Funda ukuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani lolu hlobo lwesiyalo ukuze uphathe izinkinga zokuziphatha
Igama elithi discipline elihle lingase lizwakale hokey encane. Ngempela, ingabe ukujeziswa kungaba nomphumela omuhle? Futhi akufanele yini ukujeziswa ukuze ufundise ingane yakho isifundo?
Ngaphambi kokuba ugxume kunoma iziphi iziphetho, cabanga ukuthi lesi siyalo esihle singase sibe yindlela ephumelelayo yokufundisa izingane zakho izifundo zokuphila ezibalulekile. Nakuba kuhilela ukunikeza izingane imiphumela emibi yokungalungi, kuhlanganisa nokuthatha izinyathelo zokuvimbela izinkinga zokuziphatha ngaphambi kokuba ziqale.
Yakha Ubuhlobo Obuhle
Isiyalo esihle sisebenzisa indlela ehloniphekile , lapho kucatshangwa imizwa yengane. Izingane zikhuthazwa ukuba zihlanganyele imizwa yazo futhi zixoxe ngamaphutha, imibono, nezinkinga zabo ngokukhululekile. Abazali basebenze nengane ekuxazululeni izinkinga ngenkathi bebonisa ukukhulumisana okuhloniphekile.
Sebenzisa isikhathi sekhwalithi nezingane zakho usuku ngalunye ukuze wakhe ubuhlobo obuhle . Isikhathi sekhwalithi singabandakanya ukudlala, ukukhuluma, nokujabulela nje inkampani yomunye nomunye.
Futhi, yenza isikhathi sokukhuluma nengane yakho ngemizwa ayenayo yonke imini. Isibonelo, mbuze ukuthi nini phakathi nosuku ayezizwa edabukisayo futhi lapho ezwa ukuthi uyathokoza kakhulu.
Bese, wabelana ngendlela efanayo ngosuku lwakho. Lokhu kunikeza ithuba lokufunda ngomunye nomunye nokwakha isisekelo esiqinile sobudlelwane ngenkathi efundisa nangemizwa .
Sebenzisa Isikhuthazo Ngokukhululekile
Isiyalo esifanele sigxile ekukhuthazeni ukudumisa .
Esikhundleni sokudumisa izingane ngomsebenzi owenziwe kahle, gxila emizamweni yengane yakho-ngisho nomphumela awuphumelelanga.
Ukukhuthazwa kungasiza izingane zikwazi ukubona amandla abo okugcwele. Ubuye ubafundise ukuba bazimele ngokwengeziwe njengoba bazoqala ukubona ukuthi yini abakwazi ukwenza ngokwabo. Siza ingane yakho ukuba izwe ukuthi iyakwazisa futhi iyaziwa, njengoba isiyalo esihle sisekelwe enkolelweni yokuthi zonke izingane zidinga ukuzizwa unomqondo ojulile wokuba ngumuntu.
Ukufanisa indlela yokusingatha amaphutha kuyingxenye ebalulekile yesiyalo esihle. Ngakho uma uchitha phansi, qiniseka ukuxolisa kumntanakho. Lokhu kufundisa izingane ukubaluleka kokuthatha imithwalo yemfanelo yabo siqu futhi kubonisa ukubaluleka kokufunda emaphutheni.
Inkinga-Sombulula Ndawonye
Abanakekeli bayakhuthazwa ukuba babambe imihlangano enkingeni-ukuxazulula izinkinga njengoba bevela. Lokhu kufundisa izingane ezidingekayo ekuxazululeni izinkinga ngenkathi zinikeza amathuba okuba babelane ngemibono yabo. Ukuhloniphana okuyingxenye ebalulekile yenqubo.
Lapho ingane yakho ibonisa izinkinga zokuziphatha zihlala phansi ndawonye futhi zikhulume ngakho. Yisho okufana nokuthi, "Awenzanga imisebenzi yakho emibili ubusuku kuleli sonto. Yini esingayenza ngakho?"
Ungathola ukuthi ingane yakho isetshenzisiwe ekudaleni izixazululo. Futhi uma esetshala imali, uzogqugquzelwa ukwenza ngcono.
Gxila ekufundiseni
Ukufundisa kuyisinyathelo esibalulekile kule nqubo. Nika ingane yakho iziqondiso ezicacile bese uchaza okulindelekile ngaphambi kwesikhathi.
Nika imisebenzi yakho futhi uthathe isikhathi sokufundisa ingane yakho ukuthi ingagcwalisa kanjani umbhede noma indlela yokwenza umbhede wakhe kahle. Lokhu kuzoqeda ukungaqondi kahle ngomsebenzi.
Sebenzisa ukulungiswa esikhundleni sokujeziswa
Isiyalo esihle senza umehluko omkhulu phakathi kokujeziswa nokujeziswa .
Imiphumela ayihloselwe ukujezisa, kodwa kunalokho, kufanele ifundise izifundo zokuphila ezilungiselela izingane ukuba zibe ngabantu abadala abanomthwalo wemfanelo.
Ngesiyalo esihle, isikhathi sokuphuma asibheki njengesijeziso. Esikhundleni salokho, kufanele kukhulunywe njengesikhathi esihle futhi kufanele kwenzeke endaweni enhle, ekhululekile.
Isikhathi esiphuthumayo senzelwe ukufundisa izingane ukuthi ziphumule lapho zidinga ukupholisa phansi ukuze zigcine zithathe isikhathi sokuzimela ngaphandle kokuthunyelwa khona ngenxa yalokho.
Sebenzisa amasu okuqinisa okukhuthaza ukuziphatha okuhle. Izinhlelo zomvuzo, amashadi wezitika, nezinhlelo zezomnotho we-token zingahamba ngendlela ende ekudambiseni ukuziphatha okubi.
Isikhathi Sokusebenzisa Isiyalo Esihle
Isiyalo esihle singasebenza kahle nabantwana basenkulisa ngokusebenzisa intsha. Izikole eziningi zikhuthaza othisha ukuba basebenzise isiyalo esihle ekilasini ngokusebenzisa izimiso ezifanayo.
Isiyalo esihle sinokusebenza nanoma yimuphi umnakekeli futhi kungasiza ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izingane zifunda emaphutheni abo.
Imithombo
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