Fundisa Ingane Yakho Ukuba Yesizwe Futhi Inenhlonipho, Ngisho Nengabe Abanye Bengekho.
Elinye lamakhono abaluleke kakhulu izingane kufanele zifunde ukuthi ungavumelani kanjani nabanye ngenhlonipho. Izingane ezifunda esikoleni zihlela ukuzimela kwazo kanye nokuzimela , zenze imibono yazo ngezinto, futhi zihlolisise ukuthi ziyithandi futhi zingathandi. Kungokwemvelo ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi bangaboni amehlo ngento ethile nomngani , ilungu lomndeni, noma ngisho nothisha noma umqeqeshi.
Ngokukhulumako, kuhle ukuthi izingane zifunde ukwakha imibono yazo futhi zikwazi ukuveza imicabango nemibono yabo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuthi izingane ziqonde ukuthi kumelwe zizwakalise ngendlela ehloniphayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zixoxa okuthile nabantu abadala noma nezinye izingane. Eqinisweni, ikhono lokuxoxa ngokuthula ngombono wakho ngisho nalapho liphikisana nemibono yabanye abantu luphawu lokuvuthwa. Uma ubona abantu abadala abangakwazi ukwenza lokhu, bavele bengakafiki.
Okushiwo Abazali Ukukhuthaza Ukuphikisana Nezingxoxo Ezibucayi
- Qaphela ukuthi ingane yakho ikubonani uma ubukela izindaba, futhi uqaphele ukuthi ingane yakho ikubona ku-intanethi. Abezombusazwe kanye nama-pundits bangase bakhonxe omunye nomunye ku-TV. Abantu bangenza amazwana asabekayo ku-intanethi. Kubaluleke nakakhulu kunanini ngaphambili ukuthi izingane zifunde ukulahla ukukhathazeka nokuhlukunyezwa nokukhetha inhlonipho nokuzimela.
- Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuba ibe umlaleli omuhle, futhi qinisekisa ukuthi ufanisa lokho kuziphatha ngokumnaka lapho ekhuluma nawe. Ukulalela kuyisibonakaliso senhlonipho futhi kuyigugu elibalulekile esikoleni, kanye nasemva kokuphila. Fundisa ingane yakho ukuba ilalele ngempela lokho okushiwo omunye umuntu bese uzama ukuqonda iphuzu labo lokubuka, futhi ungacabangi ngempikiswano yalokho abakushoyo lapho bekhuluma.
- Khuluma ngezenzakalo zamanje ngesikhathi sakusihlwa. Ukudla komndeni njalo kubalulekile empilweni yezingane kanye nentuthuko futhi kuye kwahlanganiswa nemiphumela emihle njengengozi encane yokukhuluphala, ukusebenza kwesikole kangcono, nokuzihlonipha okuphakeme. Futhi kuyithuba elihle labantwana lokufunda ukuveza imibono yabo ngalokho okwenzekayo emhlabeni nasezimpilweni zabo. Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi ikhulume ngezenzakalo zamanje (izingane zesikole zingaqala ukufunda iphepha noma umagazini wezingane njenge- Time for Kids ); incwadi ayifunde; noma into ayifunayo esikoleni. Shintsha imibono, futhi uhloniphe imibono yomunye nomunye.
- Mkhuba ukubuka izinto ekuboneni kwabanye. Lesi esinye sezici eziyisisekelo zokuzwela , okuye kwaboniswa ukuthi kubalulekile empumelelweni yezingane kamuva ekuphileni. Uma izingane zingena emkhondweni wokubona izinto ezivela kwabanye abantu, zifunda ukubona izinto ngezindlela ezincane ezicacile ("Ngilungile; awukho") futhi unikeze izinto ezintweni, ngisho noma bengavumelani nabo.
- Fundisa ingane yakho ukuba iqiniseke ezinkolelweni nasemicabangweni yakhe. Kungaba nzima ukuhamba ngendlela yakho lapho abanye benza okuthile okuhlukile. Tshela ingane yakho ukuba iqiniseke, futhi uyikhumbuze ukuthi ukuqiniseka ngemibono nemicabango yomuntu akusho ukuthi kufanele uhlasele imibono yabanye abantu ukuze uqinise ngokwakho-lokho kuyisibonakaliso sangempela sokuzethemba emibonweni yakho.
- Qiniseka ukuthi uyaqonda ukuthi imibhalo noma ama-imeyili asadingeka ukuba abe nenhlonipho. Izingane kanye nabantu abadala bahlala njalo kumadivayisi eselula namuhla, futhi okuningi kokuxhumana kwenzeka nge-imeyili, imibhalo, kanye nemiyalezo esheshayo. Kubalulekile ukuthi izingane ziqonde ukuthi zidinga ukuzwakalisa ngenhlonipho kulawo mapulatifomu. Fundisa izingane ukuba zingalokothi zihlambalaze abanye abantu futhi zizame njalo ukubona umbono wabo, njengoba nje bezothanda lapho bekhuluma nabo ngokwabo.
- Ungalokothi, uhlambalaze umuntu ngombono wabo. Uma ungavumelani nemibono noma izinkolelo noma imibono, akufanele neze uthole umuntu. Ukukhala noma ukubiza igama akufanele kube yingxenye yanoma iyiphi ingxoxo.