Abantu abadala abaneminyaka emihlanu balungele ukukhulisa umphakathi wabo
Kukho izinsuku lapho ingane yakho eneminyaka emihlanu ubudala isengumntwana, kuphela ukuxhumana ngokuhlanganyela nomuntu odlala naye futhi uhlanganyele kulokho okuvame ukubizwa ngokuthi "ukudlala okufanayo." Manje, noma ngabe ingane yakho iyimvemvane yezenhlalakahle noma ingane encane ehamba kancane, iyokhula ngokuvumelana nemvelo nezinye izingane, kungaba enkulisa noma ezinsukwini zokudlala .
Uzoqala nokwandisa ubuhlobo bakhe nezwe ngokubanzi njengoba eqhubeka eqonda kabanzi mayelana nezwe elizungezile. Nansi isithombe esivamile sokuthuthukiswa kwezenhlalakahle ezineminyaka emihlanu ubudala.
Abangane
Ubuhlobo buqala ukuthatha ukubaluleka kakhudlwana kubantwana abaneminyaka emihlanu. Ingane le minyaka ingase iqale ukufakazela kubangani abathile abakhethiwe bese yenza izibopho eziseduze ezihlangene nezingane ezimbili noma ezintathu. Abazali kufanele baqaphele ukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa kwalokhu kungukuthi ama-cliques angase akheke futhi kungase kwenzeke, ngakho-ke kufanele bahlale behlolisisa ama-dynamics eklasini nasemidlalweni yokudlala. Futhi njengoba kudabukisayo njengokungathi ukucabanga ngakho, iqiniso liwukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa kungase kwenzeke enkulisa .
Ukuziphatha Nezimiso
Abaneminyaka emihlanu ubudala baqala nokuqonda umehluko phakathi kokuthi "kwesokudla" nokungalungile. Bazokwazi ukuqonda umqondo wemithetho futhi bazofuna ukuwalandela futhi bajabulise abadala.
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, uneminyaka emihlanu ubudala angase azame ukususa imingcele njengoba ezama ngokwemvelo ukuzama izinto ezintsha bese eqinisekisa lokho okuthandayo futhi okuyokwenza.
Njengalabo okuthiwa "abesabekayo ababili," lokhu kungaba yisigaba lapho ubona khona ukuxabana nomntanakho njengoba ehlola ukulinganiselwa kwakhe.
Ubudlelwane
Abantwana abaneminyaka emihlanu baqala nokuthuthukisa indlela abahlolisana ngayo abasebenza ngayo futhi bangase babuze imibuzo eminingi mayelana nokuthi ubani oshadile naye nokuthi yini umdadewabo noma umama wesilisa.
Bayoba nesithakazelo ngokwengeziwe ukwazi ukuthi amalungu omndeni wakubo ahlobene kanjani futhi azobuza ngemindeni yabangane babo.
Ukunika, Ukuhlanganyela, nozwela
Abaningi abaneminyaka emihlanu bayakujabulela ukupha nokuhlanganyela (kanye nokwamukela!). Lokhu kuyinto ngisho nezingane ezincane ezihloselwe ukuzenza, kodwa ezinhlanu, lapho izingane eziningi zikhona lapho zixhumana khona nabangane nabalingani nabo, ikhono lokucabangela abanye, ukwabelana, nokuzwela lizodlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu ekuxhumaneni kwezingane kwezenhlalo .
Isikhathi esedwa
Njengoba izingane zikhula, abanye ngokwemvelo bangase badinge isikhathi esithile sokudlala bese beba ngabodwa. Lokhu, futhi, kuyoba ikhono elibalulekile , njengokufunda ukusebenzelana kahle nabanye kubalulekile ekuthuthukiseni inhlalakahle enhle ezinganeni.
Uma Ingane Yakho Ingekho Ukuhlangana Lezi Zinkimbinkimbi
Izingane zithuthuka ngamazinga ahlukene kakhulu. Ngokuvamile, amantombazane azokuthuthukisa amakhono angokomzwelo nezomphakathi ngokushesha kunabantwana. Nokho, ubunzima obunzima kakhulu, bungabonisa inselele yokuthuthukiswa okufanele iqondiswe. Uma ukhathazekile ngentuthuko engokomzwelo yengane yakho, finyelela emntwaneni wezingane kanye nothisha wezingane bese wabelane ngemicabango yakho.
Khona-ke, uma kufanelekile, cabangela ukuthatha isinyathelo.
> Imithombo
- > Amasevisi Okulawula Nokuvimbela Izifo. Izigameko ezibalulekile: ingane yakho ngeminyaka emihlanu. Iwebhu. 2017.
- > Abazali be-PBS. Ukuthuthukiswa kwengane yokuthuthukiswa kwengane: wakho oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala. Iwebhu. 2017.