Nika ingane yakho izihluthulelo zokwakha ubudlelwano obujabulisayo, obuphilile
Ngesikole sesibanga nesigaba samabanga aphansi, izingane zixhumane kakhulu nomunye nomunye, zithuthukisa izintandokazi, futhi ziyaqhubeka zikhetha abangane ngokwabo.
Kodwa ngenkathi ungase ungasho okuncane ukuthi ngubani ofunda naye esikoleni samabanga aphansi kunakho okwenzile lapho esemncane, usengasiza ukumqondisa ekuthuthukiseni ubungane obuphilile nojabulisayo. Nazi ezinye iziphakamiso zokuthi ungasiza kanjani ingane yakho ukuthi yenza abangane abasha.
Yiba Isibonelo Esihle Esihle
Mbonise ukuthi uyabaluzisa kangakanani abangane bakho, nokuthi yini oyinikezayo futhi uthola kusuka komunye nomunye. Dlala imidlalo nengane yakho egcizelela ukwabelana, ukubekezela namanye amakhono abalulekile ekwenzeni abangane.
Khuthaza Kodwa Ungapheli
Uma ingane yakho inamahloni, ikakhulukazi ezimweni ezintsha, mnike isikhathi sokuzijabulisa ndawonye. Indodana yami yayiyizinyane lezinyane elizohlala lihlelwe emlenzeni wami emasontweni ambalwa okuqala enkulisa nasenkulisa-yep, leyo kid. Othisha bakhe benza umsebenzi omangalisayo, futhi ekugcineni, wangishiya, wahlangana kancane nabafundisi bakhe futhi waqala ukwenza abangane ekilasini.
Zithathele Ezemidlalo noma Emisebenzini
Ukwenza izinto ezingekho esikoleni-njengokudlala ibhola noma ukuthatha isigaba sebumbri-elinye ithuba elihle lokuba ingane yakho ibe nobungane. Mbuze ukuthi yiziphi izingane angathanda ukuzidlala nazo futhi amkhuthaze ukuba azibize usuku lokudlala .
Yibambisene Nabo Ubuhlobo Obusha
Ukuba nomngani omkhulu kakhulu, kepha uma nje efuna ukudlala nomuntu oyedwa ngaso sonke isikhathi, zama ukukhulisa ama-horizons akhe.
Chaza ukuthi nakuba kuhle ukuba nomngani omkhulu, lokho akusho ukuthi angeke aphinde asebenze nezinye izingane, futhi.
Setha isikhathi nezingane zobulili obuphikisanayo
Kwakungenakugwemeka, ngicabanga. Ngesikhathi esaqala ukuqala ebangeni lokuqala, indodana yami, eyayingathanda ukudlala "uMama noDaddy" ngamagceke akhe ayizintandokazi, ngokuzumayo yathi akafuni ukudlala namantombazane.
Kodwa ukuba umngane nomntwana wobulili obuhlukile kungasiza ingane yakho ukuba ihlale kahle. Yebo, abafana bavame ukudlala ukudlala namabhere amantombazane abathanda ukuhlanganisa izilwane ezigxiliwe ngetiye, kodwa kuhle ukubakhuthaza ukuba benze kokubili omunye nomunye.
Ukulinganisela Isikhathi Somngane Ngesikhathi Esedwa
Buka imizwa yengane yakho futhi ungapheli ikhalenda yakhe yomphakathi. Ngiye ngaphawula ukuthi indodana yami ngezinye izikhathi ithola i-cranky uma ingenaso isikhathi esithile sokuthula ukuze ibe yedwa. Uyakuthanda ukuzulazula nabangani bakhe futhi ubala kuma-playdates avamile nabangani abathandayo. Kodwa futhi udinga isikhathi sokuba ahlale yedwa futhi athole noma ahlele izibalo zakhe ze-Lego Star Wars ezigciniwe eziyinkimbinkimbi kuzo zonke izindlu.
Hlonipha isitayela sabo
Ungase ube intombazane yezenhlalakahle okudinga abantu abakuzungezile njalo bazizwe benamandla. Kodwa uma ingane yakho ingcono kuzilungiselelo zomuntu oyedwa noma okuthandayo kube yedwa ngezikhathi ezithile, mnike lokho akudingayo.
Babheke Ukusebenzisana Nezinye Izingane
Ungafunda okuningi ngomntanakho ngokumbuka njengoba ehlangana noontanga. Lokhu kungasiza kakhulu uma ingane yakho encane ibonakala inenkinga yokwenza abangane. Bukela ukuziphatha kwakhe-ingabe uyazibuza? Ulaka? Ingabe unenkathazo yokwabelana, noma ukuqubuka lapho umdlali edlala naye emdlalweni?
Bese sebenzela ngamakhono amakhono wokwakha ubungane.
Okufanele ukwenze Mayelana ne-Troubleome Playmate
Bonke abangane abancane bangabhekana nezinkinga zabo. Futhi eqinisweni, ukuphatha ukungqubuzana nontanga kuyinto ikhono eliyigugu ingane yakho yokufunda. Kodwa ngenkathi kuqinisekiswa ngezikhathi ezithile ngezinto ezifana nokuthi ubani othola uphawu oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka olulandelayo olujwayelekile, uma odlala naye ehlala elimaza-ngokomzimba noma ngokomzwelo-yisikhathi sokuba ungene.
Tshela ingane yakho ukuthi ixoxisane nomngane wayo ngemizwa yakhe. Abaningi bebanga lesikole bazokwazi ukuxoxa ngengqondo. Ukufunda ukuveza imizwelo yakhe kuyigugu elibalulekile.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umngane wakhe uxolisa noma cha, ingane yakho izobe isho lokho. Bafundise ukuba bahambe, ikakhulu uma umngane wabo elimaza ngokomzimba.
Dala ibanga elithile. Uma umngane eqhubeka eziphatha kabi, zama ukumisa ukudlala ukudlala nabanye abantwana. Hambisa ingane yakho eminye imisebenzi, futhi uma umngane wakhe olimazayo eseklasini elifanayo, khuluma nothisha ngokuzihlalisa.
Ngiyazi ukuthi eminyakeni eyishumi ezayo izayo, futhi ngeke ngikwazi ukufaka okuningi kulowo ochitha isikhathi naye. Kodwa uma ngibona indlela enhle abaphatha ngayo ubungane namuhla, ngithemba ukuthi kuzoba ngcono kakhulu ukuhamba phambili.