Okuthi Wonke Umuntu Uyazibuza Kodwa Akalokothi Afune Mayelana ne-Orgasm ne-Fertility
Ukuthi noma i-orgasm yowesifazane ingakusiza yini ukuba ukhulelwe ayifuni kahle. Ngokusobala, ungakhulelwa ngaphandle kwe-orgasm yesifazane. Kwenzeka njalo. Kodwa ingabe i-orgasm yesifazane ingayenza ngcono amathuba akho okukhulelwa?
Abacwaningi baye bazibuza ngenhloso ye-orgasm yabesifazane esikhathini esithile. Abanye bathi nje kumnandi, kanti abanye bathi kuyasiza ngokukhulelwa.
Uma i-orgasm yesifazane ingakusiza ukuba ukhulelwe, ingasebenza kanjani? Ingabe kufanele 'uhambe ngegolide' ngesikhathi ucansi lwezingane ?
I-"Uthola Ukulala Ngokukhululekile" Ithiyori Ye-Female Orgasm ne-Fertility
Kunezizathu ezimbili eziyinhloko zokuthi u-orgasm wesifazane angasiza kanjani ekukhulelwe. Omunye uyaziwa ngokuthi "poleaxe" hypothesis. Le mbono ithi inhloso ye-orgasm yabesifazane ukubenza bazizwe bekhululekile futhi belele ukuze balale phansi kocansi . Umqondo wukuthi lokhu kungasiza insimu ukuba ifinyelele lapho ifika khona kalula.
Kodwa-ke, akucaci ukuthi noma ukulala phansi ngemuva kocansi kungakusiza ukhulelwe. Esicwaningweni esisodwa esasifunda ngokucophelela i-orgasm kanye nokugcinwa kwesidoda, abacwaningi bathola ukuthi ukulala nje kwakungabonakali ukuthuthukisa ukugcinwa kwesidoda. Kodwa ezinye izifundo zisho ukulala phansi kubalulekile. Ukutadisha ukwelashwa kwe- IUI kwathola ukuthi abesifazane abahlala bezingqimba ngemuva kokuqothulwa kwamathuba amaningi bekhulelwe.
I-Upsuck Theory
Enye inkolelo yokuthi i-orgasm yesifazane ingasiza kanjani ekufezeni ukukhulelwa kuthiwa yi-"upsuck" theory. Lesi sizathu sukuthi ukuphazamiseka kwesibeletho sosizo kusiza "ukuncelisa" umuthi ozofakwa emgodini, eduze komlomo wesibeletho . I-orgasm iyasiza ukuhambisa isidoda ngokusebenzisa izibeletho zesisu nesigqila .
Ucwaningo olulodwa lwalinganisa inani lezinambuzane "ukuphuma kwegazi" (ukuthi isilwane siphumelele kangakanani emva kocansi). Bathola ukuthi uma i-orgasm yesifazane yenzeka ngomzuzu owodwa noma ngaphansi ngaphambi kokuba u-ejaculation wesilisa , ukugcinwa kwesidoda kunkulu. Uma i-orgasm yezinsikazi engenziwanga ngaphakathi komzuzu woku-ejaculation wesilisa-ngaphambi kokuba u-ejaculation wesilisa, ngokuqondile-ukugcinwa kwesidoda esiphansi kwenzeke.
Kuthiwani uma i-orgasm yenzeke ngemva kokukhishwa kwesilisa? Abacwaningi bathola ukuthi uma nje owesifazane ene-orgasm kuze kube maminithi angu-45 ngemuva kwalokho, ukugcinwa kwesidoda kwakungaphezulu. Lesi sifundo asizange sibheke izinga lokukhulelwa. Uma izinga lokukhulelwa liphakeme nge-orgasm yesifazane, akucaci ukuthi kungakanani.
Umbono Wezinguquko We-Orgasm
Kukhona enye inkolelo yokuthi kungani i-orgasm yesifazane ikhona. Le mbono ibonisa ukuthi i-orgasm yesifazane yodwa yayibalulekile ekukhulelweni, kepha ayisekho indima ebalulekile.
Namuhla, i- ovulation ivela esimisweni sanyanga zonke , noma ngabe owesifazane ulala noma cha. Kodwa kubantu basekuqaleni, ingabe i-orgasm yowesifazane ingabangela ukuvuthwa? Yilokho okusebenza kwezinye izilwane ezincelisayo. Isibonelo, namakati, uma engalandeli, awavuli.
Ukuvuselela i-clitoral kuveza imizwa yokuthakazelisa, kanye nokukhululwa kwama-hormone kanye nokuqhekeka kwemisipha.
Lawo ma-hormone kanye nokuphambana kungenzeka ukuthi kwakubonisa ama-ovari ukukhulula iqanda kubantu abakhokho.
Njengoba abantu baqala ukuguquka, futhi ukuvuthwa kwaqala ukuvela njalo, futhi ngaphandle kokugqugquzela ngokocansi, i-clitoris yaqhubekela phambili kude nomgogodla wesisu. Lokhu akusho ukuthi i-orgasm yezinsikazi ayinayo injongo ekukhulelwe, kodwa ibonisa ukuthi ukubaluleka kwayo kunciphile.
Ingabe Kukhona Ukuxhumeka Phakathi Kwezikhathi Ze-Orgasm Nokukhulelwa Okusemandleni?
Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, akukakabi khona isifundo ngokuqondile ukuhlanganisa i-orgasm yesifazane ekukhulelwe. Kodwa-ke, ucwaningo olulodwa luhlolisise ukuhlobana phakathi kwesilinganiso se-orgasm wesifazane nenani lezingane azinalo.
Kulesi sifundo, amawele angu-8 000 wesifazane nabantwana bakithi abhekwe. Ababambiqhaza babuzwa ukuthi balala kaningi kangakanani ngocansini, imvamisa yabo ye-orgasm, noma ngabe babe nobunzima ekufinyeleleni i-orgasm, nokuthi bangaki abantwana abaphila nabo.
Abacwaningi bathola ukuthi kukhona ukulingana okubuthakathaka kodwa okuphawulekayo phakathi kwesilinganiso se-orgasm nenani lezinzalo. Kodwa uma izimo zemvelo zenziwa, lokho kuxhumano kwanyamalala. Kukho futhi kwakungekho ukuxhumana kofuzo phakathi kwamazinga we-orgasm kanye nezinga lokuzala. Ngokwalolu cwaningo, ikhono lakho (noma ukungakwazi) ku-orgasm ngeke lithinte ukuzala kwakho.
Ukuthatha Isikhathi Ukukhiqiza I-Orgasm Yomama Kungase Kwathuthukise Ukuzala Kwesilisa
I-foreplay ende kakhulu kanye nezinga eliphakeme lokuvukela ngokocansi ngaphambi kokuba kukhishwe umkhuhlane kuboniswe ukwandisa izibalo zesidakamizwa kwezinye izifundo zocwaningo. Ukuthatha isikhathi sokuletha owesifazane ku-orgasm kungase kuthuthukise imingcele yezinja. Abacwaningi bazibuza ukuthi inhloso yezinto eziphilayo zokwenza i-cunnilingus (ukukhuluma ngocansi ngomuntu wesifazane) kungase kube ukukhiqiza.
Kokubili abantu nezinye izilwane benza ubulili ngomlomo, ongase ucabange ukuthi akukwenzi lutho ngokukhiqiza. Kodwa-ke, bathola ukuthi ukwenza i-cunnilingus kwandise umthamo wesilisa owenziwe yindoda ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi kamuva.
I-Connection Between Orgasm, Ovulation, nokukhulelwa
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi i-orgasm ingakusiza yini ukukhulelwa, ukuvota nokukhulelwa kuthinta i-orgasm.
Ngesinye, cishe uthola i-orgasm ezinsukwini nje ngaphambi kokuba u-ovulation . Lokhu kungenxa yamazinga e-estrogen enyuka.
Amazinga aphezulu e-estrogen nawo anomthwalo wokukhuphuka kwamanzi omlomo wesibeletho (owaziwa nangokuthi i-cervical mucus.) Lawo manzi aphefumulayo adala imvelo enhle ukuze isidoda siphile futhi sihambe, kepha, ngaphezu kwalokho, umuzwa "wet" ukwandisa isifiso sakho socansi futhi yenza cishe i-orgasm.
Kokubili ngesikhathi sokuvuthwa nokukhulelwa, i-orgasm ingase izwe kakhulu ngenxa yokwanda kwegazi okuya endaweni ye-pelvic. Ukwanda kwegazi nokugaya kwe-pelvic kukhulunywa kakhulu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, kanti abanye besifazane bahlangabezana ne-orgasm okokuqala lapho bekulindele.
Ingabe i-orgasm ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ingaba yingozi kumntanakho? Lokhu kwesaba okuvamile, kodwa ngokuvamile akufanelekile. Ngaphandle kokuba unenkinga ethize yezokwelapha, futhi udokotela wakho uphakamise ukuthi ucansi olungavamile noma umvuthwandaba wezocansi, akudingeki ukhathazeke ngokuthi unesidumbu ngesikhathi ukhulelwe.
I-Orgasm iphephile kumntanakho, futhi inhle impilo yakho engokomzwelo nangokomzimba.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
I-Orgasm ingase ikusize noma ingakusizi ukuthi ukhulelwe. Kodwa kunezizathu eziningi zokuba ne-orgasm! I-Orgasm iyamnandi, ijabulise, futhi ibhekene nokucindezeleka okukhulu kakhulu kokucindezeleka. Kodwa-ke, uma isifiso sakho se-orgasm sigcwele ngokuphelele isifiso sakho sokukhulelwa, ungase uzizwe ucindezelwe. Lokhu kungenza ube nobunzima ekufinyeleleni i- orgasm , wanezela ukukhungatheka kokubeletha kwakho.
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuthuthukisa amathuba akho e-orgasm phakathi kocansi? Zama ukujabulela nje isikhathi esiseduze nomlingani wakho. Ayikho imigomo, akukho ukucindezelwa-ama-orgasms, ayikho icala. Uma une-orgasm, inkulu. Uma kungenjalo, kunjalo, futhi.
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