Intsha enesibalo inezinselele eziyingqayizivele zezenhlalakahle nezezemfundo
Njengezinye izidingo ezikhethekile zezingane, abafundi abanekhono badinga ukuhlala okukhethekile esikoleni. Zinezidingo ezingenakutholwa ngokusebenzisa amasu asebenza kubantu abaningi abafundi. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, abaningi bathi manje bahlukanisa izinhlelo zabo ezinezipho njengemfundo ekhethekile.
Izingane ezinezinwele azizona ezingcono kunezinye izingane; zihluke kalula ngezidingo ezahlukene.
Uhlelo oluhle lwezipho luzohlangabezana nezidingo. Kodwa kwenzekani uma lezo zidingo zingakafiki?
Izinkinga Zezemfundo
Okufanelekile, zonke izingane zizobhekana nenselele ngokufanele. Umsebenzi abawutholayo ngeke ube nzima noma kulula kakhulu. Uma kunzima kakhulu, izingane zizoyeka. Uma kulula, izingane zizoyeka. Esikhathini sokuqala, bazoyeka ngenxa yokucindezeleka; okwesibili, ngenxa yesithukuthezi.
Lelizinga lomsebenzi yilokho uVev Vygotsky abiza ngokuthi "indawo yokuthuthukiswa okudelelekile." Uma izingane zithola umsebenzi onzima kakhulu, azizwa ukuthi umgomo uyatholakala. Uma bethola umsebenzi olula, bayothola kunzima ukugxila futhi ngeke bakwazi ukufinyelela lokho uMihály Csíkszentmihályi abiza ngokuthi "ukugeleza." (Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi le mibono isebenza kubantu abadala nakwabantwana.)
Kubantwana abaningi abanamakhono, ukuthola umsebenzi okhuni kakhulu akuyona inkinga, okungenani hhayi ekuqaleni esikoleni. Bangase bahambe ngesikole baqonde ngqo u-A , kodwa ngesinye isikhathi esikoleni esiphakeme, ekolishi noma empilweni, bangase bahlangabezane nomsebenzi ongafihleki kalula kubo, futhi bangase bangakwazi ukuhlangabezana nenselelo umsebenzi owenzayo.
Izingane ezincane, ezingenayo amagama okuchaza le nkinga, zingasho ukuthi umsebenzi unzima kakhulu. Lokho okungase kusho, noma kunjalo, ukuthi kunzima kakhulu ukugxila emsebenzini futhi uwenze. Abasho ukuthi abakwazi ukwenza lo msebenzi. Izingane ezinezinwele ezinganikezwa umsebenzi onzima esikoleni zingaqeda ukuba ngaphansi .
Kulula ukuyeka kunokuba uqalane nosuku lokukhwabanisa olukhulu nakusuku. Lezi zingane zingathola kunzima ukuhlangabezana nezinselele kamuva ekuphileni okuholela empumelelweni.
Izinkinga Zomphakathi
Sinesimiso sesikole esahlukanisa izingane ngeminyaka futhi silindele zonke izingane ukuba ziphathe ngokufanayo ngendlela efanayo nangonyaka ngamunye. Isibonelo, ukulindela kwezenhlalakahle zezingane zokufundela akufani nalokho okulindelekile kwezenhlalakahle zabathengisi besithathu. Kodwa-ke, izingane ezinesipho zingase zithuthuke emphakathini njengoba ziyizifundo. Lokho akunjalo njalo kodwa kungenzeka. Ngisho noma bengabaningi kakhulu emphakathini kunabalingani babo beminyaka yobudala, ukuhlelwa kwezemfundo okungalungile kungenza kubonakale sengathi banezinkinga zenhlalo nezokuziphatha.
Lezo zinkinga zingabangelwa ukukhukhumazeka , kepha zingabangelwa nokuntuleka kwezingane zengqondo nezenhlalo. Cabanga ukuthi kungaba ukukhathazeka kanjani ukuchitha amahora angama-6 nsuku zonke ukwenza imisebenzi yokukufundisa lokho owaziyo kakade futhi ungabi namuntu owaba nesithakazelo sakho noma angaqonda ukuthi ukhuluma ngani. Ukunikeza izingane inselele ngokufanele inselelo nokuzivumela ukuba zihlanganyele nabangane bezenhlalo nezengqondo zingavimbela noma zixazulule izinkinga eziningi zenhlalo.
Izinkinga Zemizwelo
Isimo esingavumelekile sezemfundo singabangela nezinkinga ezingokomzwelo. Uma izingane ezinesiphiwo aziphikisana nemfundo futhi zingakwazi ukuchitha isikhathi nezinye izingane ezifana nabo, zingase ziqale ukuzizwa sengathi kukhona okungahambi kahle nabo. Kungani wonke umuntu elwa nalezi zinkinga zezibalo? Kungani abanye abantwana bengakwazi ukufunda? Kungani abanye abantwana befuna ukuchitha lonke usuku lokufunda ngamaplanethi nemigodi emnyama? Kungani labo bantwana bethi izinto ezinjalo ezinamandla? Izimpendulo zemibuzo yonke zicacile kubantu abadala, kodwa hhayi kumntwana osemncane onesipho.
Kungenzeka ukuthi ingane ephikisayo ikhuthele ukucindezeleka, ngakho-ke uma ingane yakho ingenselele esikoleni, ufuna ukubuka izimpawu zokucindezeleka.
Izingane zingabonakala zithukuthele, kodwa intukuthelo ingaba uphawu lokucindezeleka ezinganeni ezincane. Izingane zingazizwa ziboshelwe esimweni sabo futhi zizwe sengathi ukufa kuwukuphela kwendlela yokuphuma. Uma ingane yakho ikutshela ukuthi ufuna ukufa, ungesabi ngokushesha. Kungaba yindlela yakhe yokukutshela indlela ecasulayo futhi engenasici azizwa ngayo. Noma kunjalo, ukucindezeleka nokufisa akufanele kuthathwe kalula, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane iyingane kangakanani.
Indlela Yokusiza Izingane Ezifuywayo Ziphumelele
Izingane eziningi ezinesiphiwo ngeke zihlangabezane nazo zonke lezi zinkinga. Abanye ngeke bahlangabezane nanoma yikuphi kubo, yize bengayitholi indawo yokuhlala. Izingane ezinezinwele zikhona ngabanye, ngobuntu obuhlukahlukene nezimo ezihlukahlukene. Izingane ezinomzwelo ezinomzwelo zingase zithinteke, kodwa ngisho lokho akuyona into eqinisekile.
Sebenza ukuze uqonde ubumnene bentombazane yakho, wenze konke ongakwenza ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izidingo zomntanakho zihlangene esikoleni. Uma lokho kungenakwenzeka, ungase ucabange ngemakhaya ezikoleni ingane yakho . Uma indlu yokufunda ekhaya ayiyona into enhle, khona-ke faka ingane yakho iqhaza emisebenzini yesikhashana ezokwenza ukuthi inikeze inselele engqondweni kanye namathuba okuchitha isikhathi namanye ama-gifted kids.