Izinketho zokukhulelwa uma ubulili buvimbela ukungena
Abesifazane abahlushwa ubuhlungu ngesikhathi socansi bangakwazi ukulala ocansini njalo ukuze bakhulelwe. Izimo ezifana ne-vaginismus ne-vulvodynia zingenza ubulili bungakhululekile nakakhulu noma kungenzeki kabi.
Okufanelekile, uma uhlushwa ubuhlungu ngesikhathi socansi, kufanele ubone udokotela wakho ukuze ahlolwe futhi aphathwe. Ubuhlungu phakathi kocansi kungabangelwa izimo eziningana, ezinye zazo ezingalimaza ukuzala kwakho.
Kunezindlela zokwelashwa ezitholakalayo, futhi kufanelekile ukuzama.
Kodwa-ke, ake sithi usukhulume kakade nodokotela wakho kanye nokwelashwa okuvivinywe, kepha abaphumelelanga ekunciphiseni ubuhlungu bakho.
Noma, mhlawumbe ukwelashwa kuyahamba kancane futhi awufuni ukulinda uze ukwazi ukubekezelela ubulili ukuze uqale ukuzama ukukhulelwa.
Noma, mhlawumbe, awukwazi ukuzenza ukhulume nodokotela wakho mayelana nobuhlungu.
Ingabe kukhona indlela ongakwazi ukukhulelwa ngayo? Kunezinye izinketho.
"Ukukhipha ukukhulelwa" - noma ukucabanga nge-Ejaculation Ngaphandle kwe-Vagina
Lena yindawo enhle yokubheka ukuthi imibhangqwana engakwazi ukulala ocansini ingaba nobulili. Ubulili buchazwa njengengaphezu nje kokulala ngokobulili.
Enye indlela engakwazi ukukhulelwa ngaphandle kobulili ukuthi indoda i-ejaculate ifinyelele ekuvuleni kwesisu ngendlela engenzeka ngayo.
Ukukhulelwa okwenzeka ngenxa yesimanga kufinyelela endaweni yangasese yangaphandle (ngengozi noma ngenhloso) ngaphandle kokulala ngokobulili ngezinye izikhathi kuthiwa "ukukhulelwa komzimba."
Uma nje umuthi othile uhamba ngendlela eya ezindaweni ezise-vulva noma ezigwini, unethuba lokukhulelwa. Uma ukujula kungase kwenzeke ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kwesifazane, kungcono nakakhulu.
Kungenzeka kangakanani ukuthi uzokhulelwa kuyinto engabaza. Ucwaningo oluthile luxoxisana nabesifazane abanobuchopho besifazane abahlala nengane njalo ngale ndlela.
Ngalokho kusho, azikho izifundo ezibhekene nezinkinga zokusebenzisa le ndlela ukuze ukhulelwe. Ngokuqinisekile ziphansi kakhulu uma kuqhathaniswa nemibhangqwana enesimo socansi esivamile.
Uma uzokuzama, qiniseka ukuthi uthatha zonke ezinye izinyathelo ukwandisa izinkinga zakho zokukhulelwa. Uzofuna
- Qiniseka ukuthi isikhathi socansi esiseduze nesikhukhula
- Zama ukulala phansi ngemuva kwakho okwesikhashana
- Sebenzisa kuphela izigulisi ezinobungane zokuzala
- Mhlawumbe uzama ukuba ne-orgasm nje ngaphambi noma ngemuva (ngaphandle kokuphazamisa isitshalo esimisiwe, uma kungenzeka)
IUI namanye amafomu okusabalalisa
Enye indlela ongayenza ngayo imibhangqwana engakwazi ukulala ocansini iwukucabangela ukusabalalisa okufakwayo .
Ukuqothulwa kwamakhemikhali lapho kutholakala khona umuthi bese udluliselwa ku-vaginal canal, emgodini wesibeletho, noma esibelethweni.
I-IUI, i-intrauterine insemination, iyindlela evame ukusetshenziswa kakhulu ngoba inezinga eliphezulu lokuphumelela. Ngenkathi ngokuvamile, i-IUI ihlanganisa ukwelashwa ngemithi yokuzala, lokhu akudingeki.
Khumbula uma ubheka amazinga okuphumelela we-IUI ukuthi lezi zifundo zibheke ngokuyinhloko imibhangqwana enenkinga yokuzala.
Uma ubunzima bakho kuphela ekukhuleleni ubuhlungu ngesikhathi socansi, futhi akukho zinkinga ezengeziwe zokuzala (futhi ubuhlungu abubangelwa isimo esithinta kakhulu ukuzala kwakho), amazinga akho okuphumelela angase abe ngaphezulu.
Ukusabalalisa okungekho emthethweni ngeke kube usizo kakhulu kumuntu ongenakubekezelela noma yikuphi ukungena. IUI idinga ukubekwa kwe-speculum ye-gynecological. Kungase futhi kube nokuchofoza kancane kancane ekufakweni kwe-catheter.
Kodwa-ke, kulabo abazwa ubuhlungu obukhulu nge-penile ukungena noma ukugxila, i-IUI ingaba inketho.
At-Home Insemination aka "Indlela yaseTurkey Baster"
Enye indlela ongakhetha kuyo i-home-insemination - okuthiwa "i-turkey baster" indlela. Le ndlela ingaba yingozi uma yenza ngendlela engafanele (bheka ngezansi ukuthi kungani), kodwa kuyindlela ethatha imibhangqwana eminingi kule nkinga.
Ukusabalalisa ekhaya kudinga indebe oyinyumba, eyomile yokuqoqa umuthi.
Futhi, udinga isirinji esingenalutho elingenalutho, njengalezo ezisetshenziselwa ukukala imithi yokwelapha yomlomo.
Amanothi aqakatheke kakhulu okuqapha uma uhlela ukuzama le ndlela:
- Khuluma nodokotela wakho okokuqala ngaphambi kokuzama ukusabalalisa ekhaya. Bangakutshela ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani lokhu ngokuphepha.
- Ungalokothi uzame ukujova noma ukudlulisa isisu kumbeletho noma kwesibeletho! Lokhu kuyingozi kakhulu futhi kungaba yingozi! Ukwelashwa nge-cervix noma kwesibeletho kudinga ukwelashwa okhethekile kwesimeni futhi kungenziwa kuphela ngomtholampilo wokuzala. Ungazilimaza kakhulu. Ukuqedwa kwezindlu ekhaya kungaba yindlala kuphela.
- Yenza isiqiniseko sokuthi isirinji esingenalutho asinamapoksi emoyeni ngaphambi kokuthi uncelise isitshalo ngaphambi kokuthi usakaze. Ukwethula umoya ngaphakathi kwesiswini kungabangela umoya obulalayo.
- Izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi zisatshenziselwa owesifazane ngokusatshalaliswa. Le ndlela ayisusi noma isinciphise ingozi ye-STD.
- Qinisekisa ukuthi konke okusetshenziselwayo - kusuka ekomishini kuya kwisiringi esingenalutho - kungumuthi omusha, ohlanzekile, futhi omile ngokuphelele. Sebenzisa kuphela amakhemikhali anomsoco wokuzala, uma kudingeka.
- Kunezinkampani eziningana zokusatshalaliswa ekhaya ezithengiswa ku-intanethi. Umthengi uqaphele, njengoba ezinye zalezi zinkizi ziqukethe imiyalo noma izinto eziyingozi. (Isibonelo, ezinye ziqukethe imiyalo yokwenza i-intrauterine insemination, okungakaze uzame ekhaya.)
- Ukusabalalisa ekhaya, uma kwenziwa ngokungalungile, kungaholela ekutheleleni nokulimala.
- Ulwazi lapha akufanele lubhekwe njengeseluleko sezokwelapha. Qhubekisa engozini yakho.
Futhi, ezinye izinyathelo zomthetho:
- Ungazami ukusabalalisa ekhaya nge-donor yesilisa, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyaziwa noma akaziwa. Ezindaweni eziningi, ukungabonakali okwenziwe okwenziwe ngezokwelapha ngeke kubonakale enkantolo njengomntwana ozinikele ngemali. Ngamanye amazwi, noma ngabe unesivumelwano esibhaliwe nesayinwe, umnikezeli wesilisa angafaka ngokusemthethweni amalungelo omzali, futhi umama angase akwazi ngokomthetho ukuthola izinkokhelo zezingane kumnikezi.
- Uma wenza lokhu nomuntu ngaphandle komlingani wakho oshadile ngokomthetho, thintana nommeli wokuzala kuqala.
- Ulwazi olunikeziwe lapha akufanele lubhekwe njengeseluleko sezomthetho. Qhubekisa engozini yakho.
Ngaphansi Kokuzama Ukuqonda Lapho Ubulili Bulimaza
Nakuba kungenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe ngaphandle kokungenwa kwe-penile, okunye okukhethwa kukho okungcono kunakho konke okubizayo futhi okungenasidingo (njengokungathi nge-IUI) noma okungeke kwenzeke (njengokwenziwa kwe-ejaculation ngaphandle kwesifazane.)
Into engcono kakhulu yokwenza? Funa ukwelashwa ubuhlungu bobulili ngokwayo.
Khuluma nomzimba wakho wezifo zezinkinga zokuzikhethela nezinketho. Ubulili akufanele kube buhlungu, futhi akudingeki uhlupheke. Uma udokotela oyedwa engakwazi ukusiza, iya kwesinye. Hlala ubheka uze uthole umuntu ongakusiza.
Imithombo:
U-Amy Demma, u-Esq. Imeyili yokuxhumana / ingxoxo. Ngo-Mashi 26-27, 2015. Amahhovisi kaMthetho ka-Amy Demma, i-PC; 81 I-Newtown Lane, i-Suite # 355; East Hampton, NY 11937. http://www.lawofficesofamydemma.com & http://www.facebook.com/amy.demma.law
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