Ivula INTSHA Yomqulu Wezingane
Iningi labantu abadala bayavuma ukuthi izingane zinezwi elikhulu. Izingane zingase zizwe ukuthi zikhulume kakhulu, zizozwa noma zithole lokho ezikufunayo. Ukushesha ukulalela kunoma yiziphi izilungiselelo ezihilela izingane kuzothumela izindlebe zakho ezibuthakathaka, ezibucayi ku-overdrive. Izingane zivame ukuthukuthela, ukugubha, nokuhle, "ukukhuluma" yizici ezihlabayo eziyimingcele ngokumemeza. Ezinye izingane zisebenzisa lezi zwi elizwakalayo kusukela lapho zivuka zize ziwale zilele.
Isibonelo ngokusebenzisa i-Voice Soft yakho
Gwema ukusebenzisa izwi elikhulu ngaphakathi endlini, kufaka phakathi lapho ubiza ilungu lomndeni ekamelweni elihlukile ekhaya noma uphendule ngokuzwakalayo into ethile kuthelevishini. Uma uqondisa ingane yakho, khuluma ngokuthula, ngokuthula, nangendlela elula. Uma ingane yakho ingathuli futhi ilalele, ngeke ikwazi ukuzwa ukuthi uthini. Uma ingane yakho ikhula ngomsindo noma ibonakala sengathi iphuma ngaphandle kokulawula, yidambise phansi ngokuzithoba futhi uzithule. Cela bonke abanakekeli bakho ukuthi bahlale beqhubeka lapho befundisa amazwi angaphakathi. Ukubambisana phakathi kwabanakekeli kuyisihluthulelo uma ufundisa ukuziphatha.
Sebenzisa Ukuphindaphinda
Ukuphindaphinda kaningi ukuthi usebenzisa izwi lakho langaphakathi (ucabanga ukuthi ungaphakathi), nokuthi lokhu kuyindlela evamile yokukhuluma nenkulumo oyisebenzisayo noma kunini uma usendlini, ukwakha kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo, noma noma iyiphi indawo. Ungabuye utshele izingane ukuthi zingasebenzisa "amazwi angaphandle" (kungakapheli isizathu) uma zingaphandle, endaweni yokudlala, noma enye "i-hoot ne-holler" izikhathi ezifanele.
Dumisani ama-Indoor Voices
Noma nini lapho ingane yakho ikhuluma ngokuzithoba ngezwi langaphakathi, dumisa izingane ngokuziphatha okuhle. Ukuqiniswa okuhle kuzokwenza uthole ukuziphatha okufanayo lapho ingane yakho ibona ukuthi ujabule naye. Ukuze kusize ukuqinisa ukungezwani, abanye abazali bangase banikeze izikhuthazo ezifana nokuziyisa emtatsheni welabhulali lapho bezuzile ukulawulwa kwezwi bese bekumangala ngokuvakashela epaki noma ukuhamba ngaphandle lapho bevunyelwe ukusebenzisa amazwi angaphandle.
Yeka amazwi we-Loud
Unganaki ingane yakho lapho ekhuluma nawe ngezwi elikhulu noma elihle. Njengesibonelo, ungase usho okuthi, "Ngiyaxolisa kakhulu! Angikwazi ukukuzwa uma ungasebenzisi izwi lakho elithambile, elingaphakathi. Ingabe uzozama futhi ngezwi langaphakathi ukuze ngikwazi ukukuzwa? "Gwema ukuqinisa ngokuqinisekisayo lapho ingane yakho ishaya noma ikhala ngaphakathi. Uma ingane yakho iqhuma futhi ikhuphuka, ungabanaki noma into abayifunayo. Vumela ingane yakho ukuthi uyomnika kuphela lokho akufunayo uma ehlisa izwi lakhe bese elandela uma ebuza ngendlela ethule.
Vumela amazwi aphikisayo ezindaweni ezifanelekile
Khuthaza ingane yakho ukukhamuluka nokumemeza ezindaweni lapho "izwi langaphandle" lifanelekile, njengendawo yokudlala noma ngasemuva. Lokhu kungasiza ingane yakho ifunde ukuthi izwi elikhulu lifanelekile kwezinye izimo, noma ngabe akufanelekile endlini. Uma ingane yakho icabanga ukuthi ingakwazi ukukhala ngokuphepha ngezikhathi ezithile, ngeke ihlale ingathuli ngezikhathi eziningi.
Yenza Umdlalo
Izingane eziningi zishintsha ukuziphatha uma ziseduze ngendlela engacabangi noma zibuke umsebenzi njengomdlalo. Omunye umdlalo ukubuza ingane yakho ukuthi bangaki amehlo nezindlebe abanayo. Uma bephendula "ababili," chaza ukuthi sonke sinamazwi amabili.
Chaza ingane yakho ukuthi sinalo izwi elilodwa elikhulu elisetshenziselwa ngaphandle nelinye elincane, izwi elincane elisetshenziselwa ngaphakathi. Zama izwi elihlukile nengane yakho bese uvumela ukuba baphendule ukuthi izwi "liyizwi langaphandle" noma "izwi langaphakathi." Enye umdlalo umdlalo wokuhlekisayo lapho wena nomntanakho nizama ukushintshana ukukhuluma ngokuphansi ngangokunokwenzeka. Mvuza ingane yakho ngesitika noma omunye umklomelo wempumelelo yakhe lapho ukhuluma ngokuthula.
Ithimba Lomzali
Khumbula ukuthi ingane yakho encane noma isenkulisa ingahle ilayishwe ngokomzwelo futhi ayikwazi ukuzinqanda ngokushesha. Uma ubhekene nokuqedwa okuphelele, into engcono kakhulu ukukhipha ingane yakho esimweni, ubalethela endaweni ethile ethule futhi amvumele asebenze ngokucasuka noma ukuthukuthela.
Ngemuva kokuba ingane yakho ithule, ungaxoxa ngamazwi angaphakathi, kepha ukuxoxa ngalesi sifundo ngesikhathi ukuqubuka komzwelo kungeke kukukhiqize wena noma ingane yakho.
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