Izwe Lakho Lokukhula Lomphakathi Lama-Old Age Loku-6
Izingane ezineminyaka eyisithupha ubudala zizokwazi ukuzimela ngokuzimela futhi zizoqala ukugxila kakhulu kubangane nabangane bese zibonisa isithakazelo kubantu abadala ngaphandle komndeni, njengabazali bomngane noma othisha. Kubantwana abaneminyaka engu-6 ubudala, ubungane nabanye ubudlelwane bezenhlalakahle nezingane nabangabantu abadala baba yinkimbinkimbi futhi bathatha izincazelo eziningi njengoba beqaphela kakhulu izwe elibazungezile nendima yabo kulo.
Izingane kule minyaka zikwazi kangcono ukuqonda imithetho futhi zingase zibe nesithakazelo ekuqinisekiseni ukuthi abanye benze lokho okufanele bayenze. Bayothuthukisa intshisekelo ekhulayo emidlalweni ehleliwe kanye nomphakathi kanye nabangani. Abaneminyaka eyisithupha bavame ukujabulela ukuba yingxenye yeqembu noma iqembu futhi bazojabulela ukudlala imidlalo yeqembu njengobhola bebhola.
Abangane
Abantwana abaneminyaka eyisithupha bangakhetha ukudlala nabantwana bobulili babo futhi bangase babe "ubudlelwano obuhle kakhulu" nobungane nabantwana abambalwa noma ngaphezulu. Abazali kufanele baqaphele ukuziphatha okubi okuhambisana nalesi sigaba esivamile sokuthuthukiswa, njengokubunjwa kwama- cliques , ukuxosha abanye (noma ukushiywa ngaphandle), nokuxhashazwa .
Abantwana abaneminyaka eyisithupha bazophinde baqonde kakhulu ubudlelwane bokuhamba nabangani nomndeni futhi bazozizwa bevikelekile futhi baduduze ebuhlotsheni babo nalabo abasondelene nabo.
Ukuziphatha Nezimiso
Bantwana, lesi sizwe singase sibe nomuzwa okhulayo wokulungile nokungalungile, futhi "bangatshela" onontanga abacabanga ukuthi abakwenzi kahle.
Ukuhlaselwa, ngisho nabangane abaseduze, kungase kuvame, kodwa kuzovame ukuphela ngokushesha njengoba baqala, ikakhulukazi ngokuqondiswa kothando othisha nabazali.
Ukunika, Ukuhlanganyela, nozwela
Abaneminyaka eyisithupha bazojabulela ukuhlanganyela ukudla okulula, amathoyizi nezinye izinto nabangani esikoleni nasekhaya.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi ukuphikisana nokuqeda amathoyizi okuthandayo ngeke kwenzeke, kodwa izingxabano zizodlula futhi abafundi bezikolo bazozuza ngokwengeziwe amakhono ezenhlalakahle kuze kube ngolunye usuku benze umsebenzi ngokwahlukana ngokwabo, ngaphandle kokungenelela kwabantu abadala.
Abantwana abaneminyaka eyisithupha banokwemvelo ngokweqile futhi bayodinga isikhuthazo esivela kubantu abadala ukuze babone izinto ezivela kwabanye.
Izinkinga Zentuthuko
Izingane eziningi, ezineminyaka eyisithupha ubudala, zingenkulisa noma ebangeni lokuqala. Lokhu kungaba okokuqala ukuthi baceliwe ukuba bachithe isikhathi esandisiwe nabalingani nabo, balandele imithetho eqinile yesikole, noma bagxile emsebenzini wesikole isikhathi esithile. Ngenxa yalokho, lokhu kungase kube iphuzu lapho ukungafani kokuthuthukiswa noma ukulibaziseka kungase kufike khona.
Izinkinga nokusebenzisana kontanga, ngokulandela imiyalelo ekhulunywe, noma ukulawula imizwelo kungenzeka konke kuvele ngokucacile ekwakheni igumbi lokufundela. Uma kunjalo, manje yisikhathi esihle sokubhekana nalezi zinkinga, ngakho akuyona inkinga enkulu njengoba ingane yakho iqhubeka esikoleni. Khuluma nothisha wengane yakho nodokotela wezingane ukunquma ukuthi ngabe yiziphi izinselelo abhekene nazo zidinga ukunakwa okukhethekile.
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