Ukubukezwa kokuthuthukiswa kwentando yenhlalakahle yengane eneminyaka engu-8
Ungase uqale ukubona umqondo omusha wokuzethemba emntwaneni wakho oneminyaka engu-8 njengoba eveza imibono yakhe ngabantu kanye nezinto ezizungezile. Angase akhokhele kakhulu imicimbi yezindaba, futhi afune ukwabelana ngemicabango yakhe ngezihloko zamanje zesehlakalo.
Ekhaya nase esikoleni, izingane ezineminyaka engu-8 zizojabulela ubungane futhi zithuthuke kumaqembu ezemidlalo nakwamanye amaqembu omphakathi.
Izingane ezineminyaka eyisishiyagalombili zizojabulela ukuya esikoleni futhi zizofuna ukuzibandakanya ezweni lezenhlalo labangane nabalingani nabo. Abazali kufanele babheke noma yiziphi izinkinga ezifana nokulahla esikoleni , okungase kubonise inkinga esikoleni njengokungathi kuhlukumezwe noma ubunzima bokufunda .
Abangane
Izingane ezineminyaka eyisishiyagalombili zinesifiso esinamandla semvelo sokuba yingxenye yeqembu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi liqembu labangane bezenhlalo noma ithimba lezemidlalo. Kodwa lokhu ukufisa ukulingana nokulingana nakho kungabangela ukuphazamiseka: ukucindezela kontanga.
Qinisekisa ukuthi ukhuluma nomuntu oneminyaka engu-8 ubudala mayelana nezici ezimbi zokucindezela kontanga nokubaluleka kokwethemba izimo zakhe zangokwenziwe nokwenza lokho azizwa ukuthi kunesiphi isimo esithile.
Abaneminyaka engamashumi ayisishiyagalombili bangabamba ngokuyinhloko ubungane nabangani bobulili obufanayo. Bangase basebenzise izinkolelo zokuchaza abalingani bobulili obuhlukile futhi babhekisele kwimisebenzi ethile ngokuthi "yamantombazane" noma "abafana." (Lena ithuba lokuba abazali bangene futhi baxoshe izinkolelo ezifana "nezibalo kubafana" noma "amantombazane akakwazi ukudlala ezemidlalo").
Abantwana abaneminyaka eyisishiyagalombili bangase baqale ukucela ukukhishwa kwemikhumbi, nakuba abazali akufanele bamangale uma ezinye izingane zifuna ukubuyela ekhaya futhi zingenzi ubusuku bonke endlini yomngani. Lapho uneminyaka engu-8 ubudala, izingane eziningi zisekelwe kumama, ubaba, nasekhaya futhi kungenzeka zingakabi ngokomzwelo ukubhekana nokulala kumngane wakho, noma ngabe zingase zizwe ukucindezela kontanga ukuba zihlanganyele emikhondweni yokwenza izinto.
Ukuziphatha Nezimiso
Izingane eziningi ezineminyaka engu-8 zizoba nesifiso sokunamathela ngokuqinile emithethweni futhi zibe "okulungile," okungase kuholele ekuxabaneni ngesikhathi sokudlala iqembu elihleliwe. Izingane ezineminyaka eyisishiyagalombili ubudala zisathuthukisa ukuqonda ukuthi yini "engalungile" noma "okulungile," nokuqamba amanga noma ukuziphatha okudinga ukuqeqeshwa kwengane kungadinga ukulungiswa.
Ukunika, Ukuhlanganyela, nozwela
Izingane ezineminyaka eyisishiyagalombili zingase ziqale ukuqonda ukuthi omunye umuntu uzizwa kanjani esimweni esinikeziwe futhi uzokwazi ukubeka izicathulo zomuntu.
Ungabona futhi ububanzi obuningi bamakhono enhlalakahle yengane yakho njengoba ebonakala egovu futhi enesihluku ngomzuzu owodwa futhi enomusa, enikeza, futhi esekela omunye lapho ekhuluma nabangani nomndeni. Ngokuqondiswa nokuhlelwa kwengane okuhle , abazali bangabeka izibonelo ezinhle futhi basize izingane zabo ezineminyaka engu-8 ukuba ziphathe kahle nokuthuthukiswa kokuziphatha okuhle.