Abazali abaningi bayazibuza ukuthi kudingeke yini ukukhokhisa inkokhelo yentsha. Ngenkathi ungafanele ukhokhe intela ngenkathi ingane yakho ingena esikoleni esiphakeme, kungase kube nezikhathi lapho kuba umninikhaya kufanelekile. Eqinisweni, ukushaja umklomelo wakho wengane kungaba yinto enhle kakhulu ongayenza kwezinye izimo.
Nini ukukhokha intela
Uma nje ingane yakho ihamba esikoleni isikhathi esigcwele (kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isesikoleni esiphakeme noma ekolishi), ungakhokhi intela.
Kodwa, ungamvumeli aqhubeke nokuhamba mahhala uma engaqhubeki emfundweni yakhe.
Nazi izibonelo ezimbalwa lapho kufanele ulindele ukuthi ingane yakho ibe negalelo ekamelweni lakhe nasebhodi:
- Uneminyaka engu-16 ubudala uhla esikoleni esiphakeme futhi uthi ufuna ukuthola umsebenzi.
- U-17 wakho oneminyaka engu-17 ushiya isikole futhi uthi uzokhetha ukuthola i-GED yakhe kuphela.
- Umntwana oneminyaka engu-18 ufuna ukuhlala ekhaya ngemuva kokuphothula iziqu esikoleni esiphakeme. Uhlela ukuthola umsebenzi, kunokuya ekolishi.
- Umntwana wakho oneminyaka engu-19 usuka ekolishi ngemuva kwe-semester eyodwa.
Izingozi zokungakhokhi intela
Akukho lutho olubi ngokuvumela ingane yakho noma umdala omdala ukuba ahlale ekhaya iminyaka embalwa eyengeziwe ngenkathi ehola imali noma ezuza amakhono adinga ukuhlala eyedwa. Kodwa ukumvumela ukuba aphile ngaphandle kwerenti kungamlimaza-kanye nobuhlobo bakho. Nazi izingozi ezimbalwa zokungakhokhi intela:
- Ingane yakho izolahlekelwa ngamakhono okufunda. Ukuphila ngokuzimela kufundisa amakhono okuphila okubalulekile , okusukela kumakhono okubhajethi kuya ekuziphatheni. Uma isikhathi eside sokulibazisa kwakho kwentsha kukukhokha intela, kuzomthatha isikhathi eside ukuze athole lawo makghono.
- Ukukhula komzwelo kwengane yakho kungahle kuphele. Ukuphila okuzimele kudinga abantu abasha ukuba babhekane nokukhathazeka kwabo, bahambe ngaphandle kwezindawo zabo zokududuza, futhi babhekane nokucindezeleka ngokwabo. Ukushaja irenti kungasiza ekutheni ingane yakho iqinise amandla engqondo.
- Ukushaja intela kungakhokhisa imali engenayo. Ukusiza ingane yakho ngaphandle kwezimali kungalimaza eqanda lakho lesidleke. Abazali abaningi banqanda ukubamba umhlalaphansi noma bayeke izinto ukuze baqhubeke nokusekela izingane zabo ezingaphezu kweminyaka engu-18.
- Ungase uhambise iphupho lomntwana wakho ngokuphila okuzimele. Uma ingane yakho ingakhokhi intela, uyokhululeka ukusebenzisa imali yakhe noma ngabe iyayifuna. Angathenga izinto ezibizayo ezingeke zikwazi ukukhokha uma kufanele akhokhe intela.
- Ingane yakho ingakhula kakhulu kuncike kuwe. Ingane yakho kufanele ithole ukuzimela phezu kwesikhathi. Kodwa uma nje ehlala endlini yakho yokuqashisa, angase akhule ngokugcwele ukuthi uyomnakekela. Ungabaza ukukwazi kwakhe ukuhlala yedwa.
Kungakanani Okuzokhokhisa
Cwaninga izikhangiso zokuqasha zendawo ukuze uthole umbono omuhle ngalokho ingane yakho engakhokhela khona igumbi elilodwa lokulala. Khokha kancane kancane ekamelweni lakhe nasebhodi endlini yakho.
Nquma ukuthi yiziphi ezinye izindleko ozenza ingane yakho ibe nesibopho sokukhokha. Umshuwalense wemoto , imali yegesi, nokuzijabulisa yizinto ezimbalwa zezinkokhelo angaqala ukuzihlanganisa yena.
Qinisekisa ukuthi uyazi ukuthi uzobe engeza izindleko uma ephuma. Izinsiza, ikhebula, nokudla, isibonelo, kungabi kubiza kunalokho akulindele.
Okufanele Ukwenze Ngemali
Abanye abazali bazizwa bengakhululekile ukuqoqa inkokhelo ezinganeni zabo. Bazizwa benecala ngokuyisebenzisa noma ukuyibeka ku-akhawunti yabo yasebhange.
Uma ungafuni ukusebenzisa imali yakho, ungabeka eceleni irenti eceleni kwe-akhawunti ekhethekile.
Bese uyifaka imali e-akhawuntini yokuthatha umhlalaphansi ingane yakho noma uyisebenzise ukuze usize ukukhokha imfundo yakho yengane uma ekhetha ukuthatha amakilasi ngosuku oluthile.
Kodwa, ngokuqinisekile ukhululekile ukusebenzisa imali noma ngabe ufuna. Yisebenzise ukumboza izindleko zakho, hamba eholidini, noma ulondoloze umhlalaphansi uma ufisa.
Fundisa Izifundo Zemali Ekuqaleni
Kubalulekile ukuqala ukufundisa izifundo zakho ezisemqoka ngemali ngokushesha. Ukwethula imisebenzi kanye nokunikeza imali ngesikhathi esincane kuyofundisa ingane yakho amakhono ayisisekelo emali.
Njengoba ekhula, yenza ingane yakho ibe nesibopho sokukhokha ezinye izingubo zakhe noma ukuzijabulisa kwakhe.
Mfundise ngesabelomali futhi nimsize ekubekeni eceleni imali yokulondoloza. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane yakho ineminyaka engakanani ubudala, akukaze ihambe isikhathi eside ukuqala ukumfundisa ukuba abe ne-savvy ngokwezimali.
Lapho ingane yakho ikhokha ukuqasha, uzofunda ukuthi ungaqala kanjani ukuphatha kahle imali yakhe. Uma eseqedile ukuqasha, noma ehluleka ukuphatha imali yakhe, shintsha amaphutha akhe ekufundeni amathuba .
Ngokuzijwayeza-nokuqondisa okwengeziwe-uzokwazi ukuphumelela ekukhokha indlela yakhe lapho eseyedwa. Umgomo wakho kufanele kube ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uyakwazi ukuzimela uma ephuma endlini .
Yakha izinkombandlela ezempilo
Uma uzokhokha intela yakho yentsha, faka iziqondiso ezithile ezizokusiza uhlale ndawonye ngokunethezeka. Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi iqoqo lakho lokuqasha likhonza njengomkhuba owusizo kokubili wena nentsha yakho.
Dala imithetho ezoqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho ifunda kusuka ematheni oyiphayo. Nazi izibonelo ezimbalwa zezilindelwe ongazibeka:
- Sizobuyekeza ibhajethi yakho ndawonye. Tshela ingane yakho ukuthi kufanele ihlale nawe kanye ngesonto ukuhlola isabelomali sayo. Msize aqonde ukuthi udinge kangakanani ukubeka eceleni ukumboza izikweletu zakhe.
- Ukuqashisa isikhathi esilandelayo kuzoholela ekukhokhiseni inzalo. Ukuvumela ingane yakho ukuba ibuyele ekuqashweni inyanga zonke ngeke imenzele izintandokazi. Yibambe iqhaza ngokukhokha inzalo-ngisho noma ingamadola ambalwa kuphela. Umninikhaya wakhe olandelayo cishe ngeke abe njengomusa ngakho kubalulekile ukumfundisa ukuthi akhokhe ngesikhathi.
- Ezinyangeni eziyisithupha ngizokusiza ukuthi uthole indawo yokuhlala. Qiniseka ukuthi unomgomo wokugcina engqondweni. Uma ingane yakho icabanga ukuthi ingaphila nawe kuze kube phakade, ingase ingasindisi imali ukuze imali iphume.
Okubaluleke kakhulu, gcina imigqa yokuxhumana ivulekile nezingane zakho. Khuluma ngezinkinga ezihlobene nerenti uma ziphakama ukuze zivimbele ukuba zingonakalisi ubuhlobo bakho.
Khumbula, ukuthi usesekhokhweni. Ngakho-ke ngisho nalapho ingane yakho ikhokha ukuqasha, akanalo ilungelo lokuphula imithetho yakho, ukuziphatha ngokunganaki noma ukwenza noma yini ayithandayo. Usenayo ikhaya lakho noma ukhokhele indlu yakho, ngakho-ke uthola ukusetha imithetho.
Lapho isetshenziswe ngendlela efanele, ukuqoqa ukuqashwa kwentsha yakho kungathuthukisa ubuhlobo bakho futhi kungcono ukulungiselela ingane yakho esikhathini esizayo.