Izinkolelo eziningi zikhona mayelana nokuthi izingane nezingane zithola kanjani futhi zenze imizwa yabo yokudabuka nokulahlekelwa emva kokufa. Ngokuvame ukukhuthazwa ukufisa ukuvikela izingane ezinkingeni ezibuhlungu, ezingokomzwelo ngokuvamile, abazali kanye nabanakekeli ngezinye izikhathi bacabanga ukuthi ingane yabo isemncane kakhulu ukuqonda ukuthi kwenzekani, noma ukhathazeke ngokuthi inkonzo yomngcwabo noma yokungcwaba izodala ukwesaba ngokufa nokufa emva kwalokho.
Lesi sihloko sinikeza iqiniso ngokulandelana kwezinhlanhla eziyisihlanu ezivame ukukhathazeka ngokuphathelene nezingane kanye nentsha ekusizeni ukuqonda izidingo zabo kanye nenduduzo engcono nokusekela umntwana osizi.
Izingane Ezincane Ungadabuki
Izingane zibuhlungu nganoma yisiphi ubudala , ezingabonakalisa ngezindlela eziningi kuye ngokuthi ubudala bomntwana, isigaba sentuthuko kanye / noma okuhlangenwe nakho kokuphila. Izingane ngokuvamile zenza umsebenzi omuhle kakhulu wokhathazeka isikhathi esithile bese ziphumula, ngokuvamile zidlala ngendlela yokudlala. Lokhu kungase kulandise ukuthi kungani abazali / abadala bephutha ukudlala kwengane njengophawu lokuthi ingane ayilili lusizi noma ihlala ingazi lutho / ingathinteki ngokufa okwenzekile.
Izingane Ngaphansi Kwesinye Isikhathi Akufanele Siye Emingcwabeni
Yonke ingane ilawula imizwa yakhe yokudabuka nokulahleka ngokuhluke kuncike ezintweni eziningi, ngakho- ke ayikho yonke indawo noma "ubukhulu obulodwa buhambisana nayo yonke" impendulo yombuzo wokuthi ngabe ingane yakho kufanele ibe khona emngcwabeni, enkonzweni yesikhumbuzo noma emlilweni kuphela oneminyaka yakhe.
Ingane yengane yakho ingakwazi ukudlala ingxenye, kepha kunjalo futhi izinga lakhe lokuvuthwa; yini nokuthi umzali noma umnakekeli utshele kanjani ingane noma ingane ngokufa; futhi nokuthi abantu abadala abakhulu kangakanani empilweni yakhe babhekana nokulahlekelwa.
Izingane Ziza Ngokushesha Ngokulahlekelwa
Iqiniso liwukuthi akekho owake wahola ngempela ukulahlekelwa okukhulu ngenxa yokufa .
Naphezu kobuhlungu obunzima obubangelwa lapho umuntu esimthandayo efa, futhi isilonda senza ezinhliziyweni zethu nasemiphefumulweni, sifunda kuphela ukuthi singaphila kanjani lokho okushiwo ukulahleka okungapheli futhi kungabi nalutho. Ngokufanayo, izingane nezingane zingase ziphinde zibuke ngokomzwelo ngokwengqondo / ngokwengqondo ekulahlekeni kwazo ezingeni elizayo ekuthuthukisweni kwazo futhi, njengoba ukuqonda kwabo kokugcina kokufa kuguquka, usizi lwabo lungase luvele emazingeni ahlukahlukene kamuva ekuphileni.
Ukulahlekelwa Okuphawulekayo Kwamaphekula Ngomntwana
Izingane, njengabantu abaningi, zivame ukuqina. Nakuba ukulahlekelwa okuphawulekayo kungathinta ukuthuthukiswa kwengane noma intsha esekelwe ezintweni eziningi ezihlukene, abazali abanothando, ababheki kanye / noma abanye abantu abadala abakha indawo yokusekela nokunakekelwa okuqhubekayo ngokuvamile kusiza izingane nentsha ukuthi zibhekane nemizwa yazo yokudabuka ngendlela enempilo . Ngokuvamile, lokhu kuqala ngokuthi ukhuluma kanjani ngendodana mayelana nokufa kanye nesibonelo osihlinzekayo, njengengxenye ebalulekile ekuphileni komntanakho.
Abazali Akufanele Bakhulume Ngokufa Nokudabuka Nezingane
Kubalulekile ukugqugquzela ukukhulumisana okuvulekile, okuqotho nabantwana kanye nentsha ngokuphathelene nosizi lwabo kanye / noma ukuqonda kwabo ngokufa nokulahlekelwa . Kunezindlela eziningi zokusiza ingane yakho ukuveza usizi, kodwa kuye ngokuthi izinga lomntwana wakho noma izinga lokuvuthwa, izindlela ezingezona izingxoxo ezikhuthaza ukukhuluma kungase kuphumelele kakhulu, njengamaphrojekthi wezobuciko, ukufunda incwadi, ukudlala umdlalo , umculo noma umdanso.
Izingane kanye / noma intsha ingathola lezi zindlela ziphumelele kakhulu ekuzisizeni ukuba ziveze imizwa yazo, engabangela umphumela omuhle kakhulu wena nomntanakho.
> Imithombo:
> "Ukuqaphela Izidingo Zezingane Ezibelethwe Ekunakekelweni Kwama-Palliative" nguDarrell Owens. I-Journal of Nursing & Palliative Nursing , ngoJanuwari-Febhuwari 2008.