Izinyathelo Ezithuthukayo Zonyaka Ongama-9

Isikhathi Sokuguqulwa Okukhulu Njengengane Yokukhula Nears

Lapho uneminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye ubudala, amantombazane nabafana balungele ukuguqulwa okukhulu njengoba bekhona ekukhuleni kwentsha. Ngezindlela eziningi, basengabhekwa njengabantwana kodwa bazimele ngokwengeziwe futhi bakwazi ukubhekana nemithwalo yemfanelo ethile abanomthwalo omncane wokuqapha abadala.

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Ukuziphatha Nezinqubo Zansuku zonke

Ngesishiyagalolunye, izingane zikwazi ukuthatha imisebenzi eminingi kanye nemithwalo yemfanelo ezungeze indlu futhi izofuna ukuqala ukuzibandakanya ezinqumeni ezithinta umndeni.

Izingane zalesi sizwe nazo zijwayele ukufisa izinga elithile lezinhlangano empilweni yazo futhi zizohlala zilandelela imisebenzi yabo yansuku zonke kanye namashejuli. Bazobe besadinga amahora angu-10 kuya kwangu-11 ubuthongo ngobusuku bonke, kodwa kungase kube nzima ukuphoqelela isikhathi sokulala ngaphambi kwesikhathi.

Izingane ezingamaphesenti ayisishiyagalolunye zingaba yizingxoxo zokuphikisana. Nakuba iningi lizofuna ukwandisa imibuthano yabo yezenhlalakahle, bayoqhubeka befuna isiphephelo nomndeni uma bezizwa bengalondekile. Ngesishiyagalolunye, izingane zithonywa kakhulu ngabazali bazo.

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Ukuthuthukiswa Komzimba

Izingane ezineminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye zizoqala ukubhekana nezinselele eziningi ezingokomzimba nezingokomzwelo njengoba zisondela ekukhuleni. Kungaba yisikhathi sokukhokha abanye njengabafundi esikoleni nabo baqala ukuthuthukisa ngamazinga ahlukene kakhulu.

Ukukhulelwa komntwana kungase kuqale kuphi kusukela ku-8 kuya ku-12 kumantombazane nesishiyagalolunye no-14 kubafana. Njengomzali, kubalulekile ukuxoxa ngalokhu nengane yakho, ikakhulukazi uma izinguquko (noma ukungabi khona kwezinguquko) zibangela ukucindezeleka. Izimpikiswano zomzimba zingase zivele zivele.

Izingane ezineminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye zizoqala ukulawula ukuqina kwemisipha, zibavumele ukuba bandise imikhawulo yabo yemvelo kanye nezithakazelo. Zizobe zizimele ngokwengeziwe futhi zizindlela ezithile zokuphatha ukuhlanzeka kwazo nokuzilungisa.

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Ukuthuthukiswa Komzwelo

Ngesishiyagalolunye, izingane zizobe sezivuthiwe ngokomzwelo futhi zikwazi kangcono ukubhekana nezingxabano ezihlobene. Ukuzimela kwabo kuzokuholela kubo ukuba bafune ubudlelwane obuzimele bomndeni wabo, kubandakanya izindlu ezisekhaya.

Abaningi abaneminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye ubudala bazoba nesifiso esinamandla sokuba yingxenye yeqembu bese bebeka indawo yabo ngaphakathi kwezenhlalo zesikole. Ngenxa yalokho, abaningi bazobe besengozini yokucindezela kontanga nezinye izikhukhula.

Izingane zingavame ukuba nomoya ngenxa yalokhu futhi zibhekane nezingcindezi ezingakajwayele. Ngenhlanhla, ngo-9, iningi lizovuma ukubuyela kubazali bazo ukuze lisekele.

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Ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo

Izingane ezineminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye ubudala zifuna ukwazi kabanzi ngezwe elizungezile futhi zizohamba kalula ukusuka kwesithakazelo kuya kwesilandelayo. Njengoba isikhathi sabo sokunaka sanda, bayothatha isikhathi esengeziwe sokwenza imisebenzi yangaphandle, ikakhulukazi uma bebandakanya amaqembu noma imibuthano ethile yomphakathi.

Ngesishiyagalolunye, izingane zizokwazi ukucabanga ngokucabangela futhi zingathanda ukwabelana ngemibono yazo ngezihloko ezihlukahlukene. Amakhono abo okufunda nokubhala azoba nzima kakhulu, futhi azofunda ukuthi angasebenza kanjani ngamadijithi amaningi, i-geometry, kanye nenhlangano yedatha ngezibalo.

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Ukuthuthukiswa Komphakathi

Izwe lezenhlalakahle lezingane ezineminyaka engu-9 livula ngezindlela ezingakaze zicatshangwe ngaphambili. Abaningi bazoba nomakhalekhukhwini kanye nobuhle obuphezulu emithonjeni yezokuxhumana. Lokhu (kanye nesifiso esiyingqayizivele) kwenza kube yingozi ekuthonyeni ongahle ukwazi ukulawula, kufaka phakathi ukuxhaphazwa kwe-Inthanethi nokuqukethwe okungalungile kwewebhu.

Ngenkathi ungakwazi ukunqoba ezinye zezimpikiswano ngokusebenzisa izilawuli zabazali , abanye, njengokucindezela kontanga, bangadinga ukuqondiswa okuqhubekayo, isikhuthazo, nokusekelwa.

Ngesonto elihle, izingane ezinesishiyagalolunye zivame ukuba nomqondo oqinile wokulunga nokuthi yini okulungile noma engalungile. Bayophinde baqaphele ngokwengeziwe emphakathini njengoba befisa ukuthola indawo ezweni elikhulu.

Yisikhathi sokutholakala okukhulu ongakwazi ukuzibandakanya ngu:

• Kubonisa uthando kumntanakho
• Ukuqaphela nokudumisa ukufeza komuntu siqu
• Ibeka imithwalo yemisebenzi eminingi "yabantu abadala" nemisebenzi
• Ukukhuluma nengane yakho mayelana nesikole, abangane, imicimbi, izindaba, nezinto abheke phambili kuzo
• Ukusebenzisa isiyalo ukuqondisa ingane yakho kunokuba isijeziso esingalimaza ukuzethemba kwengane
• Ukukhuthaza ingane yakho ukuba iphishekele izithakazelo kuhlanganise nezemidlalo, ubuciko, nemicimbi yomphakathi

> Umthombo:

> Amasevisi Okulawula Nokuvimbela Izifo. "Ingane Ephakathi (iminyaka engu-6 ukuya ku-8)." I-Atlanta, Georgia; ibuyekezwe ngoJanuwari 3, 2018.

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