Izinsisekelo zokuphepha kwabantwana
Intsha yanamuhla, i-tweens, kanye nezingane zesikole ezikhula esikoleni zithola ngokwengeziwe ubuchwepheshe obuningi, ngokuvame ukukhipha lokho abazali bazo abakwaziyo mayelana nalezi zobuchwepheshe zobuchwepheshe.
Ngenkathi izingane ezithile empeleni zisho ukuthi zifunda izilimi zekhompyutha, zakha amawebhusayithi, futhi zakha ama-robot, abanye abaningi basebenzisa ubuchwepheshe bwanamuhla ukubuka amavidiyo ku-YouTube nokudlala i-MMORPGs (imidlalo emidlalweni emidlalweni yabadlali abaningi) noma bakhuluma kumafoni abo omakhalekhukhwini nokuthumela imiyalezo.
Ngeshwa, izinto eziningi izingane zakho zingenza ku-intanethi futhi ngamafoni awo angangena ezinkingeni eziningi uma zingabhekwa. Ukusuka ekubukeni izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kanye neminye ividiyo engafanelekile namawebhusayithi ukuze uthumele imiyalezo nge-SMS (ukuthumela imiyalezo engafanele noma izithombe) nokuxoxa nabantu abakudlayo, ubuchwepheshe obusha bungabangela izinkinga ezintsha. Amakholi kanye ne-intanethi baholele ngisho nasezindlela ezintsha zokuthi izingane zihlukumezwe - i-cyberbullying.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi izingane zakho azikwazi ukuba nekhompiyutha noma ucingo , kodwa kufanele ufunde mayelana nokulawula komzali okungasiza ekuzivikeleni njengoba basebenzisa amashajethi we-high-tech yakamuva.
Izilawuli zabazali
Izilawuli zabazali zingafaka phakathi isofthiwe yokulawula yabazali, isofthiwe yokuqapha okungeziwe, isofthiwe yokuhlunga okuqukethwe kwewebhu, kanye nabasebenzi be-intanethi. Lezi zivame ukusethwa ukuze kuvimbele ukufinyelela kwikhompyutha noma amawebhusayithi athile.
Inkinga enkulu enkulu ngokulawulwa kwabazali ukuthi abazali abaningi bacabanga nje ngokuzibeka kumakhompyutha abo ekhaya, lapho beyazi ukuthi izingane zabo zizokwazi ukufinyelela ku-intanethi, kodwa zikhohlwa ngamanye amagajethi ngaphakathi nasezindlini zabo ezinikezelayo ukufinyelela kwe-intanethi.
Ngenkathi singase singahlali esikhathini lapho isiqandisini somuntu wonke sinokufinyelela kwe-intanethi (abanye sebevele benza kanjalo), amanye amagajethi amaningi angenza ingane yakho ixhumeke ku-Intanethi, njengabo:
- I-iPad (nge-WiFi)
- I-iPhone namanye ama-smartphone
- I-Nintendo DS ne-Nintendo 3DS (nge-WiFi)
- I-Nintendo Wii ne-Wii U
- I-Sony Playstation 4
- I-Sony PSP (nge-WiFi)
- I-XBox
Lokho kungaba mnandi, ukunikeza izingane ukufinyelela kumageyimu oku-intanethi kanye nokudlala kwe-inthanethi yabadlali abaningi, kodwa futhi kuvumela ukuthi baxoxe nabantu nabaningi bafaka isiphequluli sewebhu. Nakuba ukulawula kwabazali kutholakala kakhulu kulawa madivaysi, umzali ojwayelekile ongasebenzisi idivayisi ngokwakhe ngeke acabange ngokushintsha lezo zilawuli.
Ngaphambi kokuthola elinye lala madivayisi alungele i-Intanethi noma ukuvula uhlelo lwe-Inthanethi olulungele ukugembula kwinethiwekhi yakho ye-intanethi ekhaya, qiniseka ukuthi uyazi ukuthi ungavula kanjani noma yikuphi ukulawula kwabazali abakhona.
Izilawuli zabazali be-intanethi
Isofthiwe yokulawula yabazali yakhiwe kunguqulo yakamuva ye-Mac OS X ne-Windows, kodwa ingathengwa njengezinhlelo ezihlukene, okuvame ukunikeza izici eziningi nokuguquguquka okukhulu. Lokhu kufaka phakathi izinhlelo ezifana ne-Bsafe Online, Net Nanny, ne-Safe Eyes.
Ngaphezu kwaloluhlobo lwe-software yokulawula yabazali, ezinye izinto ongayenza ukuze ugcine izingane zakho ziphephile ku-intanethi zihlanganisa:
- ukubeka ukuvikelwa kwephasiwedi kukhompyutha, ukuze ubhalise izingane zakho lapho zifuna ukusebenzisa i-Inthanethi
- usebenzisa isofthiwe yokulawula abazali ukukhawulela ukufinyelela kwikhompyutha kanye ne-intanethi ngezikhathi lapho umzali ahlala khona futhi azungeze ukuthi aqondise ukuthi izingane zakho zenzani
- uma usebenzisa i-router ukuze uhlanganyele ukufinyelela kwe-intanethi endlini, bese uyibeka ukuze uvimbele ukufinyelela izikhathi lapho umzali ahlala khona ukuze ahlole noma asebenzise umzila wakho ukusetha uhlelo lokusebenza oluqondile lwe-intanethi nokufinyelela kumageyimu kumakhompiyutha ahlukene noma ku-intanethi ekulungele ukudlala izinhlelo
- setha izilungiselelo zobumfihlo eziqinile uma ingane yakho isebenzisa isayithi lokuxhumana nabantu, njenge-Facebook, futhi unciphise uhlu lwabangani babo kubantu ababaziyo
- ukubeka ikhompyutha namanye amadivayisi anokufinyelela kwe-intanethi endaweni evamile yendlu, ukuze ukwazi ukuqondisa ngokuqondile lokho izingane zakho ezenzayo
- ukucela umhlinzeki wakho wesevisi ye-intanethi (ISP) mayelana nesofthiwe yokuhlunga eyengeziwe engase itholakale kuwe
- ngokuqaphela ukuthi ngaphandle kokulawulwa kwabazali, izingane zingafihla amathrekhi abo ngokusula idatha yangasese kusuka kusiphequluli se-Inthanethi abasisebenzisayo, kufaka phakathi umlando wokuphequlula, i-cache, namakhukhi
- kubukeza ukuthi yikuphi uhlobo lokufinyelela kwi-inthanethi izingane zakho ezizoba nazo lapho uvakashela abangani namalungu omndeni
Ngaphezu kwezixwayiso ezijwayelekile mayelana nokuvikela izingane kusuka "kwi-intanethi," abazali kufanele baqaphele izinto ezithile ezingabangela inkathazo, kuhlanganise:
- Izinhlelo Zokwabelwana Ngefayili Engekho Emthethweni - ngezinhlelo ezithile nezindawo ezithile, njengeGnutella, Bit Torrent, neKazaa, njll, izingane zilandelela ngokungemthetho umculo, amabhayisikobho, nokunye okuqukethwe.
- Izingosi Zokuxhumana Nezenhlalo - izingane eziningi zisebenzisa lezi zingosi, njenge-Twitter, i-Facebook, ne-MySpace, ukuthumela ulwazi lomuntu siqu nezithombe, izilwane ezingasetshenziswa ukuxhumana nomntanakho.
- I-IM ne-Chat - ngaphezu kokuthumela imiyalezo kumafoni omakhalekhukhwini, izingane eziningi zisebenzisa imilayezo esheshayo (Kik nezinye izinhlelo zokusebenza) kanye namakamelo okuxoxa (iChat, AOL, Yahoo Messenger, njll) ukukhuluma nabangani babo, futhi ngeshwa, ngezinye izikhathi izilwane ezidliwayo babe njengabantwana. Izingxoxo ezingalungile zingaba inkinga enkulu kakhulu kuma-MMORPGs, lapho abadlali abaningi bekhona eminyakeni engamashumi amabili nantathu.
- Ingxoxo yevidiyo - izingane ziye zaqala ukusebenzisa amakamelo wengxoxo yevidiyo amaningi, kufaka phakathi i- Chatroulette ethandwayo, efana nabasebenzisi abangabazi ukuthi baxoxe nabo futhi kubikwa ukuthi bahlanganisa abantu abaningi abaziphatha ngendlela engalungile ngenkathi kubakhobhulabhu yabo.
- Amavidiyo wewebhu - izingane kwi-intanethi zivame ukuthola i-YouTube ngokushesha. Ngeshwa, kunamavidiyo amaningi ku-YouTube nakwezinye izingosi zevidiyo ezingafanele izingane.
Ukulawulwa Kwezingcingo Zomakhalekhukhwini
Nakuba ukugxila okuningi mayelana ne-internet kubungozi kumakhompiyutha, kubonakala sengathi abazali abambalwa bayaqaphela ukuthi eziningi zefoni zanamuhla ziyi-mini-computer uma kuziwa uhlobo lokufinyelela abahlinzeka ngalo kwi-intanethi. Thatha, isibonelo, i-iPhone, efaka isicelo se-e-Mail, isiphequluli sewebhu, nesicelo sokubuka amavidiyo ku-YouTube. Izingane zingayisebenzisa futhi ukuthumela imiyalezo, uthathe futhi uthumele omunye nomunye izithombe, futhi yiqiniso, inkulumo.
Uqondisa kanjani futhi uvikele izingane zakho uma zisebenzisa 'i-smartphone,' ikakhulu lapho ikwazi ukufinyelela ku-intanethi?
Into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukufunda ukuthi ungavula kanjani futhi usebenzise noma yikuphi ukulawula komzali okufakiwe ngefoni, noma kunjalo, kungenzeka. Lokhu kungase kuhlanganise isofthiwe yokulawula yabazali okuyiyona ingxenye yocingo lomakhalekhukhwini kanye nezinye ezingangeniswa njengezici ze-carrier yakho yeselula.
I-AT & T, isibonelo, inikeza i-'Imikhawulo ye-Smart for Controlless Wire Control 'isici ngezindleko ezengeziwe ngenyanga evumela ukuthi ukhawule uma ifoni isetshenziswa, vimba noma uvumele izinombolo ezithile ingane yakho engayithumela / zamukele izingcingo kanye nemilayezo yombhalo ukuya nokuya, nokukhawulela okuqukethwe okungalungile, njll. Le sevisi ayisebenzi ne-iPhone nakuba, ehlanganisa isofthiwe yokulawula yabazali bayo.
I-Verizon (I-Verizon Yokusebenzisa Ukulawula kanye Nezihlungi Zokuqukethwe), T-Mobile (Izibonelelo Zomndeni kanye Ne-Web Guard), nezinye izithwali zefoni zinikeza izinsizakalo ezifanayo.
Abathwali befoni abaningi banamasevisi okukuvumela ukuba uthole ingane yakho nganoma isiphi isikhathi uma ifoni exhaswe. Isibonelo, isevisi ye-Verizon Family Locator (eyayibizwa ngokuthi i-Chaperone) izokuvumela ukuba ubuke indawo yengane yakho futhi ingakuthumela nomyalezo wombhalo lapho ifika noma ishiya indawo ethile, njengesikole noma indlu yomngani. I-AT & T (AT & T Family Map) ne-Sprint (Sprint Family Locator) inikeza amasevisi afanayo.
Ingabe bewazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuqapha imiyalezo yengane yakho yezingane?
Ngenkathi kunesofthiwe yeselula esheshayo ongayifaka ngasese kwi-iPhone yengane yakho noma i-Windows Mobile esekelwe ku-Smartphones ehlola imiyalezo kanye namakholi wefoni, abathwali befoni abanikezeli le nsizakalo ngokwabo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abanye abazali bangabika. I-SMobile Parental Controls enye uhlelo olungabheka ukuthi ingane yakho yenzani ngefoni yakho, kufaka phakathi ukuvumela ukuthi ubuke izithombe zezingane zakho, imiyalezo, ama-imeyili, nendawo, njll.
Ukuhlola izingane zakho kungavamile ukuba nomqondo omuhle, kanti futhi uma usebenzisa lolu hlobo lwesofthiwe, kufanele ngempela uvumele ingane yakho ukuthi ufunde amanye amatheksthi akhe noma ama-imeyili njengesimo sokuba nomakhalekhukhwini. Uma ungamethembi ingane yakho ukusebenzisa ifoni yakhe, ngakho-ke akufanele abe nefoni, kufanele ucime ukufinyelela kwe-intanethi yeselula noma ikhono lokuthumela imiyalezo, noma umenzele ifoni eyisisekelo engenayo lezi zinhlobo zezici aze athole ukwethemba kwakho.
Ukulawula Abazali Abakhulu
Ngeshwa, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uvikelekile kanjani ikhompyutha yakho yasekhaya, amaselula, namanye amagajethi angakwazi ukufinyelela ku-intanethi, ungase ungabi njalo ukuthi izingane zakho zinjani uma zingekho ekhaya. Angiyikuvumela izingane zami ukuba zithole 'I-Call of Duty: I-Modern Warfare 2,' umdlalo wevidiyo onokulinganisa okuvuthiwe ngoba, ngaphezu kwanoma yikuphi udlame, bangakuzwa ingxoxo yegeyimu ngolimi olubi namazwana angcolile. Kodwa-ke, ngokushesha ngathola ukuthi cishe bonke abangane babo babenalo, ngakho kwakunzima ukubenza bangakwazi ukufinyelela kuwo.
Ngesinye isikhathi ngathola ukuthi nakuba umngane wami omdala owayevakashele wayephethe ukulawula okuhle komzali kwikhompyutha yakhe yasekhaya, omunye wabangane bakhe bezingane akazange, futhi lokho kungavinjelwe ukufinyelela kwi-intanethi kuye kwavumela umngane wakhe ukuthi abone futhi azwe izinto esizibhekayo ngeke neze iphuphe ngokuvumela izingane zethu zibone.
Ngakho-ke, ukulawulwa komzali okungcono kunomzali osebenzayo ofundisa izingane zabo ngezingozi zobuchwepheshe obusha futhi obona ukuthi benzani. Kuzo zombili lezi zimo ezingenhla, njengoba sasixoxile ngokungavunyelwe ukudlala imidlalo elinganiswe 'M' nangamawebhusayithi angafanelekile, aphendukela komunye umsebenzi futhi angitshele ukuthi kwenzekani.
Ngaphambi kokuthola izingane zakho i-smartphone evumela ukuthi bathumele futhi bathole i-imeyili, ukuthumela imiyalezo, noma banikeze ukufinyelela ku-intanethi, qiniseka ukuthi:
- uxoxe nabo ngendlela efanelekayo mayelana nezinto ezingabenza ezinkingeni, kufaka phakathi ingxoxo yokuthumelelana imiyalezo , ukubuka amawebhusayithi angafanele, izithombe namavidiyo, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi abantu abaxoxa nabo nge-intanethi ngeke babe yibo abonakalayo, futhi ke qhubeka uxoxisana ngalezi zihloko bese ubuza izingane zakho imibuzo mayelana nalokho abakwenzayo kwi-intanethi ngezikhathi ezithile
- setha izilawuli zakho zabazali, kodwa ke qhubeka uqondisa izingane zakho, ikakhulukazi izingane ezincane, njengoba zisebenzisa ifoni yabo kanye nekhompyutha
- ukhumbuze izingane zakho ukuthi izinto eziningi abazibona ku-intanethi aziqiniso
- njengoba intombazane yakho noma ingane yakho ikhula ngokwengeziwe, umkhumbuze ukuthi akhulume nawe uma ebheka okuthile kwi-intanethi ephikisayo noma nje kubonakala ingakulungile
- fundisa izingane zakho ukuthi zingathumeli ulwazi oluningi lomuntu siqu ngokwabo noma imisebenzi yazo ku-intanethi, kufaka phakathi izindawo ezifana ne-Facebook, ngoba lolu lwazi ngeke luhlale luyimfihlo
- basebenzise amagama eskrini angafaki igama lawo langempela, ikheli le-imeyli, iminyaka, noma olunye ulwazi lokukhomba
- ubaxwayise mayelana nokuqhutshwa kwe-cyberbullying, ukuhlukumeza abanye ku-intanethi, ukusakaza amahemuhemu, noma ukuzenza ezinye izingane ukuthumela imiyalezo emibi noma ama-imeyili
- vumela kuphela izingane zakho ukuba zisebenzise amawebusayithi afanelekile nemidlalo, isibonelo, i-Facebook idinga ukuba izingane zibe okungenani iminyaka engu-13 ubudala ukubhalisa, nemidlalo eminingi ethandwayo izingane ezincane ezithanda ukudlala ezivumela ukufinyeleleka kwe-intanethi kulinganiswa 'T' for Teen noma 'M' for Ukukhula futhi kufanele idlalwe kuphela ngabantu abadala
- khuthaza imisebenzi ye-RL (impilo yangempela) futhi ulinganise isikhathi sokubukwa (okumele kufake isikhathi sokubuka i-TV, usebenzisa ikhompyutha, ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo, noma ukusebenzisa i-iPod, ifoni yakho, noma enye idivaysi yemidiya) okungaphezu kwehora elilodwa noma amabili ngosuku , njengoba imisebenzi ye-intanethi ingaba umlutha kakhulu
Futhi wazi ukuthi benzani ku-intanethi.