Bayaziwa ngokuthi izingane ze-boomerang - labo abaphuma ngaphandle kwe-18 kuphela ukuze babuyele kumama nomama eminyakeni embalwa kamuva uma sebeboshiwe ngokwezimali. Emindenini eminingi, ukusekela ingane ekhulile kuthatha umonakalo ngokomzwelo nangokwezimali.
Eminyakeni engamashumi amane edlule kuye kwanda ukwanda kancane kodwa okuqhubekayo kubantu abadala asebebuyela ekhaya. Ngo-2012, intsha engama-36% ubudala abaneminyaka yobudala engama-18 kuya ku-31 yayihlala emizini yabazali, ngokusho kohlolo lwe-Pew Research Center ka-2012.
Uma ungabaza ukuthi uzoba ngumfana wengane yakho ehlala embhedeni wakho kuze kube yilapho engama-30, thatha izinyathelo zokumkhuthaza ukuba ashiye isidleke - futhi uhlale lapho. Nazi izinyathelo eziyisishiyagalolunye ongazithatha manje ukunciphisa amathuba okuthi ingane yakho izobuyela ekhaya kamuva:
1. Vumela Intsha Yakho Yenze Amaphutha
Intsha idinga amathuba okwenza amaphutha ngenkathi isaphila ngaphansi kophahla lwakho. Uma unciphisa yonke imisebenzi yakho yesimanje yansuku zonke, uzolahlekelwa ngamathuba okufunda abalulekile. Ngezinye izikhathi, imiphumela yemiphumela emibi isebenza njengothisha ongcono.
2. Fundisa Amakhono Okuphatha Imali
Isizathu esikhulu kunazo zonke izingane ezisuka ekhaya zibangelwa izinkinga zezezimali. Qala ukufundisa izimiso zemali esencane. Bonisa ingane yakho ukuthi ungamisa kanjani isabelomali futhi imnike amathuba amaningi okuzijwayeza ukuthenga izingubo zokugqoka nokukhokha ukuzijabulisa kwisabelomali.
3. Fundisa Ingane Yakho Ngesikweletu
Iningi labantu abasha abaliqondi ukuthi izikweletu zithini.
Umqondo wokuthi 'uthengise manje ukhokhe kamuva' usuke uthinta abantu abaningi abaneminyaka engu-18 ubudala, ngisho nalapho bengenayo imali yokukhokha izikweletu. Khuluma nengane yakho mayelana nezingozi zezikweletu futhi uqinisekise ukuthi ingane yakho iyaqonda ukuthi amanani entengo ephakeme angabhubhisa kanjani imali yabo.
4. Nikeza Isiqondiso Ngezinhlelo Zakho Zesikhathi Esizayo Zezingane
Ngenkathi intsha idinga ukukhetha mayelana nokusebenza kwabo esikhathini esizayo, kubalulekile ukunikeza isiqondiso esithile.
Intombazane efuna ukuhamba ngokujulile esikweletini esikoleni semfundo ekolishi, ingasebenzisa impilo yakhe emdala ngokukhokha imali. Nikeza iningi lemfundo nesiqondiso mayelana nezinqumo zakho eziphathelene nomsebenzi wengane.
5. Fundisa Inkinga Yakho Yengane-Ukuxazulula Amakhono
Amakhono anempilo ekuxazululeni izinkinga angasiza ingane yakho ithole amasu okubhekana nezinkinga zezindlu, ukuthutha, nokuqashwa ngaphandle kokubuyela ekhaya. Fundisa ingane yakho ngenkuthalo indlela yokuxazulula izinkinga ngokuzimela.
6. Siza Intsha Yakho Fundise Indlela Yokuqalisa Ubudlelwane obuhle
Ubuhlobo obunempilo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubungane noma ubudlelwane obuseduze, bungabangela ukukhathazeka okuningi okungokomsebenzi nangokomzwelo okungabangela ingane ukuba ihambe ekhaya. Siza ingane yakho ifunde ukuthola izibonakaliso eziyisixwayiso noma amafulege abomvu abonisa ukuthi ubudlelwane abuphilile.
7. Faka i-Healthy Ethics Ethics
Yenza umsebenzi ophilile wokusebenza ngokunikeza imisebenzi yasekhaya efundisa umthwalo wemfanelo futhi uyikhokhele umsebenzi owenziwe kahle. Uma ingane yakho ikhulile ngokwanele, msize athole umsebenzi. Msize abone izinzuzo zomsebenzi ngakho uzohlala eqhutshwa ukuze aphile njengomuntu omdala.
8. Fundisa Amakhono Okuphila Kwabantwana bakho
Intsha idinga ukwazi amakhono ahlukahlukene okuphila , okususelwa ekusebenzeni imisebenzi yokuxhumana nabantu abasha.
Thatha isikhathi sokufundisa ingane yakho ngokuzimisela amakhono ayenzayo ukuthi adinga ukuphila ngokuzimela. Ungakhohlwa ukubheka amakhono ayisisekelo, njengokusebenzisa i-etiquette yocingo nokubhekana nama-envelope, okuvame ukuphoqeka phakathi nesikhathi se-digital.
9. Yenza Ukulindela Kwenu Kucace
Uma ingane yakho icabanga ukuthi kuyinto evamile ukukhipha abafundi abakhulu imali yokubolekisa futhi uhambe ngokujulile esikweletu sesikweletu samakhadi esikweletu, kungenzeka ukuthi ucabange ukuthi kulungile ukubuyela ekhaya. Yenza iminyaka yakho ilindeleke kusengaphambili. Tshela ingane yakho ukuthi ulindele ukuba abe ngokwezimali nangokwemvelo. Uma eyazi ukuthi ulindele ukuthi angabambeli umsebenzi, akhokhe izikweletu zakhe, futhi akhokhe intela yakhe, akakwazi kakhulu ukubuyela ekhaya.