Kusukela esemncane, ingane yakho izomane ibhekane nabanye, ihlakulele ubungane obuqinile. Kodwa-ke, ukufunda indlela yokuba umngane omuhle akuyona ikhono enembile.
Izingane ezinzima ukuba umngane omuhle zibonisa inani elihle lezinkinga zokuziphatha. Ukuhlukumeza, ukuhlukumezeka ngokomzimba , nokubiza amagama ngokuvamile kuvame lapho izingane zingenalo amakhono okudlala kahle nabanye.
Kubalulekile ukusiza ingane yakho ibe nobuhlobo obuhle. Fundisa ingane yakho ukuthi ungaba kanjani umngane omuhle, futhi cishe uzohlangana nezinkinga ezimbalwa zokuqondiswa kwezigwegwe.
Faka ukuzivocavoca
Isinyathelo sokuqala ekufundiseni ingane yakho ukuba umngane omuhle ukumfundisa ukuba abe mnandi kuye. Uma ingane inomqondo oqinile , ngeke uzizwe kubalulekile ukujoyina ukuxhaphazwa noma ezinye izindlela zokuziphatha ukuze uzizwe uzizwe kangcono noma ungenele.
Ukwengeza, ingane enempilo enhle iyokwenza ubungane obuhle futhi igweme ubudlelwane obuyingozi emgwaqweni.
Fundisa Amakhono Ezenhlalakahle
Ukuziphatha okufanelekile kwezenhlalakahle akuyona ingozi. Dlalani nomntanakho ukuze umfundise ukuthi angaba kanjani nezingxoxo ezihloniphekile nabantu abadala kanye nezinye izingane.
Amakhono ezenhlalakahle okumele abe nabangane ahlanganisa ukufunda indlela yokuthi "cha," nokuthi ungamukela kanjani "cha" njengempendulo evela komunye umuntu. Umntanakho udinga futhi ukwazi ukuxolisa (futhi usho lokho!), Uphikisane nomngane ngenhlonipho, ulalele abanye, ubonise uzwela futhi ube mdlalo omuhle emidlalweni .
Jabulela Amabhuku Ngobuhlobo
Kusukela kuFrog noConald kuya kuWinnie the Pooh noChristopher Robin, izincwadi zezingane zigcwele ubungane obuqinile. Sebenzisa amabhuku njengethuba lokukhuluma ngalokho okwenza lezo zingani zisebenze, futhi yiziphi izimfanelo eziboniswa ukusiza.
Qinisekisa ukuthi ufunda izincwadi mayelana nabangane abahluke kakhulu komunye nomunye ukukhombisa ingane yakho ukuthi ungahlonipha kanjani umehluko futhi uhlale ungabangane.
Yenza Abangane Abasha
Kuba nzima ukwenza abangane njengoba ukhula. Ukukhathazeka komphakathi, kuhlangene nokungabi nethuba, kungadala izithiyo zokuvuma abantu abasha.
Fundisa ingane yakho ukuthi ungathatha kanjani isinyathelo sokwenza abangane - iyoyiphatha kahle ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Esikhundleni sokuhlala endlini, phuma uye epaki noma ubhalisele ekilasini.
Zethule kumuntu onomntwana oseneminyaka efanayo nawe. Khombisa ingane yakho ukuthi akudingeki ukuba isabise ukuhlangabezana nomuntu omusha (ngenkathi usafaka umqondo wokuphepha kubantu abangabazi). Awusoze wazi ukuthi umngane wakho olandelayo wophiko ungaphila!
Beka Isibonelo Esihle
Ingane yakho ilinda ukuziphatha kwakho, ngisho noma ungacabangi ukuthi uyayinaka. Ingane yakho izofunda indlela yokuphatha abangane bayo endleleni ophatha ngayo ontanga yakho.
Uma uqamba amanga nabangani bakho, khuluma kabi ngabo ngemuva komhlane wabo noma ubatshele okuthile okubaluleke kakhulu, ingane yakho izocabanga ukuthi indlela efanele yokuphatha umuntu. Esikhundleni salokho, yibani nomusa, nihloniphe futhi nizibophezele ekuzibopheleleni kwenu.
Ukufunda indlela yokuba umngane omuhle akuyona inqubo yobusuku bonke. Njengomzali, cishe uzobhekana nezimo lapho ingane yakho ingenzi khona njengomngane ongcono kakhulu.
Kuzoba nomdlalo, ukulwa, nokuhleba. Vula lezo zikhathi zibe yizikhathi ezifundiswayo, bese ubuza ukuthi umngane omuhle wayeyokwenza kanjani esimweni. Ekugcineni, uzothola i-hang yayo futhi, ngokuqinisekile, iphenduke umngane onakekelayo, onomusa futhi othembekile.