U-Kazimierz Dabrowski wayengumqondo wezengqondo wasePoland owadala iTheory of Positive Disintegration, Le ncazelo ihlanganisa lokho uDabrowski akubiza ngokuthi "overexcitabilities" noma "ukuzwela okukhulu," okuvela ezindaweni ezinhlanu ezahlukene: ukuqonda, ukucabanga, imizwelo , izinzwa ezinhlanu, uhlelo lwe-neuromuscular. Lezi zinhloso ezinhlanu zakha izici eziningi eziqaphela kalula izingane eziningi ezinamakhono.
Kuyini Ukuziphendulela Kwengqondo?
Ukukhululeka kwengqondo kubonakala ngomsebenzi okhudlwana futhi ophuthumayo wengqondo. Kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi kunendaba nokuphumelela kwezemfundo. Esikhundleni salokho, sikhathazeke ngothando lweqiniso futhi sifuna ukuqonda. Izingane ezinezintandane ezinalokhu kukhululeka zingase zingabi yiziqu eziphakeme esikoleni, kodwa zisenamandla kakhulu futhi ziyakuthanda ukufunda.
Izimpawu zalokhu kukhululeka yizinga eliphakeme lokufuna ukwazi, ukugxila okujulile, ikhono lokuzikhandla kwengqondo, kanye nezintshisekelo ezihlukahlukene. Izingane ezinesisindo esinzima kakhulu zivame ukuba abafundi abathanda ukufuna ulwazi. Zibuye zinezinkinga ezinhle kakhulu zezinkinga kanye nesithando sokuhlela.
Lawa bantwana abuye abuze imibuzo ejulile futhi ehlola, imibuzo mayelana noNkulunkulu, ukufa, nencazelo yokuphila, isibonelo. Ziyinkimbinkimbi futhi zikhuluma futhi zingabanjwa kakhulu nezinkinga ezithile, ngokuvamile lezo zihilela izinkinga zokuziphatha.
Abantu bavame ukukholelwa ukuthi ukukhululeka kwengqondo kufana nokuhlakanipha okuphakeme, kodwa akunjalo. Izingane ezinezinkinga ezingqondweni zivame ukuba nesithakazelo kwizehlakalo zamasiko, izinkinga zomphakathi, nokufunda imibono emisha. Izingane ezingenalokhu kukhululeka noma ngezinga eliphansi, zithengela ukuthi zingenalo izithakazelo futhi zingase zivelele ekuhlakanipheni okusebenzayo.
I-Upside ye-Intellectual Overexcitability
Izingane ezinalokhu kukhululeka zibafundi abazimisele futhi abaxazulula izinkinga. Bayiqaphele kakhulu, bebona izinto abanye abangase bazilahle kalula. Bangakwazi ukusekela umzamo wokuqondisisa, ukugcina ukugxila nokugxila - uma bebona umzamo wokufanelekela. Bavame ukuba abahleli abahle kakhulu. Bavame ukuba nezicabange ezizimele futhi bajabulele inkolelo kanye nokucabangela (ukucabanga ngokucabanga). Lezi zimfanelo zingenza labo abanezicwaningi ezihlakaniphile kakhulu abacwaningi.
I-Downside ye-Intellectual Overexcitability
Labo abanalokhu kukhululeka bangacinywa kalula ngomsebenzi esikoleni uma kungabheki inselele ngokwanele. Phela, banesifiso esikhulu futhi bajabule ngokufunda ulwazi olusha. Izingqondo zabo zivame ukusetshenziselwa futhi bakwazi ukubekezela labo abazungezile abangakwazi ukuhambisana nabo. Ngezinye izikhathi ukuphelelwa yisineke kuvela njengokugxekwa okungenangqondo. Bangase baxakeke kakhulu emicabangweni yabo ukuthi bangaphuthelwa lokho abanye abakushoyo - njengotitjhere - khulukhulu nangabe kungabonakali khulu kubo. Bangase futhi baphazamise abanye ngokungalungile ngoba abakwazi ukuqukatha injabulo yabo phezu komqondo.
Lezi zingane zivame ukukhathazeka ukulala ebusuku ngoba azikwazi "ukuvala" ubuchopho bazo.
Ongakwenza Njengomzali
Qonda ukulangazelela okukhulu kwengane yakho wenze konke okusemandleni akho ukumsiza ukuthi afunde lokho akuthandayo. Thuthukisa izifiso zakhe , kodwa futhi qinisekisa ukumethula ngezihloko ezintsha zokufunda. Thatha ingane yakho kumamyuziyamu nama-aquariums, uma kunokwenzeka, kodwa qiniseka ukuhlola izinhlelo zomphakathi zendawo, ikakhulukazi uma ingane yakho isencane.
Ngenkathi izingane ezinezintandokazi zingase zifune ukwazi futhi zifuna ukufunda konke okusemandleni abo, zingase zingakwazi ukuthola izimpendulo zemibuzo yazo. Bazisize bafunde ukuthi bangakwenza kanjani lokho.
Lokho kuhlanganisa ukuthola amasayithi afanele kwi-Inthanethi nokuthola izincwadi kumtapo wolwazi wendawo. Ungase futhi usebenze nengane yakho ukubhala phansi ulwazi oludingekayo ukuze uphendule imibuzo ingane yakho inayo. Ukumsiza ukuthi afunde ukuthi angathola kanjani ulwazi akudingayo uyomnika lokho akudingayo ukuze aqonde imiqondo futhi amvumele ukuba ahlaziye ulwazi oqoqa ngalo.
Khumbuza ingane yakho ukuthi abantu bahlukile. Akuwona wonke umuntu ozoba nesithakazelo ezihlokweni ezifanayo futhi abanye abantu bangathatha isikhathi eside ukuze baqonde imibono. Khuluma nengane yakho mayelana nokuthi ukugxeka kungalimaza kanjani futhi akudingekile.
Qonda ukuthi ingane yakho ingase ibe nesikhathi esinzima sokulala ebusuku, hhayi ngoba inzima, kodwa ngoba ingqondo yakhe ngeke iyeke ukusebenza. Ungase ufune ukushintsha isimiso sakho sesikhathi sokuhlwa ukuze usize uvale ubuchopho bakhe futhi alele.