Amaphuzu okuthuthuka ongalindela ukuwabona kusukela eminyakeni emihlanu ukuya kweyishumi
Izingane ziyashintsha ngokushesha phakathi kweminyaka emihlanu kuya kweyishumi. Zivuthiwe ngokomzimba, ngokomzwelo, ngokuziqonda, nangomphakathi, zisuka ezifundweni ezisenkulisa ezisendlini ezihamba phambili zinezilwane ezincane ezingenakulinganiswa. Abasebenzisa basebenzise isethi yamaphuzu okuthuthukiswa ukukala ukuthuthukiswa kwengane evamile. Nansi ukubuka konke okusemqoka okuthuthukiswa kwengane ongayilindela ukuthi ingane yakho ifinyelele phakathi kweminyaka emihlanu kuya kweyishumi.
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Ingane Yakho Eneminyaka EyisithuphaIzingane ezineminyaka emihlanu ubudala zinezinguquko ezinkulu. Abaningi baqala inkulisa, futhi banomsebenzi wangempela wesikole nomsebenzi wesikole okokuqala. Benza abangane abasha, bafunde kabanzi ngezwe, futhi bafunde ukufunda. Ngenkathi bekhulela ebuntwaneni, bangase babe nezikhathi lapho beziphatha njengabantwana abancane (ikakhulukazi uma bekhathele, belambile, noma bekhungathekile!). Lesi yisikhathi esithakazelisayo nesiyingozi sabantwana abaneminyaka emihlanu nabazali babo ngokufanayo.
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Ingane Yakho Eneminyaka EyisithuphaLapho uneminyaka eyisithupha ubudala, izingane eziningi ziqala ukuqinisa amakhono wokufunda nezibalo esikoleni futhi zisetshenziselwe imizila ekulindeleke kubo ekilasini. Bahluma emphakathini futhi baqala ukugxila kakhulu kubangane. Ekhaya, bazoziqhenya ngokufeza imisebenzi futhi baqale ukuthatha imithwalo yemfanelo eminingi. Abanye abaneminyaka eyisithupha bangathola ukuguqula ebangeni lokuqala kunzima, njengoba kudinga ukugxila okubalulekile ekugxilweni, ukulandelana okulandelayo, namakhono olimi.
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Ingane Yakho Eneminyaka EyisikhombisaBambalwa abaneminyaka engu-7 badinga ukunakekelwa kwimizila yansuku zonke njengokuxubha amazinyo nokugqoka. Kodwa abakaze bazimele abaneminyaka eyishumi ubudala abangakwazi ukucabanga ngaphambili, balungise isikhathi sabo, futhi baphathe imithwalo yabo siqu. Abazali, abaneminyaka eyi-7 yisikhathi esibucayi. Kubalulekile ukuthola ukulinganisela emkhatsini wokunikeza ukuzimela ngaphezulu kodwa nokho ukugcina iso elithile ezintweni.
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Ingane Yakho Eyisishiyagalombili EkhulileAbaneminyaka eyisishiyagalombili ubudala bafika bebodwa. Bahlakulela ukuzethemba futhi baqale ukwakha imibono nemicabango ngezinto ezisezweni labo. Ukuzilibazisa, izintshisekelo (ngisho nokuzikhukhumeza), kanye nobungane kuzoba nabangane ngokuvumelana nokuthanda kwabo okuthandayo nokuthandayo. Kulesi sigaba, ukukhathazeka okusha kungase kuvele. I-cliques, izihlukumezi, kanye nokulindela umphakathi kukhula, futhi, kwezinye izingane, lezi zinselele zingaba izinkinga. Kubalulekile ukugcina ukuziphatha kwengane yakho: ukulahlwa kwesikole, ukukhathazeka, kanye nokuqothulwa kwesibindi kungaba izibonakaliso zokuthi into "isuke" esikhalweni sesikole.
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Ingane Yakho Eneminyaka EyisishiyagalolunyeIzingane ezineminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye zenza izinqumo eziningi ngokwayo noma ngezicelo ezivela kubazali. Basithatha imithwalo yemfanelo eminingi ekhaya ngokubhekwa okuncane. Futhi esikoleni, basingatha umsebenzi obunzima ezindabeni eziningi, futhi kulindeleke ukuba bagcwalise izabelo ngokuzimela. Izivivinyo ezimisiwe kanye nokulindela okuphezulu kwezingqondo kungakhanyisa ukukhanya kwamandla noma izinselelo zomntanakho. Uma ingane yakho inenkinga enzima nabanye noma bonke abafundisayo, manje yisikhathi esifanele sokuxazulula izinkinga ezibhekene nokufundiswa nezinye izinhlobo zokusekelwa okwengeziwe.
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Ingane Yakho Eneminyaka EyishumiIzingane ezineminyaka eyishumi ubudala zimi ekukhuleni kwentsha, futhi zihlangabezana nezinguquko eziningi ezibalulekile ngokomzimba, ngokomzwelo, ngokungaqondakali, nangenye indlela. Baye bazimela ngokwengeziwe kunanini ngaphambili, futhi bayaqhubeka bechitha isikhathi esiningi nabangani futhi benza imisebenzi eminingi ngaphandle komndeni. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, basesekuqaleni kwesigaba sokuthuthukiswa kwengane, futhi bayodinga futhi bafune isiqondiso nokuqondiswa kubazali ngezikhathi ezithile.
> Imithombo
- > CDC. Ukuthuthukiswa kwengane: ubuntana obuphakathi kweminyaka engu-6-8. Iwebhu. 2017.
- > CDC. Ukuthuthukiswa kwengane: ubuntana obuphakathi kweminyaka engu-9-11 ubudala. Iwebhu. 2017.