Konke Okudingeka Ukwazi Ngayo Ngocansi Ukukhulelwa
Ukwenza abantwana akuyona inkimbinkimbi uma wena nomlingani wakho ninokuzala okuhle. Into ebaluleke kunazo zonke ukulala ocansini uma ukhula kakhulu . Lokhu kuvamise ukujikeleza phakathi nendawo, futhi ngesonto elilodwa ukuya kwesithathu umjikelezo wakho wokuya esikhathini kulabo abane-ovulation njalo. Kunezindlela ezihlukahlukene zokuthola lesi sikhathi .
Noma kunjalo, cishe unemibuzo ngaphezu kwesikhathi. Ingabe kukhona umehluko emkhatsini wezocansi ukuze ubulili obujabulisayo nokukhulelwe? Ingabe ikhona isikhundla? Kuthiwani ngokulala phansi kamuva noma indima ye-orgasm yowesifazane ekuzaleni? Kufanele uhlanganyele kaningi kangakanani ucansi?
Nini Isikhathi Esihle Kokukhulelwa Ngesonto?
Isikhathi sibalulekile uma uzama ukukhulelwa. Abaningi bethu banomuzwa wokuthi esikoleni ukuthi ubulili noma yisiphi isikhathi singakuthola ukhulelwe. Lokhu akulona iqiniso ngokuphelele.
Uyakwazi ukukhulelwa ocansini okwenzeka ngezinsuku ezintathu kuphela ngenyanga. Ngaphezulu, ungase ukhule izinsuku ezingu-7 ngenyanga.
Uma ubhekene nezimpawu zokuvota , lesi yisikhathi esihle sokulala ocansini ukuze ukhulelwe. Ungabona ukuvuthwa usebenzisa izinyathelo eziningi, kufaka phakathi ama-kits predictor kits , ishadi lokushisa lokushisa komzimba , noma ukulandelela umkhondo womlomo wesibeletho .
Kuthiwani uma ungenayo izimpawu ze-ovulation? Ngeke ube yi-ovulating. Lokhu kuyimbangela engabangela ukungabi nabesifazane .
Kufanele Uvame Ukuba Nengane Yokwenza Ucansi?
Omunye umbuzo ovamile wukuthi kufanele uhlale ocansini kaningi kangakanani ukuze ukhulelwe . Eminye imibhangqwana iphuma futhi ilale ocansini nsuku zonke, yonke inyanga. Uma ungena kulokho, ngokuvamile kulungile. Eqinisweni, ngokuvamile umqondo omuhle wobudlelwane bakho ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uhlanganyela ocansini uma ungenayo i-ovulating, ngakho-ke ubulili abuyena umshini womklamo.
Kodwa abantu abaningi bakhathele lolu hlelo, ikakhulukazi uma kuthatha isikhathi esingaphezu kwezinyanga ezimbalwa ukukhulelwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubulili njalo ngosuku olulodwa lungaba yinkinga uma isibalo sakho sezinsikazi siphansi.
Ukulala ocansini kathathu kuya kwesine ngesonto yonke inyanga ende yisicebo esihle. Ngenkathi ungakwazi ukukhulelwa ngokobulili ngemuva kokuvuthwa kwegazi , kungase kube nezinye izinzuzo zobulili ngalesi sikhathi esingavundile.
Ingabe Ukuziphatha Ngokwecansi Kungabe Kubalulekile Uma Uzama Ukukhulelwa?
Isikhundla asinandaba nokuthi izingane zenze ucansi. Uma nje u-ejaculation kwenzeka njengokuseduze komlomo wesibeletho, kuhle ngokwanele.
Kodwa-ke, kukhona impikiswano yokuthi ngabe isithunywa sevangeli (indoda phezulu) singase sibe ngcono kangakanani noma cha.
Ngempela, ungaba nobulili kunoma yisiphi isikhundla. Ukuhlukahluka kungasiza ekuthuthukiseni impilo yakho yobulili, futhi lokho kungakusiza ukubhekana kangcono nokucindezeleka kokuzama ukukhulelwa.
Ingabe Ukulala Ngemva Kokubambisana Ngocansi?
Eminye imibhangqwana iyabuza ukuthi ukulala ngemva kocansi kungakusiza ukuba ukhulelwe , ucabange ukuthi uma uhlala unyakaze isikhathi eside, insimu izoba nethuba elingcono lokufika lapho liya khona.
Kuthatha isidoda phakathi kwemizuzu engu-2 no-10 ukuhamba kusuka emgodini wesibeletho kuya emathangeni we-fallopian (okuyinto lapho bazohlangana khona neqanda.) Nokho, lokhu kuhamba kwenzeka kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usukuma, ulele phansi, noma umile wakho ikhanda.
Akekho oqinisekisayo ukuthi ukulala ngemuva kokuya ocansini kusiza, kodwa-ke, kube nokucwaninga nge- IUI (intrauterine insemination) ukwelashwa okubonisa ukuthi kungasiza.
Uma ufuna ukuzama, hlala ngemuva kwakho imizuzu engu-15 nje emva kocansi. Lokhu kungaphezu kwesikhathi esanele.
Ingabe I-Orgasm Yesiqakathekile Kubalulekile Ingane Yenza Ubulili?
I-orgasm yezinsikazi ayidingekile ukuba ingane iyenze, futhi iningi labesifazane abakhulelwe ngaphandle kwalo. Kodwa ingabe ingasiza?
Ucwaningo alucaci, kodwa ezinye izifundo zibonisa ukuthi zingase zinike amandla wesilisa.
Enye inkolelo ukuthi i- orgasm yesifazane iyasiza ukuhambisa isisu kusuka emgodini wesibeletho kuya emathanjeni omzimba. Enye ukuthi i-orgasm yenza uzizwe ulele, okwandisa izingqinamba zakho zokuhlala ezilinganiselwe ngemuva kocansi (okungahle kungakusiza ngokukhulelwa-bheka ulwazi olungaphezu kwalokhu!)
Ingabe ama-lubricants afana ne-KY Jelly Safe for Sex Conception?
Amakhemikhali womuntu siqu nge-spermicide ayisobala-cha uma kuziwa ocansini yesisu. Kuthiwani ngamafutha agesi? Ngeshwa, amakhemikhali afana ne-KY Jelly awayenawo umuthi onobungane .
Lokhu kuyinkinga ebaluleke kakhulu, ngoba imibhangqwana ephathelene nokuphelelwa yisisu ingase ibhekane nokucindezeleka ngesikhathi socansi, okusho ukuthi amanzi amancane ayaphuma. (Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukungalingani kwe-hormonal kungaholela emcimbini omncane wesibeletho .)
Izindaba ezinhle zikhona izigulantshi ezitholakalayo ezitholakalayo. Ezinye zezinto ezithandwa kakhulu zihlanganisa Pre-Seed, Conceive Plus, ne-Astroglide TTC. Ungasebenzisa futhi i-plain (hhayi iphunga) amafutha omntwana.
Ngingabhekana Kanjani Nokuthandana Ngesidingo Ngesikhathi Sokwelashwa Kwesizalo?
Njengengxenye yokunakekelwa kokuzala, ungatshelwa ukuthi uzoya ocansini (" udokotela ochazwe ngodokotela .") Uma uthatha i-Clomid, udokotela wakho uzokusiza ukuba ukhethe izinsuku ezihamba phambili zokuthuthukisa ukukhulelwa.
Udokotela wakho angase akutshele ukuthi usebenzise ikhi yokuhlelwa kwe-ovulation ekhaya. Ngaphandle kwalokho, angase abone izinsuku zakho ezivundile ngokusebenzisa i-ultrasound negazi ukubikezela ukuvuthwa.
Lokhu kungabangela ukucindezeleka kakhulu kubantu abashadile . Amanye amadoda angase abone ukukhathazeka kokusebenza. Ukubhekana nalokhu, cabanga ukwenza usuku 'lwezocansi zakho ezihleliwe,' ugcine umqondo wokuhleka usulu ngesimo, futhi ube nesineke omunye nomunye.
Ngingayithuthukisa Kanjani Ukuphila Kwami Ngokobulili Manje ukuthi Siyi-TTC (Ukuzama Ukukhulelwa)?
Ukuzama ukukhulelwa kungashintsha impilo yakho yezocansi , ngokuvamile okubi nakakhulu uma uzama izinyanga ezimbalwa (noma iminyaka). Ungase uzizwe uwedwa futhi ukhungathekile.
Kufanele wazi ukuthi kunenkinga ngocansi uma uzama ukukhulelwa kuvamile. Kunezinto ongayenza , noma ukuthuthukisa impilo yakho yobulili.
Kuthiwani Uma Ubulili Bulimaza?
Phakathi kwamaphesenti angu-30 no-50 abesifazane bazobhekana nobulili obubuhlungu ngesikhathi esithile empilweni yabo. Ubulili akufanele bubuhlungu. Uma kubuhlungu, kukhona okungalungile.
Okumangalisa ukuthi owesifazane oyedwa kwabayisishiyagalombili kuphela ozokhuluma nodokotela wabo ngobuhlungu babo.
Yini okufanele uyenze uma ufuna ukukhulelwa kodwa ubulili buyabuhlungu? Yini ebangela ubuhlungu bobulili? Ingabe ingalimaza ukuzala kwakho? Kufanele ukhulume nodokotela wakho mayelana nakho konke lokhu okukhathazayo. Ubulili obubuhlungu abuphazamisi kuphela ubuhlobo bakho kanye nokukwazi ukukhulelwa kodwa kungaba uphawu lwezinkinga ezinkulu.
Uma ubulili bubuhlungu kangangokuba ukulala ngokobulili akunakwenzeka, kunezinye izinketho zokukhulelwa . Kodwa okokuqala, khuluma nodokotela wakho futhi uhlole ngokucophelela. Inhlungu ivame indlela yethu yomzimba yokusitshela ukuthi okuthile akulungile. Lalela lokho okushoyo.
Ngaphansi Kwendlela Yokuzenza Ngayo Ubuntwana
Uma wenza ucansi ukwenza ingane, isinyathelo esibaluleke kunazo zonke yisikhathi. Asiqiniseki ngokuphelele ukuthi isikhundla socansi senza umehluko, uma i-orgasm yesifazane yenza umehluko, noma uma kusiza ukulala phansi kamuva. Kukhona izindlela eziningi zokuthola izinsuku zakho ezivundile kakhulu futhi uhlose labo.
Uma ungakhulelwe futhi uqala ukukhathazeka, khuluma nodokotela wakho. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi ucansi ngaphandle kwenhloso yokwenza umntwana kubalulekile futhi!
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