Ukuziphatha kobuntu ngokuvamile kuvunyelwe ukuhlazeka
Abazali abaningi bafuna ingane yabo ukuba ihambe futhi ingakhathazeki futhi ihlale ihlukumezeka uma ingane ikhona kodwa. Ngisho noma indodana noma indodakazi ibonakala ishintshwe kahle, iqiniso lokuthi uyathula futhi likhetha ukuchitha isikhathi yedwa lingadlulisela abanye abazali ekuhluphekeni.
Umbuzo kungani? Iqiniso liwukuthi ezinye izingane zizalwa ngokwemvelo.
Kuyinto evamile abantu abaningi abonakala bengakhululekile ngayo, beyihlanekezela njengobuntu obuthakathaka bokuthi umuntu ubonakala ephikisana nomphakathi, ephazamiseka noma ekhukhumezayo.
Ekusebenzelaneni nezinkathazo zabo, ngokuvamile abazali bazophoqeleka ingane encane ukuba ixoxisane nabanye ngendlela engokwemvelo noma ekhululekile. Uma umphumela ungahle, usebenza kuphela ukuqinisekisa umzali ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle uma, empeleni, into kuphela engase ibe yinto yokulindela komzali.
Ukuqonda i-Introversion
I-Introversion iyimfanelo yomuntu lapho umuntu engabambeli khona futhi engathandeki ezimweni ezithinta umphakathi. Ngenkathi abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuthi kungcono noma isimo sengqondo, ukungeniswa kuyisisekelo nje lapho umntwana wakho ebona khona umhlaba ngokucacile.
Ngenkathi ezinye izingane zithuthuka emphakathini futhi zikhuthazwa ngokomzwelo ngokusebenzisana kweqembu, izethulo zithola ukubhekana okuhlukile.
Ukuze i-introvert, ukuhambisana nokuhleleka kokuxhumana kwabantu kungabonakali nje kuphela kodwa kudonsa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukwehluleka ukuphila ngokuvumelana nokulindelwe kwabanye kungabangela ukuhlukumeza ukuzethemba nokuziqaphela okungenzeka ukuthi ingane isenayo kakade.
Iphutha abantu abaningi abenzayo ekucabangeni ukuthi ukufaka isethulo kufana nento enesizungu noma amahloni noma ukuthi i-introvert iyinhlangano engokwemvelo.
Eqinisweni, enye yezimpawu zokusungulwa yikhono lokuthi uzwele kakhulu ezindabeni zomphakathi kanye nezincazelo. Ama-Introverts axhumekile kakhulu futhi axhunyiwe ngokweqile kunabo abalingani babo abanomphakathi. Umehluko kuphela ukuthi bavame ukwenza kanjalo ngaphakathi kobudlelwane obuseduze futhi abakwazi ukuhambisana nezidingo zeqembu elinamandla.
Lokhu akusikisela ukuthi zonke izethulo ziyafana noma ezinye azifisi ukugxila ngaphezulu. Eqaphela kahle ukuthi abanye bahlangana kanjani, ingane eyethulwa kuqala izothatha izinyathelo zokuhamba ngaphandle kwendawo yakhe yokududuza, ngokuvamile esikoleni esiphakathi noma esikoleni esiphakeme.
Akusi njalo ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa ezinye izethulo zingaphezu kokujabula ukugcina imibuthano encane yomphakathi kanye nokuphishekela okuqhubekayo impilo yabo yonke.
Ukuphila Nengane Engenayo
Njengomzali , isipho esikhulu kunazo zonke ongayinikeza ingane engenisiwe kuyamukelwa. Ngenkathi udinga ukugqugquzela ukuzivivinya umzimba, umsebenzi wokuzivocavoca, nokuxhumana okuphilile, kubaluleke kakhulu ukubona ukuthi ingane yakho ikuphi ukukhula ngokomzwelo okukhulu futhi ithola ukugqugquzelwa okukhulu kwengqondo.
Uma unikeza ingane yakho ikamelo lokwenza izinqumo-kufaka phakathi noma nini ukukhulisa ama-horizons ezenhlalakahle-uzozizwa engenacala kangako ngokungahambi kahle noma okulindeleke komunye umuntu.
Kubalulekile ukuthi ubone izinzuzo nezipho zokuhlala nomntwana ongeziwe:
- Ingane engenisiwe ingase ingabonakali intshiseko engavumelekile yezinye izingane, kodwa ukuvimbela kwabo kuvame ukubavumela ukuba benze izinqumo ezicatshangelwe futhi ezinolwazi.
- Izingane ezingenayo imvamisa zivame ukunciphisa ukucindezelwa kontanga futhi zivame ukugwema yibo abangase baziphathe ngenye indlela.
- Njengoba izingane eziningi ezethulwa zikhetha ukuxhumana nomndeni noma abangane abasondelene nabo, cishe bazokucela usizo uma kudingeka.
- Ngenkathi umphakathi uhlose ukuvuza abantu ngenxa yokuqiniseka kwabo kanye nokuhlukumezeka, izethulo zivame ukugxila kakhulu futhi zingenakwenzeka ukuba zihanjiswe yimikhuba, imithombo yezokuxhumana, noma umbono ophakeme kakhulu ekamelweni.
Ekugcineni, zibuze ukuthi ingane yakho engenisiwe ijabule futhi ihlelwe kahle. Uma impendulo ingu "yebo," zama ukubuyela emuva futhi uvumele ukuhamba kunoma yimiphi izinkathazo ezingadingekile noma okulindelekile.
Ekugcineni, ukungenwa kwezinto akuyona into efana nokukhathazeka komphakathi noma ukugwema ukuphazamiseka komuntu. Kuyisici nje sokuthi ngubani ingane yakho kanye nobuntu obunikezwa ezinye izethulo ezihlelwe kahle kakhulu emlandweni ovela ku-Abraham Lincoln no-Albert Einstein kuBill Gates noJK Rowling.
> Umthombo:
> Condon, M. kanye noRuth-Saad, L. "Ukuphendula abafundi abangenayo futhi abahloni: Imihlahlandlela emihle yokufundisa yabafundisi nabacebisi." Vula i-J Nurs. 2013; 3;: 503-15. I-DOI: 10.4236 / ojn.2013.37069 P.