoba nesikhathi esinzima "nje ukungazinaki" ukuklolodela noma ukuxhaphaza. Kungase kudingeke usizo olungaphezulu ekulawuleni ukusabela kwakhe ekuziphatheni okulimazayo kwabanye.
Lezi zinzwa ziyingxenye yombono omkhulu, inkolelo yokuhlakazeka okuhle , ongayifunda kabanzi mayelana newebhusayithi ethi Positive Disintegration.