Kulula ukukhohlwa ukufundisa intsha lezi zindlela eziyisisekelo.
Lapho abazali abaningi becabanga ngokufundisa imikhuba, bacabanga ukuthi utshele isenkulisa ukuthi 'sicela' futhi 'ngiyabonga.' Kodwa, imikhuba emihle idlula kakhulu lawo mazwi futhi kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ufundisa ingane yakho imikhuba emihle eminyakeni eyishumi.
Ngeshwa, eminyakeni yobudijithali, intsha eningi ayifundi amakhono ayisisekelo omphakathi, njengamazwi e- cellphone .
Futhi kunezinsizwa eziningi izingane ezivame ukuyikhohlwa nakuba sezizifunde esikhathini esidlule.
Ngezinye izikhathi, intsha ihamba ngezigaba lapho ifuna ukubukeka ipholile nemikhuba iphuma efasiteleni. Ngezinye izikhathi, bathola inhlanhla encane futhi bakhohlwe ukuba nehlonipho.
Kodwa ukukhulisa umfana onomusa nokunakekelayo osebenzisa imikhuba emihle kungaba nzuzo kakhulu ngekusasa lakhe. Intsha enemikhuba emihle izoyala inhlonipho eyengeziwe, engabasiza emphakathini nasemfundweni.
Intsha Eyisisekelo Kufanele Yazi
Ngezinye izikhathi, intsha idinga ukuvuselelwa okuncane emnyangweni wezimfanelo eziyisisekelo. Kulula kubo ukuba bathuthukise imikhuba embalwa embi lapho bexhama nabangane babo noma bangase babe novilapha kancane ngezikhathi ezithile.
Nazi ezinye izindlela eziyisisekelo okufanele uqinisekise ukuthi ingane yakho isebenzisa njalo:
- Yithi 'sicela' futhi 'ngiyabonga.'
- Xolisa uma esenze okuthile okungalungile.
- Lindela ithuba lakhe lokukhuluma engxoxweni.
- Gcina izandla zakhe kuye futhi ungathathi izinto ezandleni zabantu.
- Yithi 'yiba nomlandu kimi' uma edinga ukuphazamisa noma uma ephuka ngengozi kumuntu.
- Cela imvume yokwenza izinto.
- Bhala ukubonga amanothi kubantu abanika izipho.
- Yenza ubuso bezingxoxo ezingxoxweni.
- Shake izandla uma ubingelela othile omusha.
- Sebenzisa imikhuba efanele yetafula lapho udla.
- Gwema ukuthumela imiyalezo nokusebenzisa imithombo yezokuxhumana uma ukhuluma nabantu ubuso nobuso.
- Ungaphenduli izingcingo uma ephakathi kwengxoxo ebuso ubuso nobuso.
- Sebenzisa ulimi olufanele futhi uphendule imibuzo uma ubuzwa.
- Qaphela ukuhlanzeka okuyisisekelo, kufaka phakathi ukukhwehlela emgqeni wakhe futhi umboze umlomo wakhe lapho ehlambalaza.
Ezweni lethu ledijithali, kulula ukuba intsha ilahlekelwe yimikhuba eyisisekelo. Kodwa ukugabisa lapho u-Grandma ebuza umbuzo noma ukuthumela imiyalezo lapho bedla ukudla kungenangqondo. Ngakho kubalulekile ukufundisa ingane yakho indlela yokuxhumana, ukuxhumana, nokuphendula kwabanye ngendlela enesizotha nangomusa.
Indlela Yokuthola Intsha Yokusebenzisa Imikhuba Emihle
Ungenza ingane yakho isebenzise imikhuba yabo ngendlela efanayo obenza ukuba benze noma yini enye:
- Cacisa ngalokho okulindele.
- Khuluma ngezinzuzo zokuba nemikhuba emihle.
- Nika imiphumela yakho yengane uma kudingeka.
Gwema ukuyala ingane yakho noma ukuyihlambalaza emphakathini uma yenza iphutha. Kunalokho, yiba nengxoxo yangasese mayelana nemikhuba yakhe uma ubona inkinga.
Ngaphandle komthetho ukungahloniphi. Uma ingane yakho ingenandaba nawe , phendula ngokushesha.
Yenza kucace ukuthi ngeke ukwazi ukubekezelela ukuphathwa ngendlela engafanele. Susa amalungelo omntanakho bese umvumela ukuba abuyele lapho eziphatha ngokuzithoba.
Nika amathuba akho emusha ukuba enze imikhuba emihle futhi.
Ukubuyisela into esitolo, ukuhlela ukuqashwa kwakhe, noma ukucela abasebenzi balinde esinye isiphuzo endaweni yokudlela kuyisebenzisela ukuthi asebenzise amakhono akhe.
Ungaphinda ukhulume ngabalingiswa ku-TV noma kuma-movie nokuthi baxhumana kanjani nabanye. Xoxa indlela ukuziphatha okuthinta ngayo ukuphila kwabantu.
Lapho ingane yakho isanda kufaka isimo esisha, indima. Isibonelo, ngaphambi kokuba aqoke usuku lenduduzo, khuluma ngendlela yokubingelela abazali bakhe. Noma ngaphambi kokuya endaweni yokuqokwa kwakhe, indima yokudlala indlela yokuhlola edeskini.
Uma ubona ingane yakho ibonisa imikhuba emihle, yikhombise. Yazisa lapho enza umsebenzi omuhle futhi cishe uzoqhubeka nomsebenzi omuhle.
Impendulo yakho ingaba yingxenye ebalulekile ekufundeni kwentsha yakho yokufunda imikhuba emisha nokuqinisa amakhono akhe.
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