Gwema ukubanjwa ngesikhathi sokuguquka ngalezi zeluleko
Ukuguqulwa ekubeni ngumama osebenzayo wokuhlala kumama ekhaya kungangethusa kakhulu. Njenganoma yikuphi ukuguqulwa okukhulu kunezimanga eziningi ezingase zenzeke ngakho silapha ukukunika amakhanda phezulu. Nazi izinto ezimbalwa okufanele uzicabange ngaphambi kokushiya umsebenzi wakho ukuba ube ekhaya nezingane zakho.
Yiba Isizathu Esicacile Kungani
Ucabanga ukuthi impilo yomama yokuhlala ekhaya izoba njani?
Ingabe kukhona into oyilindele ukuyenza njengokwazi ukuletha izingane epaki noma kunini lapho ufuna khona? Kulukhuni ukubikezela kahle ukuthi impilo izoba kanjani lapho usuhlala ekhaya. Kodwa uma unombono wenza lokhu kuguqulwa kwempilo enkulu kubonakale kunokwenzeka.
Ngokusekelwe embonweni wakho, thola izizathu zakho ezintathu eziphezulu zokuthi kungani ushiya abasebenzi (sebenzisa inqubo yokumaka ingqondo ukuze uthole imibono yakho ephepheni). Akuzona zonke izizathu zakho okudingeka zibiwe nomqashi wakho kodwa zilungile ukwazi enhliziyweni yakho. Ngale ndlela, uma isinqumo sakho siphenduka, noma ubani, uzokwazi ngokujulile ngaphakathi ukuthi kungani uhamba.
Cishe usuhamba ukukhathalela umndeni wakho kodwa kungase kube nezinye izizathu. Mhlawumbe ufuna ukuthatha isikhathi sokuqala umsebenzi omusha noma usushisa futhi awukwazi ukubekezelela ukuhamba. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isizathu sakho singaba yini, qiniseka ukuthi banembile. Kungenzeka ukuthi ubekwe ezweni lokubambisana iminyaka engaphezu kweyishumi ngakho-ke qiniseka ukuthi wenza isinqumo esifanele.
Shiya Umsebenzi NgeNothi Elihle
Uma ushiya umsebenzi ngemigomo emihle ushiya umnyango ovulekile ukubuyela emuva. Ngisho noma wazi ukuthi awufuni umsebenzi wakho omdala emuva uzofuna ukusebenzisa umqashi wakho njengendlela yokubhekisela. Ngakho shiya umsebenzi ngenothi elihle ngokunikeza isaziso semasonto amabili, uqedele wonke umsebenzi wakho obelwe wona, futhi ubonise umusa kubasebenzi bakho.
Uma ukhuluma kahle nabo osebenza nabo qiniseka ukuthi uthi ngiyabonga kulabo abasho kakhulu kuwe. Lokhu kubonga ngokusuka enhliziyweni nokuyiqiniso kufanele kube ukuthi kungani beyingxenye yohlelo lwakho lokusekela nokuthi bakusize kanjani emsebenzini wakho. Abantu bazokhumbula ukuthi wabenza bangazizwa kanjani lokho okwakushoyo.
Buyekeza isabelomali sakho ukuze ukhombise ukuguqulwa kwakho
Uma uzinikela ngokuzithandela ngeke uthole iphakheji yokuhlukanisa kodwa ungakwazi ukuqoqa ukungasebenzi. Lokhu kuxhomeke esimweni sase-US ohlala kuso futhi uma "isizathu sakho esihle" sanele ngokwanele. Ungazama ukufaka isicelo sokungasebenzi futhi ucele icala lakho.
Uma ungeke ukwazi ukuqoqa ukungasebenzi nokuholo lomlingani wakho kungase kusekele indlela yakho yokuphila yamanje oyodinga ukulungisa isabelomali somndeni wakho. Ukuze uqale, uzobe usindisa imali kubhajethi yakho enkulu kakhulu, ukudla kanye negesi. Akuhambanga futhi noma ukudla ngaphandle kwasemini! Ukuze ulondoloze ngisho nakakhulu ngokudla, ungase ube nesikhathi sokuhlelwa kokudla, hlola i-flyer yakho enkulu, bese uzama ukusika amakhuphoni.
Kukhona njalo amafutha emabhajethi wakho angaqedwa. Noma yikuphi ukubhaliselwa kwe-intanethi noma kwe-imeyili kungaqedwa njengezinsiza zokulethwa kokudla, ukubhaliswa kwamavidiyo oku-intanethi, noma ukuthengiswa kwezingubo. Ungamelana nesifiso sokuthenga izinto ku-intanethi ngoba masibhekane nakho.
Kulula kakhulu ngokuchofoza inkinobho ethi "Thenga"!
Igama lomdlalo luyisiyalo. Ngakho ngaphambi kokuthenga isinqumo ngasinye njengoba uzithanda wena uma udinga into noma uma uyifuna . Ukuze unciphise isabelomali sakho, unamathele ezintweni ozidingayo kuphela . Uma kudingeka, thola ngempela ukuthi yini oyidingayo ngempela. Uyomangala lokho ongayithola ngaphandle!
Thola "Me-Time" Nsuku Zonke Usuku Lodwa
Uzoba umuntu oyifunayo kakhulu. Abantu abancane bayobe bekucela njalo ukuthi wenze izinto. Yingakho udinga ukuthola isikhathi, usuku ngalunye, ukuze uzenzele izinto. Lapho oshade naye efika ekhaya athathe inja ukuhamba noma uhambe wenze imizamo ngokwakho.
Noma uma izingane zilala futhi ngaphambi kokuba uqhube nomlingani wakho, funda incwadi noma uzindle.
Ungase ungaboni kodwa uma usebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya uthola isikhathi esiningi kuwe. Unokuhamba kwakho, ukuphumula kwesidlo sasemini, futhi ungakhohlwa izindlu zokugezela ezingaphazanyiswa! Uma usuhlala ekhaya, uzoba nokuphumula okuncane, ubumfihlo kanye nesikhathi sodwa. Ngakho thola ukuzijabulisa okujabulisayo futhi wenze izinhlelo.
Thola i-Side Hustle noma Indlela Yokuhlala Emdlalweni
Kodwa isikhathi eside ufuna ukuhlala ekhaya kuwumqondo omuhle ukuthola indlela yokugcina ikhono lakho lisetha kabusha noma lithola ezintsha. Kungaba yinselele ukubuyela emsebenzini lapho usuphelile kumdlalo okwesikhashana. Futhi, lokhu kungasiza isabelomali semindeni yakho futhi uthole "isikhathi esithile" esiqinisekisiwe.
Ingabe ufuna ukuhlala ufanele futhi usebenzise imfundo yakho ngenkathi usesekhaya? Qala ibhizinisi elihlangene noma uthole umsebenzi wesikhathi esigcwele kusuka ohlobo lwasekhaya lomsebenzi. Lokhu kungakusiza uhlale unolwazi emkhakheni wakho bese usiza ukufihla igebe lesikhathi ekubuyiseni kwakho.
Uke ucabanga ngokushintsha imisebenzi? Ungathatha lesi sikhathi ukubuyela esikoleni, uthole umphakathi ezinhlanganweni ezintsha, noma uthole abathonya emakethe yakho entsha ukulandela. Ngcono nakakhulu ukuthola ulwazi oluthile ngolwazi lwakho olusha ngokuzithandela izinsizakalo zakho enhlanganweni! Lokhu kuzokusiza ukugcwalisa igebe ekubuyiseni kwakho futhi kukunikeze isipiliyoni sempilo yangempela.
Lungela Izinto Okungeke Zihambe Njengoba Kuhleliwe
Uma usendaweni akekho obala ukuthi usuku lwakho luyoba yini. Ngokungafani nokusebenza komsebenzi, lapho uyazi ukuthi uzovuka, uye emsebenzini, wenze imisebenzi yakho, bese ubuyela ekhaya, impilo yokuhlala ekhaya ngezinye izikhathi ingenakulinganiswa.
Ngokuqinisekile, uzokwenza izinhlelo zokwenza izinto, kodwa izingane zinezinyathelo zokuziguqula. I-mantra yakho entsha izoba ukuhamba nokugeleza. Lokhu kuguqulwa kwejubane kungathatha kancane ukuyisebenzisa, kodwa zama ukungadangali uma izinto zingahambi njengoba zihleliwe.
Kukhona nokunye okuningi okuhlala ekhaya (ukuhlanza, izitsha, ukuphumula, ukunakekelwa kwezingane, ukuphinda) futhi usezinyaweni zakho kakhulu usuku lonke. Akekho ozungezile ukukunika ikhefu, ngakho-ke ngitshale emasakeni amasha ukuze unakekele izinyawo zakho!
Khulisa uhlelo lwakho olusha lokusekela
Uma ususebenza uhlelo lwakho lokusekela luqukethe abasebenzi, umndeni, nabanye abomama abasebenza abanempilo yakho. Uma usuhlala ekhaya uzodinga ukungeza abantu abasha ohlelweni lwakho lokusekela oluthola ukuthi uyaphi.
Manje ukuthi uhlala ekhaya uzokhula inethiwekhi entsha. Uzofuna ukuthola amanye amamama nabababa asekhaya kaningi. Kuzoba nezikhathi lapho udinga ukungena noma ukuphonsa ingane yakho endaweni ethile ukuze ungene kudokotela wodwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho uzofuna izingane zakho ukudlala nezinye izingane. Kudinga umzana ukukhulisa umndeni futhi lolu hlelo lokusekela olusha luzokusiza ukuthi ushintsho lube lula ekuphileni kwakho okusha.
Setha Ukulindela Nomngane Wakho
Lena enkulu. Oshade naye kungenzeka angazi ukuthi kunjani ukuhlala ekhaya nabantwana usuku lonke. Yini abalindele ukuthi uzoyifeza nsuku zonke? Qhathanisa ukulindela kwabo nokwakho ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi bafana.
Kungani lokhu kubalulekile? Awusayikusekela umndeni ngokwezezimali (noma okungenani hhayi njengoba wenza njengomama osebenza isikhathi esigcwele). Ngakho-ke ungase uqale ukuzizwa sengathi udinga ukusekela umndeni ngokuncenga noma yikuphi okulindelekile ukuthi umlingani wakho abeke ngoba yiwo osekela wonke umuntu. Lokhu kuyinhloko enkulu yendima engakwazi ukunakwa.
Uma ukulindela kungakutholakali, kusukela ohlangothini olulodwa lwetafula, kuzobabili nizokhungatheka futhi mhlawumbe niphatheke kabi. Awufuni umyeni wakho acabange ukuthi awugcini ohlangothini lwakho futhi akafuni ukucabanga ukuthi uyasetshenziswa. Kodwa awufuni ukuphuza emuva kwakho uzama ukugcina indlu ingenasici ngenkathi ihambisana nezingane zakho. Ukuhlala ekhaya kunomsebenzi omude ozokwenza ukuthi bobabili badinga ukubuyekezwa ukuze kokubili okulindelekile kutholakale.
Iseluleko esisodwa sokugcina, kube lula kuwe. Lokhu kuguquka kungaba yinto encane ngoba kukhona abantu abaningi abahilelekile kulolu shintsho, hhayi nje wena. Izingane zakho, oshade naye, abangani, nomndeni uzokushintsha ngokuhambisana nawe. Nakuba ungase uzizwe sengathi uhlala yedwa nezingane zakho ezingasho ukuthi udinga ukuhamba wedwa. Cela usizo futhi ube lula kuwe uma ungenayo impendulo. Le ndlela yokuphila ifika ngendwangu yokufunda ngakho-ke qiniseka ukuthi uzoyiqeda ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.