Thola Amasu Okulawulwa Asebenza Emndenini Wakho
Ayikho indlela eyodwa efanele yokuqeqesha izingane.Izindlela eziningi zokukhulisa ingane ejabule ephenduka umuntu omdala onokwethenjelwa.
Kunemibono eminingi ehlukene mayelana nokuthi iyiphi indlela yokuziphatha ephumelela kakhulu noma eyithinta kanjani izinhlobo ezithile zokuqeqesha kuzoba nezingane, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukwenza umsebenzi wakho wesikole ukuze wenze izinqumo ezinolwazi mayelana nendlela yokukhulisa izingane zakho.
Ekugcineni, isifiso sakho sokuthola imikhuba emihle yokuziphatha kufanele kube ngokuthola izinqubo zokuqeqesha ezizosebenza kangcono emndenini wakho. Nazi izinto ezinhlanu okumelwe uzicabange uma unquma ukuthi yiziphi izindlela zokuqeqesha okufanele uzisebenzise nezingane zakho:
1. Cabanga ngesimo somntanakho
Ubumnene obuhlukile bomntanakho-amakhono akhe, ubuthakathaka bakhe nobuntu kufanele ahloliswe. Okusebenza kahle ingane eyodwa ngeke isebenzele enye.
Ukuqondiswa kabusha okuqinile kungahle kube umphumela ophumelelayo wengane ebucayi . Kodwa ingane enesifiso esinamandla angeke ihlelwe ngaphandle uma ilahlekelwa amalungelo akhe.
Ezinye izingane nazo zikhuthazwa kakhulu yimiklomelo kunabanye. Ngakho-ke thatha isikhathi sokucabanga ngempela ukuthi yiziphi izinhlobo zezinto ezizosebenza kangcono nengane ngayinye.
2. Thatha Isimangaliso Sakho Ku-Akhawunti
Yiqiniso, ububele bomzali kufanele bucatshangelwe. Futhi-ke, hlola ukulingana phakathi kobubele bakho nengane yakho.
Isibonelo, uma ungumuntu othulile, obambekile, ungathola kulula ukuphatha umntwana onamahloni othanda ukufunda nokudlala ngamabhuloki. Kodwa, uma unomsana okhudlwana, ongasebenzi kahle, kungenzeka ukuthi uvame ukucindezeleka amandla akhe.
Lokhu kungasho ukuthi unesineke ukubekezela kokuziphatha okuthile.
Noma, kungase kusho ukuthi uqine ngokweqile ngezinkinga ezithile. Ukuthuthukisa ukuqaphela isimo sakho sengqondo kungasiza ekuqinisekiseni ukubeletha kwakho ngendlela efundisa izingane zakho amakhono okuphila abadinga ukuba abe ngabantu abadala abathintekayo.
Kubalulekile futhi ukucabanga ngesimo somlingani wakho. Uma uhlehlisiwe futhi isilonda somlingani wakho siphezulu, kuyoba kubalulekile ukuthola isu sokuziphatha esizosebenza kahle kokubili.
3. Thola Isitayela Sakho Somzali
Kunezinhlobo ezine eziyinhloko zezitayela zokubeletha ; umbhali wobungcweti, ogunyazayo, ongavumelwanga, futhi ovumelekile.
Thola ukuthi yisiphi isitayela osibheka ngokwemvelo. Hlaziya izinzuzo nezindleko zesitayela sakho sokubeletha bese unquma ukuthi kukhona yini izinguquko ofuna ukuzenza endleleni yakho yokuqondisa.
Ukucwaninga kubonisa ukuthi izingane ezikhuliswa ngabazali abanegunya zihamba phambili, ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo. Ngakho cabanga ukuthi yiziphi izinyathelo ongazithatha ukuze usebenzise isitayela esinegunya.
4. Zifundise Ngezinhlobo Eziyisihlanu Zesiyalo
Kunezinhlobo ezinhlanu eziyisisekelo zesiyalo ; isiyalo esihle , isiyalo esibukhali , isiyalo esisekelwe emngceleni , ukuguqulwa kokuziphatha , nokuqeqeshwa kwemzwelo .
Kukhona ama-subtypes amaningana futhi abizwa ngamanye amagama ngezinye izikhathi ezincwadini ezahlukene noma ezincwadini, kepha lezi yizinhlobo eziyinhloko zokuqondisa.
Thola ukuthi yiziphi amasu okuziphatha oyisebenzisayo futhi ucabanga ukuthi yiziphi eziphumelela kakhulu ngane yakho. Inhlanganisela yezinhlobo eziningana zokuqeqesha ingase iphumelele kakhulu ekulawuleni ukuziphatha kwengane yakho.
5. Hlola Ngezinhlelo Ezihlukahlukene Zokululeka
Isiyalo somntanakho sidinga ukuguqulwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuye ngokuthi izinga lakhe lokuvuthwa nezimo zokuphila. Isu sokuziphatha esisebenza manje, singase singasebenzi ngonyaka ozayo.
Yingakho kubalulekile ukuthi ube nebhokisi lamathuluzi eligcwele amathuluzi wokufundisa ukuze uhlale ulungele elinye isu.
Uma uzama izindlela ezintsha zokuziphatha, njengokunganaki ukuziphatha okuthile noma ukuthatha amalungelo, ukuziphatha kwengane yakho kungase kube nzima nakakhulu ngaphambi kokuthi kube ngcono.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi isiyalo sakho asisebenzi. Ngezinye izikhathi ukuziphatha kuyingozi nakakhulu ngaphambi kokuba kuthuthuke njengoba izingane zisabela emithethweni emisha nemingcele emisha.
Yenza imithetho yakho icace futhi uhlale uhambisana nokunikeza imiphumela. Okwamanje, qhubeka ufundisa ingane yakho amakhono amasha ukuze afunde ukuphatha ukuziphatha kwakhe kangcono.
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