Izingane zibonisa ukuziphatha kusukela ebusheni obuncane noma obungenisiwe. Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi i-extrovert ngumuntu onobungane futhi ophumayo. Yize lokho kungase kube yiqiniso, lokho akuyona incazelo egcwele yokuxoshwa.
I-extrovert ngumuntu okhuthazwa ngokuba ngumunye wabantu. Lokhu okuphambene nesethulo esinikezwa amandla ngokuhlala yedwa.
Funda ukuthi ingane encane ingaziphatha kanjani.
Izimfanelo Ze-Extrovert
Ukuzijabulisa kujabulisa izimo zomphakathi futhi ngisho nokuzifuna ngoba zijabulela ukuhlala nabantu. Esikoleni, ungalindela ingane encane ukuba ijabulele ukusebenza kumsebenzi weqembu noma eqenjini lokutadisha kunokuba yedwa.
Ukugxila kufinyelela "ukuphefumula" lapho kuyedwa futhi kungase kube nzima kakhulu ngaphandle kwabanye abantu abaseduze. Uma kufanele basebenze umsebenzi owodwa, kungakusiza ukuba ube eduze ukuze ubakhuthaze futhi ubavumele bakutshele ngalokho abakwenzayo.
Uma unikezwa ithuba, i-extrovert izokhuluma nomunye umuntu kunokuhlala yedwa bese ucabanga. Eqinisweni, i-extroverts ijwayele ukucabanga njengoba ikhuluma, ngokungafani nama-introverts abakhulu kakhulu ukucabanga ngaphambi kokuba bakhulume. Ukuvame ukucabangela kaningi ukucabanga kahle uma bekhuluma. Imicabango ingabonakali ingokoqobo kubo ngaphandle kokuthi ingakwazi ukukhuluma ngabo; ukuzindla ngawo akukwanele. Ungase uthole ukuthi ingane yakho izokhuluma nanoma ubani nanoma ubani uma uphakathi esidlangalaleni.
Bangashesha ukuqala ukukhuluma nezinye izingane futhi babonakale benza abangane abasha masinyane.
Ingane ekhungathekile ingathanda ukudlala nezinye izingane kunokudlala ukudla yedwa. Kungenzeka ukuthi bayakujabulela imisebenzi yezemidlalo neyeqembu. Ukugxila kungase kuchithe isikhathi esiningi kuma-social media futhi ube nabangani nabalandeli abangaphezulu kunezethulo, ukugcina ukukhulumisana nabanye ngisho nakude.
Ngenkathi ingane yakho ingabonisa ukuziphatha okungahle kwenzeke kwezinye izimo, ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi indlela umuntu aphendula ngayo esimweni esithile ayilindeleke kangako. Ukucindezeleka okusheshayo kwalesi simo kunganqoba ukuthambekela okuvamile. Ungase ucabange ukuthi ingane yakho izothanda ukuya emcimbini, kodwa thola ukuthi akafuni ukuya ngenxa yesimo esithile.
Izinga lokuziphatha okungafani nalo lihluka kakhulu kunomuntu kunabanye abantu, ngakho-ke ungalindela ukuthi ingane yakho izomphakathi ngokuqinile kwezinye izimo futhi ngaphansi kwezinye izimo.
Yeka ukuthi Izingane Zingaxhunywanga Kanjani
Ngenxa yokuthi i-introverts iqiniswa ngokuxhumana nabanye abantu, izingane ezingenasidingo zingadinga isikhathi sokuphumula ngemuva kokuchitha isikhathi ukuzijabulisa nezinye izingane. Isibonelo, uma ingane engenazimpikiswano ihambela ephalazini, ingafika ekhaya namanje ijabule kakhulu. Angase afune ukukhuluma ngalokho okwenzekile emcimbini, uma kungenjalo nabazali bakhe, bese kuba nabangani bakhe. Uma iqembu lihlwa, ingane encane ingase ibe nzima ukulala ngoba isagcwele amandla.
Ingane ekhungathekile ingathula futhi ifinyeleleke kalula uma ichitha isikhathi esiningi yodwa. Uma esezungeze abanye, noma kunjalo, angase angene ngokushesha.
Lokhu kusikisela ukuthi izingane ezixoshiwe, ikakhulukazi labo abanesipho, zingasetshenziswa kangcono ezimweni ezibandakanya umsebenzi weqembu, ukubambisana, kanye nokuxhumana komphakathi. Kwezinye izimo, izikole ezizimele zingase zibe ngcono kunezikole zomphakathi lapho izingane zivame ukukhuthazwa ukuba "zenze umsebenzi wazo."
Ingabe Ukunciphisa Kungaba Namahloni?
Abantu abaningi abangaqapheli ukuthi i-extrovert ingaba namahloni. Amahloni elinye igama lokukhathazeka komphakathi. Lokhu kungase kube nzima ngoba i-extroverts ifuna inkampani, kepha amahloni angenza kube nzima ukuphumelela ekusebenzisaneni nabantu abangabazi.
Abanamahloni, izingane ezingenakunyakaziswa yibo labo okungenzeka kakhulu banesidingo sokunqoba ukunqoba amahloni.
Abanye abanamahloni bayaphakamisa kahle kakhulu ezimweni zeqembu ezihlelekile lapho zingabanjwa khona emphakathini ngaphandle kokudinga izihloko zezingxoxo noma izizathu zokuxhuma. Izibonelo zalolu hlobo lomsebenzi zibandakanya imidlalo yeqembu, i-club club, noma imidlalo yaseshashalazini.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Ngenkathi i-extroversion ne-introversion ingakusiza ukuhlukanisa ukuziphatha komntwana wakho, ngeke kubikezele kuzo zonke izimo. Khumbula ukuthi lokhu kuyinkimbinkimbi futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho ne-extrovert eyedlulele kakhulu kuzodinga isikhathi esithile sokuthula sibe yedwa noma kungase kufune ukugwema isimo senhlalo.
> Imithombo
> Ukuchithwa noma i-Introversion. I-Myers & Briggs Foundation.
> I-Fleeson W, i-Gallagher P. Okushiwo yi-Big Five emele ukusatshalaliswa kokubonakaliswa kwezenzo ekuziphatheni: Izifundo eziyishumi nesishiyagalolunye-izibonelo zesampula nokuhlaziywa kwemeta. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology . 2009; 97 (6): 1097-1114.