Okwenza Udinge Ukuphuma Nokwenza Abanye Abangane Namuhla
Ngaphambi kokuba ube nezingane, wachitha isikhathi nomngane wakho womshado, abangane bakho, umndeni wakho kanye nawe. Manje awunaso isikhathi sokulala. Njengamama omama-ekhaya, sivame ukubeka ubungane bethu kumshini wokushisa emuva. Kodwa ubungane kubalulekile ukuhlala emakhaya omama, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi banezingane eyodwa noma eziyisithupha. Ungathengi kubangane bakho ngoba umatasa ukhulisa izingane .
Udinga abangane manje kunanini ngaphambili futhi kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani.
Kulula Ukuzihlukanisa
Ukuphila impilo yomama ohlala ekhaya kwenza kube lula kuwe ukuba uzihlukanise nabantu. Uhlala nabantwana usuku lonke futhi ngalezo zikhathi uma usuka endlini, ngokuvamile uthola ukudla noma ugijime.
Ungaphili ku-bubble. Awukaze udinga ubungane ngaphezulu. Uma usuqala ukuzihlukanisa, usuke uhoxiswa ngokwengeziwe, okungeyona nje isizungu, kungabangela ukushisa komama.
Abangani Bakho Bakuthola Ngoba Bangabo
Akekho ongakwazi ukuqonda ukuthi kukuthini kunokuba umama wakho. Baqonda ukukhungatheka kokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi, izinselele ezinganeni ezingenasici kanye nezinsuku ozizwa uthanda ukuyeka ukuhlala ekhaya.
Yingakho udinga ukuhlela isikhathi senhlalo nabangani bakho okungenani kabili ngenyanga. Hlela ubusuku bamantombazane ukuze uhlale ndawonye.
Ukuchitha isikhathi komunye nomunye kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokukhuluma ngayo okwenzekayo empilweni yakho nomuntu othola wena ngenkathi futhi evuselela imitha yakho yomama ukuze ukwazi ukubhekana nazo zonke izinselele ezinzima zokubeletha ngokukhululeka.
Abangane Bazi Izinto Ozingenayo
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ube ngumzali isikhathi eside kangakanani, ufunda okuthile okusha futhi ungasebenzisa ukuthi kube khona / kwenziwe lowo mlingani eceleni kwakho.
Kungenzeka ube nenhlanhla yokudonswa abadli bekhethele , i- colic nokukhathazeka kokuhlukanisa nabo bonke abantwana bakho abathathu kodwa uma lo wesine efika, uphula yonke into owawuhamba ngayo.
Abangani bakho bayazi izinto ongazi. Futhi uyazi izinto abangazi. Kusukela kuzinkinga zomzali osakazobhekana nazo ekusekeleni isabelomali somndeni, abangani bakho banemithombo enhle yokubambisana imibono futhi babelane ngezixazululo zokuxazulula izinkinga.
Ubuhlobo Kuyisistimu Yokusekela Edingekayo
Ungaba nomngane omkhulu futhi umndeni wakho ukhona kuwe. Kodwa wonke umama ohlala-ekhaya udinga uhlelo lokusekela oluhlanganisa nabangani nabo.
Uma udinga ukwesekwa kwebele , abangani bakho bakhona. Uma ingane yakho encane iphuma ekolishi, abangani bakho bakhona. Banikeza ukusekelwa okudingayo njengomama, owesifazane, umuntu kusukela ngesikhathi abantwana bakho beyingane eminyakeni yakho yegolide uma uqhubeka nokukhulisa ubungane.
Abangani Babuyela Emuva
Awudingi ukukhathazeka ngokuthi obani abangani bakho abakuwo. Bazokuvikela wena kanye nezingane zakho njengokungathi uyingxenye yomndeni wakubo.
Uma lowo mfokazi engakugxeka ngenxa yokuqubuka kwengane yakho emphakathini, abangani bakho baxoshwa kakhulu, sebekulungele ukuzingela le ndoda phansi bese bemamathela ekamelweni eligcwele izingane ezisemakhaleni.
Uma umamazala wakho ebeka amazwana nge-hairstyle yakho entsha, abangane bakho babhale ukuqokwa okulandelayo ku-salon yezinwele ukuze uthole izinwele zakho ezifanayo. Qhubeka ukwakha ubungane bakho futhi uzoba nesimo sakho somuntu siqu ohlale enesibindi sakho.
Abangani Bangakusiza ... Nakho Konke
Akuzona nje abangane abangabangane abakhulu, bangakwazi ukunyuka lapho udinga isandla. Bangasiza nge-carpool, banakekele ezinye izingane zakho uma udinga ukugijima ingane yakho kudokotela wezingane noma nanoma iyiphi enye inombolo yezinto ozenzayo ngokuzungezile ngobungane obuqinile.
Yiqiniso, kuyisihlobo sokunikeza nokuthatha.
Kuzodingeka wenze ingxenye yakho ukusiza abangani bakho futhi kodwa nabangani abafanele, bonke nizojabula ukusebenza ndawonye uma omunye wenu edinga okuthile. Yilokho ubungani bukhona.
Ubuhlobo Buhle Kuwe
Ucwaningo oluningi luye lwaqhutshwa ngokubaluleka kobungane. Ucwaningo lwe-Concordia University lathola ukuthi abantu abanabangane abaningi babhekene nokucindezeleka okungaphansi. Ucwaningo oluvela eMichigan State University lwahlanganisa ubungane nokuthuthukiswa kwempilo nenjabulo. Ucwaningo olulodwa lweBrigham Young University lwathola ukuthi ubungane buhlobene nokuphila kwethu isikhathi eside. Ucwaningo lwalukhombisa ukuthi ama-50% ayenezinkinga zokusinda ngobungane obukhulu ku-arsenal yakho.
Futhi sonke siyazi izinsuku ezithile ukuba umama wokuhlala-ekhaya uzizwa njengomdlalo wokusinda. Yenza izinto zakho zibe nzima futhi uhambe wenze abangane abasha namuhla.