Indlela Yokufundisa Ingane Ukubingelela Abantu Ngokufanele

Amathiphu ukusiza ingane ukuba izwe kalula lapho uhlangana nomuntu noma ethi uyajabula

Ukufundisa ingane ukuthi ungabingelela kanjani abantu ngokufanele kuyosiza ekuthuthukiseni amakhono omphakathi. Ukubingelela kusetha ithoni yonke yokuxhumana kwabantu . Umntwana onokwemvelo onamahloni noma owethulwe angase azuze ngokwazi ifomu elifanele futhi akwazi ukuyisebenzisa ngokuzethemba. Ingane ekhungathekile ingadinga isakhiwo ukuze sibe nesifanele kunokuba siphumelele ngokubingelelana.

Indlela ingane ezizibonakalisa ngayo kwabanye lapho ehlangana nabo izosho okuningi mayelana nokuthi iyinhlonipho kangakanani, futhi lelikhono elibalulekile lizomyisa eminyakeni yakhe emdala. Uma uke wahlangana nomntwana osekhulile onamahloni noma engakhululekile lapho ebingelela abantu, uyazi ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukugxilisa lawa makghono ezinganeni zisencane.

Izindlela Ezilula Abazali Abazosiza Abantwana Fundani Ukubingelela Abantu

1. Fundisa ingane yakho ukuba ibuke umbala wamehlo abantu. Ukwenza ukuxhumana kwamehlo yingxenye ebalulekile yemikhonzo. Izingane ezincane zingase zibe namahloni ngokubheka amehlo abantu, futhi lena yindlela yokubasiza bazizwe bengasondeli, ngokusho kuka Patricia Rossi, umbhali we "Everyday Etiquette."
2. Msize azinamathele ezincane zokukhala. Mfushane ingane yakho ngaphambi kokuhamba esitolo, emtatsheni wezincwadi, noma kwenye indawo lapho ingane yakho ingase ihlangane khona nabantu, futhi uhambe ngezinto ezingakusho. Mtshele ukuthi uma umuntu ebuza ukuthi wenza kanjani, konke okumele akwenze ukuthi, "Ngiyabonga, ngiyabonga." Ukunika ingane yakho umsindo omfishane omfushane futhi olula ukusebenzisana naye kungamsiza ukuba azizwe ecindezelekile kakhulu ngokuza nezinto ngithi. Lokhu kungabavimbela ekunikeni ulwazi oluningi okungaba yinkinga yokuphepha.

1. Yisekela futhi ukhuthaze. Buyekeza ukuthi izinto zahamba kanjani nomntanakho ngemuva nje kokubonga umuntu. Uma engenakukwazi ukubamba umyalezo, qinisekisa ingane yakho ukuthi uyazi ukuthi uzokwenza kangcono ngesikhathi esizayo. Uma ingane yakho izwa idangele noma izwa sengathi ayenzanga into eqondile noma yenza iphutha , mkhuthaze ukuba afunde kulokhu okuhlangenwe nakho futhi ayisebenzise ithuba elilandelayo okufanele alingise omunye. Uma izinto zihamba kahle, mtshele ukuthi uziqhenya kanjani ngaye ngokubingelela othile omnandi kangaka. Yisho into enjengokuthi, "Wenze lowo muntu uzizwe emuhle futhi ekhanyisa usuku lwabo ngezwi lakho," kusikisela uRossi.

1. Fundisa ingane yakho ukuthi ihlangane. Ngisho nabashayeli bezilwane bangabingelela abanye ngokuxhaphaza izandla. Yenza okunye ukudlala ukudla ukusiza ingane yakho isebenzise izandla futhi ihambisane nawe ngokubamba ngesandla ngokuzethemba. Fundisa ingane yakho ukuba ibhekane nomunye inkinobho yesisu sayo nezinzwane ezikhomba kulowo muntu lapho ebingelela lowo muntu.
2. Mtshele ukuthi ame. Uma ingane yakho ihlezi-yisho esitolo sokudlela noma e-sofa ekhaya-futhi isivakashi noma umuntu ojwayelene naye angena ekamelweni noma eze kuye ukuze asho, mfundise ukuba ameme ngaphambi kokusho ukubingelela kwakhe.
3. Yenza kube mnandi ngomntanakho. Ungakhohlwa ukwenza lokhu mayelana nokuzijabulisa nokuxhuma nabantu kunokuba uveze njengabantwana abaqashiwe okufanele bawenze. Zithokozise kancane ngenkathi udlala indima, futhi uqiniseke ukuthi ubanika ukudumisa okuningi. Chaza ingane yakho ukuthi uma ebabonga ngokuzithoba, bayomvuza ngokuncoma.