Ukuthuthukiswa Kwentuthuko Yakho Yezingane Zeminyaka Eyisishiyagalombili

I-Growing Social Network kanye ne-Intricacy yobudlelwane obudala obuneminyaka engu-9

Umhlaba wezenhlalakahle oneminyaka engu-9 uvula ngaphezu kwanini ngaphambili. Izingane kulesi sizukulwane zingaba nezibonelo ezingabantu abangaphandle komndeni oseduze, njengomqeqeshi noma uthisha. Bangase babheke kumuntu odumile abangazi njengomculi noma isibalo sezemidlalo. Ubuhlobo babo buzobaluleka kakhulu ekuphileni kwabo kwansuku zonke, futhi bayokhathalela okwengeziwe ngalokho abanye abakucabangayo ngabo.

Izingane ezineminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye zizimele kakhulu. Bangase babe nesithakazelo sokuba nomngane nabangani futhi kungenzeka ukuthi bakwazi ukuhlala ubusuku bonke (izingane ezincane zivame ukuzijabulisa ngomqondo wezandla zangasese kodwa zingase zibike ukuthi zifuna ukuya ekhaya ngaphambi kokulala).

Njengoba ithonya lontanga nokucindezela kube yizinkinga ezinkulu ezineminyaka engama-9 nangaphezulu, abazali bangase bafune ukuhlala benolwazi ngobungane babantwana babo. Indlela engcono kakhulu yokwazi ukuthi obani abangane bakho bangokusebenzisa isikhathi sakho nengane yakho futhi ukhulume nabo ngalokho okuqhubekayo empilweni yabo. Izingxoxo njalo etafuleni lesidlo sakusihlwa futhi phakathi neminye imisebenzi yansuku zonke kubalulekile ukugcina imigqa yokukhulumisana ivulekile futhi isize ingane yakho ihambe ngezinselele noma izinkinga kubangane, esikoleni noma kunoma iyiphi enye indawo yokuphila kwayo. Abazali bangaqinisekisa ukuthi bahlangana nabangane babantwana babo, babe nezingqungquthela ezivamile nabafundisi bezingane zabo, futhi bahlanganyele esikoleni sabantwana babo.

Abangane

Abantwana abaneminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye bazobeka ukubaluleka kakhudlwana kubangane nabangane bangaphandle komndeni oseduze. Ingxenyeni ye-flip yalokhu okuthandana nomzwelo kwabanye kubungozi bokuthonya okungathandeki kontanga nokucindezelwa - okunye abazali okufanele baqaphele ngalesi sikhathi. Ukuziqhenya okunamandla kubalulekile kule minyaka ngoba kungasiza izingane ukuba zithinte ukucindezela kontanga futhi zigweme ukuziphatha nokukhetha okungalungile impilo yabo noma inhlalakahle yabo.

Kuvamile ukuthi ubungane phakathi kwabaneminyaka engu-9 baguquke. Ngokuvamile, izingane ezineminyaka yobudala zinabangane abambalwa abalingani bobulili obufanayo. Kodwa bangakwazi ukushintsha lezo zingani futhi banqume ukuthi umuntu ungumngani noma akekho umngane bese uphindela emuva. Kuyinto evamile izingane ezingeneminyaka engu-9 ubudala ukuthuthukisa ukuqoqa.

Izingane ezineminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye zizojabulela imisebenzi yeqembu njengokudlala eqenjini futhi ingathanda ukuhlanganyela emisebenzini yeqembu njengesikole lapho kubambisana khona ukusebenzisana.

Ukuziphatha Nezimiso

Izingane eziningi ezineminyaka engu-9 ubudala zinomqondo oqinile wokulunga nokulungile nokungalungile. Izingane kulesi sizukulwane zingase zibe nokuhlangene okunamandla komncintiswano futhi zingase zithole ukunqoba (futhi zizonda ukulahlekelwa). Bangase babe izinsimbi zomthetho futhi bangathukuthela uma bebona ukungabi nabulungisa (uma umntanakho eqala ukubuka i-TV engaphezu kwalokho avunyelwe ukuyenza, isibonelo).

Abaneminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye banesifiso sokubona izinto ezimangalisweni ezimnyama nabamhlophe, futhi bangase badlulise ngokweqile kulokho abakubona njengokungabi nabulungisa noma okungalungile .. Bangase bazenyanye ukungathembeki futhi bakhulume noma yikuphi ukuziphatha okubi okubonwayo okubonayo, njengokuthi ofunda nabo oqamba amanga ngento ethile.

Ukuqwashiswa Komphakathi

Izingane ezineminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye zingase ziqale ukuba nesithakazelo emicimbi yamanje.

Bangase baqale ukuqonda ukuthi izinto okwenzekayo manje, njengokushintsha kwesimo sezulu, zingathinta ikusasa labo. Kuvamile ukuba izingane eziningi ezineminyaka engu-9 ubudala zibuze imibuzo futhi zibe nesithakazelo ekwenzeni okuthile ukusiza ukuxazulula izinkinga ezifana nobubha noma umthelela wezinhlekelele zemvelo. Izingane ezineminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye zingase zishisekele ngendaba ethile, njengokuthi sonke esingakwenza ukuze sisize imvelo.

Abazali bangawasebenzisa ngokunenzuzo lokhu kuqwashisa kwezenhlalakahle ngokukhuthaza izingane ukuba zisize abanye futhi zifunde ngezindlela zokuphila impilo enhle.