Umhlahlandlela we-Age-by-Age wezimpawu zomzimba
Ukuthuthukiswa kwengane yakho kubonakala sengathi kwenzeke ngesivinini se-warp. Kubonakala sengathi cishe ebusuku, ingane yakho ine-morphed kusuka encane encane kuya esikoleni esine-lanky-grade whose izitho zibonakala zikhula nsuku zonke. Phakathi nalesi sigaba sokuthuthukiswa kwengane, okubizwa ngokuthi ubuntwana obuphakathi, izingane zingakhula isilinganiso samasentimitha amabili kuya kwangu-2,5 ngonyaka .
Zonke izingane zikhula ngamazinga ahlukene.
Nakuba ukuthuthukiswa komzimba kuyahluka phakathi kwezingane ezineminyaka esikoleni, kunezinye iziqondiso ezijwayelekile ongayilandela njengoba ulandelela izinyathelo zomntwana wakho.
Ukuthuthukiswa Komzimba: Uneminyaka emihlanu ubudala
Ngeminyaka engu-5, izingane eziningi:
- Ungakwazi ukukhipha, ukweqa, ukugxuma ngisho nokuma ngezinyathelo ezimbalwa
- Bakwazi ukuphonsa futhi babambe ibhola, ngokuvamile ngezandla ezimbili
- Ungakwazi ukukopisha amafomu afana namathantathu noma imibuthano, udwebe izibalo zomthamo futhi uphinde uprinte izincwadi
- Ingabe abanamakhono amaningi ekusebenziseni i-spoon noma imfoloko, futhi bangakwazi ngisho nokusika ukudla okunomsoco ngamabese ebhotela
- Bangakwazi ukuzishaya amazinyo abo, ukugeza, nokuzisula iziqu zabo nakuba ukuqondiswa kwabazali kungase kudingeke
- Qala ukulahlekelwa amazinyo abo omntwana
- Qala ukulahlekelwa amafutha bese uthola imisipha eminingi
Ukuthuthukiswa Komzimba: Uneminyaka engu-6 ubudala
Ngeminyaka engu-6, izingane eziningi:
- Ungabonisa amakhono okuzithuthukisa okuqhubekayo, ukugijima okunjalo, ukuxuma nokweqa
- Bonisa ikhono elithuthukisiwe lokulandela amaphethini wokunyakaza, futhi angase akwazi ukwenza ezinye izinyathelo zomdanso eziyisisekelo
- Khombisa ukusebenzisana okuqinile kwesandla futhi bayakwazi ukukhahlela ibhola emgomweni noma ukuphonsa ibhola esikhungweni, isibonelo
- Ungadlala insimbi yomculo
- Iyakwazi ukulandela imithetho yomdlalo noma yemidlalo. I-Soccer, isibonelo, iba nenjongo kunazo zonke kunokuba zisencane
Ukuthuthukiswa Komzimba: Uneminyaka engu-7 ubudala
Ngeminyaka engu-7, izingane eziningi:
- Ungagibela ibhayisikili elinamasondo amabili
- Iyakwazi ukwenza ukunyakaza okwenziwe ngenkathi kumile endaweni eyodwa njengokuguqula, ukujika nokujika
- Bonisa ikhono elithuthukisiwe ekwenzeni imisebenzi elula, efana nokwenza umbhede noma ukujula phansi
Ukuthuthukiswa Komzimba: Umdala Wakho Oneminyaka Engu-8
Ngeminyaka engu-8, izingane eziningi:
- Kungabandakanya amakhono okuzithutha kanye namakhono okuhamba ngamanzi ngaphezulu kakhudlwana. Bangakwazi ukuvula, ukugxuma nokugxuma, njengokuthi ku-basketball
- Qhubeka ukukhombisa ngcono ekuxhumaneni
Ukuthuthukiswa Komzimba: Uneminyaka Engu-9 ubudala
Ngeminyaka engu-9, izingane eziningi:
- Kungase kuqale ukuzwa izimpawu zakuqala zokukhulelwa. Amantombazane avame ukukhombisa izimpawu ezineminyaka engama-8 noma 9; abafana bangase bangene ekukhusheni kancane kancane, bebaneminyaka eyi-10 noma engu-11
- Thola isipiliyoni sokukhula. Umntanakho angase abe mkhulu kakhulu futhi athole isisindo esiningi
Ukuthuthukiswa Komzimba: Iminyaka Engu-10 Endala
Ngeminyaka eyi-10, izingane eziningi:
- Ungabonisa ubuhle obukhulu, isivinini, ukuxhumana nokulinganisela
- Qala ukukhombisa izibonakaliso zobusana njengesikhumba samafutha, ukukhuphuka nokukhukhula kwezinwele endaweni yesisu nangaphansi kwezikhali
- Thola ushintsho lwezwi ; lokhu kuvame ukubonakala nakakhulu kubafana.
- Iyakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi eyinkimbinkimbi yemakhaya njengokupheka noma ukuhlanza impahla
Okufanele Ukwenze Lapho Ingane Yakho Ingabonisi Amanethiwekhi
Ukuthuthukiswa komzimba kwenzeka ngesisekelo somuntu ngamunye.
Uma ngabe ingane yakho isakwazi ukuqonda amakhono abo ontanga asebenayo kakade, ngokuvamile kuyinto nje yesikhathi kuze kube yilapho ibetha izilinganiso. Ngokuvamile lokhu kubonisa inkinga enkulu, futhi akubonakali "ukuziphatha okubi" kokubeletha. Noma kunjalo, akufanele unganaki ukukhathazeka kwakho mayelana nokuhamba kwengane yakho yentuthuko. Hlangana uthisha noma udokotela wengane yakho ukuxoxa ngezinto ozikhathazayo.