Igama elithi "ukunamathisela kokubeletha" ngokuvamile liletha engqondweni imikhuba efana nokugqoka ingane yakho ekuthungeni noma ngokulala noma ekuhlengiseni ngokufunwa. Kodwa ukuhlala eduze nokuxhumeke kwengane yakho akuyona into okufanele imise lapho ingane yakho ikhula, ukuya eminyakeni yabo yasenkulisa nokufunda esikoleni eminyakeni engaphezulu nangaphezulu. (Futhi eqinisweni, uma ufuna ukuba nobuhlobo obuqinile nengane yakho lapho ehlasela iminyaka engashadile eyintombazane, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ugcine isibopho esiqinile futhi ubeke imikhuba emihle yokuxhumana manje, ngenkathi ingane yakho isesikoleni Kungenzeka ukuthi uzimisele ukukhuluma nawe ngalokho okuqhubekayo empilweni yakhe.) Nazi ezinye zezindlela ezinhle ongazenza ngazo ukunamathiselwa komzali nezingane ezindala.
Yazi Abangane Bakho Nezingane Zabo Abaseduze
Uma ngabe ingane yakho imenyiwe kwi-playdate endlini yomngani, qiniseka ukuthi ubuza abazali bomngane wengane yakho imibuzo ebalulekile ebaluleke kakhulu njengokuthi bayagcina yini izibhamu endlini nokuthi ngubani ozoba khona ukuqondisa izingane. Yazi ukuthi obani abangane bomntanakho nabangani bakhe esikoleni, futhi uqinisekise ukuthi umngane ngamunye ungumuntu omuhle , osekelayo, onomusa , onomusa , noma umngane onobuthi ongeyithandi nokuthi ngubani ongase abe ithonya elibi enganeni yakho.
Yenza Ukuxhumana Kwansuku zonke Kube Isimo
Hlela izikhathi ezivamile ukukhuluma nengane yakho ngabanye, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ulele ngesikhathi sokulala , ngesikhathi sokudla, lapho uhamba ngemoto ukuya esikoleni. Beka eceleni iziphazamiso, njengefoni; qaphela ukuthi "ukuphuza," noma ukushaya izinombolo zocingo kungathinteka kanjani ubudlelwane bethu bezenhlalo futhi zama ukugxila kwengane yakho lapho ukhuluma naye esikhundleni sokuphazamiseka nokuhlola i-imeyili noma imilayezo.
Yidla njalo nezingane zakho njalo
Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi ukudla isidlo sokudla ndawonye ndawonye nezingane kuhambisana nezinzuzo eziningi zezingane, kuhlanganise amamaki angcono, ukunciphisa ingozi yokukhuluphala ngokweqile, namakhono angcono engqondo, ezenhlalakahle nezomzwelo. Ngisho noma ungeke ukwazi ukwenza ubusuku bokudla komndeni wakho ebusuku ebusuku, ungathola izixazululo zokudala ukuxhuma nezingane zakho ngesikhathi sokudla, njengokukhuluma ngenkathi udlalwa ngaphambi nangemva komsebenzi wesikole noma ukubeka eceleni isikhathi esincane ekuseni ekuseni yokudla kwasekuseni komndeni okuhle futhi okunempilo .
Zithokozise Ngengane Yakho
Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi uma abazali bedlala nezingane zabo futhi bejabule nabo, izingane zingenakudlula ukuthuthukisa ukucindezeleka nokukhathazeka futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ziba ngabantu abanesihe futhi abanesihawu.
Yiba Omunye Umntwana Wakho Ongakhuluma Kulula
Uma ubonisa ingane yakho ukuthi ulalele ngempela futhi ufuna ukuzwa lokho akushoyo, futhi wabelana ngezinto ezithile eziqondene nawe futhi uvula ingane yakho, usungula isisekelo esihle lapho ingane yakho izozizwa ikhululekile khona ukukhuluma kuwe mayelana nezinto. Lokhu kuvuleka nokukhulumisana kuzokuba yigugu njengoba ingane yakho ikhula futhi kungadingeka ukuthi ngelinye ilanga ikhulume nawe ngento enzima empilweni yakhe.
Ukuyala Ngothando
Isiyalo kufanele sibe nokuningi ngokufundisa kunokuba kujeziswe, ukukhala noma ukushaya izingane. Abazali abaqinile kodwa abathandayo uma beqondisa ukuziphatha okubi kwezingane zabo bavumela izingane zabo ukuzizwa zivikelekile ngezindlela ezimbili ezibalulekile: ngokubazisa ukuthi kunezimingcele nemithetho abayidingayo ukuze balalele impilo yabo, ukuphepha, ngokuba, futhi ngokuqinisekisa ukuthi ngenkathi ulindele ukuba baziphathe kahle futhi benze izinqumo ezinhle, uthando lwakho ngabo luqinile futhi luqinile.
Thola Izindlela Zokuthi "Ngiyakuthanda" Nsuku Zonke
Okuthile okulula njengokuthatha iminithi ukumbamba uma uthi ukuhlelwa ekuseni noma ubumnandi ekupheleni kosuku ungenye yezindlela eziningi ongabonisa ngayo ingane yakho ukuthi uyamthanda kanjani njalo ngosuku olulodwa futhi yingxenye ebalulekile yokunamathiselwe ukubeletha.