Khetha kusuka ezinhlobonhlobo zezinketho zokuqondisa ukubhekana nezindaba zokuziphatha
Kunezeluleko eziningi lapho mayelana "nendlela engcono kakhulu" yokuqondisa izingane. Kodwa, empeleni, amasu kanye namasu okuziphatha asebenzela ingane eyodwa angeke asebenzele omunye.
Futhi ayikho isu elilodwa lokuqondisa eliphumelelayo kuwo wonke ukwephula umthetho. Ngakho-ke ngenkathi ukuphuma isikhathi kungabamba ukuhlukumeza kwengane yakho, ukuthatha amalungelo angasebenza kakhulu uma engenzi imisebenzi yakhe.
Yingakho kubalulekile ukuthi abazali babe nebhokisi lamathuluzi okuqondiswa ngokwezifiso, bagcwaliswe amasu ahlukene okuziphatha angasetshenziswa ekuziphatheni okungalungile.
Njenganoma yiliphi ibhokisi lamathuluzi, kuzoba namanye amathuluzi owawasebenzisa ngaphezu kwamanye. Futhi kungase kube namanye amathuluzi owawukhohlwa ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kodwa ukwazi nje amathuluzi atholakalayo kukunika ukuzethemba kokubhekana nezinkinga zokuziphatha kuzo zonke izilinganiso.
Okwenza Udinga Amathuluzi Amaningi Ahlukene
Kuhle ukukhetha okuningi uma unquma ukuthi ungamfundisa kanjani kangcono ingane yakho ngokuziphatha okufanele. Uma ingane yakho ihlukumeza esikoleni, ingabe kufanele uthathe i-electronics noma ubeke imisebenzi eyengeziwe?
Kuthiwani uma imiphumela oyithandayo ingabonakali umsebenzi? Ukuba nelinye ithuluzi lokufinyelela kulo kungaba yisihluthulelo sokuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho ithola isiyalo esinempilo.
Yiqiniso, awufuni nje amathuluzi okukhetha okungahleliwe kusuka ebhokisini lakho lamathuluzi futhi uwasebenzise ngokungenasici.
Esikhundleni salokho, kubalulekile ukuthola ukuthi yimaphi amathuluzi asebenza kahle nengane yakho.
Isibonelo, ingabe ingane yakho idinga ukufunda amakhono okuphila, njengamakhono okuxazulula izinkinga ? Noma ingabe kudingeka afunde indlela yokuveza imizwa yakhe ? Khuluma noma yikuphi ukulahlekelwa kwamakhono okungasiza ingane yakho ukuba yenza izinqumo ezingcono esikhathini esizayo.
Amathuluzi okulahlwa okuqondile
Ibhokisi lakho lamathuluzi lokuziphatha kufanele libe namathuluzi avimbela izinkinga zokuziphatha ngaphambi kokuba aqale, imiphumela efundisa izifundo zokuphila, kanye namasu okufundisa amakhono amasha.
Amathuluzi Okuvimbela Izinkinga Zokuziphatha
Lezi zindlela zokuziphatha zidinga isikhathi esithile nemizamo eyengeziwe kodwa ziyi-investment engavimbela izinkinga eziningi zokuziphatha:
- Ukunakekelwa Okuhle - Ukusetshenziswa kwansuku zonke kwesikhathi esisodwa ngesikhathi esisodwa kuvimbela ukuziphatha okucabangayo. Ukuphuma isikhathi kusebenza kakhulu uma ingane yakho ithola isikhathi esiningi.
- Dumisani - Catch ingane yakho ibe yinhle futhi uzokhuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi iqhubeke nomsebenzi omuhle.
- I-Pre-Teaching - Chaza imithetho kanye nezinto ozilindelwe ngaphambi kokuba ingane yakho iye endaweni entsha noma ihlangabezane nephrojekthi entsha.
Imiphumela Efundisa Izifundo Zokuphila
Lapho ingane yakho iphula imithetho, sebenzisa imiphumela emibi njengalezi ukumfundisa ukwenza izinqumo ezingcono esikhathini esizayo:
- Ukungazinaki - Ukungazinaki ngokuziphatha ukufuna ukukhathazeka futhi ekugcineni, ukuziphatha okubi kwengane yakho kuyomisa.
- I-Time-Out - Susa ingane yakho esimweni ukuze athathe imizuzu embalwa ukuzola.
- Ukulahlekelwa Kwamalungelo - Thatha ilungelo, njenge-TV, isikhathi esithile.
- Imiphumela emihle - Siza ingane yakho ithathe umthwalo wokuziphatha kwayo. Uma ephule into ethile, yenzele inkokhelo ukuyifaka esikhundleni sayo.
- Imiphumela Yemvelo - Vumela ingane yakho ibhekane nemiphumela yemvelo yezinqumo zakhe.
- Ukubuyisela - Uma ukuziphatha kwengane yakho kumzwisa ubuhlungu omunye umuntu, ukubuyisela kungasiza ukulungisa.
Amathuluzi Okufundisa Amakhono Akhethekile
Uma ingane yakho ibhekene nenkinga ethize yokuziphatha, njengokuhlukunyezwa noma ukukhohlwa ukwenza imisebenzi yakhe yasekhaya, sebenzisa uhlelo lokuvuza olufundisa amakhono athile:
- Ishadi Lendlela Yokuziphatha - Kusukela kumashadi okusebenza ukuze uhlaziye izinhlelo , kunezinhlobo eziningi ezihlukene zamashadi okuziphatha anganika imigomo yengane yakho kanye nokukhuthaza.
- Uhlelo lwezomnotho lweThokheni - Izinhlelo zezomnotho zesikhumbuzo zishukumisa izingane ezindala noma labo abanemigomo eminingi yokusebenza ngesikhathi. Amathrekhi angashintshaniswa ngemiklomelo emikhulu.
Okufanele Ukwenze Uma Ithuluzi Lingasebenzi
Uma ithuluzi lokuqeqesha olisebenzisayo lingabonakali liphumelela, hlola indlela yakho. Zikhona yini izinto ongazenza ngokuhlukile ezingahle zenze ithuluzi liphumelele nakakhulu? Isibonelo, ingabe uyaqhubeka uma usebenzisa ithuluzi? Ingabe ucacile ngemithetho nemiphumela? Uke wakunika isikhathi esanele sokusebenza?
Uma kubonakala sengathi umphumela othize awusebenzi kahle, shiya ithuluzi elihlukile. Isibonelo, uma ukunganaki amagama okufunga akuzange kugweme umlomo womntwana wengane yakho, zama ukumvuza ngokusebenzisa ulimi oluhle noma ukumbeka ngesikhathi sokuphuma ngokusebenzisa amagama angalungile.
Uma unzima kakhulu ukuthola ithuluzi lokuqeqesha elisebenza kahle, funa usizo lochwepheshe . Khuluma nodokotela wezingane wengane yakho noma uthintane nochwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo. I-professional ingakusiza ukuba uphathe izimpikiswano zokuziphatha ezingezansi futhi ingakusiza ukuthi uthole izindlela ezinhle zokuqeqesha.
> Imithombo:
> HealthyChildren.org: Ukuqiniswa Okuhle Ngemivuzo.
> Webster-Stratton C. I-Incredible Years: Uhlu Lokuqeqesha Abazali, Othisha, Nezingane: Okuqukethwe kohlelo, Izindlela, Ucwaningo nokusabalalisa 1980-2011 . Seattle, WA: Iminyaka Engavamile; 2011.