Izindlela zokufaka ukuzethemba ngokwezingane ezineminyaka esikoleni
Ukuzivocavoca okunempilo kungenye yezisekelo ezibaluleke kakhulu ezingathuthukiswa enganeni. Kungenye yezihluthulelo zempilo yengane nenhlalakahle yengane kanye nokuphila komphakathi, kwengqondo, ukuziphatha, nokuzizwa ngokomzimba, futhi kuyoba nendima ebalulekile ekusingatheni ukushiyeka, ukucindezela kontanga, nezinye izinselele emgwaqweni wokuphila .
Ukuzihlonipha ngokuyinhloko ukuthi ingane yakho ikubona kanjani futhi uzicabangele yona, futhi ikhono lakhe lokwenza izinto.
Uphinde uhlolwe ukuthi uzizwa kanjani othandekayo, nokuthi usekelwa kangakanani futhi ukukhuthazwa - noma ukugxekwa - okuthola kubantu abalulekile ekuphileni kwakhe, njengabazali bakhe.
Nazi ezinye izindlela ezincane kodwa ezibalulekile abazali abangenza umehluko omkhulu ekwakheni umuzwa onempilo wokuzihlonipha ingane yabo:
Bonisa iNdodana Yakho Uthande Nsuku Zonke
Ukwazi ukuthi uyamthanda kangakanani kumnika ingane yakho umuzwa wokulondeka nokulingana nakho okubalulekile ekuboneni kwakhe ngaye. Njengoba ekhula, uzoqhubeka nokwakha umphakathi wakhe, ngokwenza abangane abahle, abe nomuzwa wokuba khona esontweni noma esinagogeni noma kwenye indawo yokukhulekela, ekwenzeni izibopho nabalingani beqembu lakhe eqenjini lezemidlalo, nokuningi. Uthando lwakho luzobeka isisekelo sokuba nobuhlobo obunempilo nobuqili obuzokwenza kamuva ekuphileni kwakhe. Ngakho khumbulani ingane yakho uma usho ukuthi uhlelekile futhi ulalele, gxumela ndawonye futhi ufunde incwadi, futhi umbonise ukuthi uyamthanda ngezindlela eziningi, njalo ngosuku olulodwa .
Dlala nezingane zakho futhi ujabule
Uma udlala nomntanakho, kubonisa ukuthi uthanda ukuchitha isikhathi naye futhi uxabise inkampani yakhe. Ukuzijabulisa nje nengane yakho kunezinzuzo eziningi : Ingane yakho ayikho nje ukuthuthukisa ukuzethemba ekubeni namandla okuba umuntu onomdla futhi othakazelisayo ongakha izibopho zomphakathi eziqinile, kodwa izifundo zibonise izinkinga ezinganeni zokukhula okujabulisayo kanye nengozi yokucindezeleka futhi ukukhathazeka kunciphisa lapho abazali bedlala nabo.
Nika Izingane Zakho Imithwalo Yemfanelo Nemisebenzi Yomsebenzi
Ukuba nomthwalo wemisebenzi yokwenza imisebenzi efanelekile kunika ingane yakho umuzwa wenjongo nokufeza . Ngisho noma engenzi lutho ngokuqondile, menze azi ukuthi uyazisa imizamo yakhe, umdumise ngakho konke akwenzayo kahle, futhi umqinisekise ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uzothola kangcono izinto ezingcono, kuhlanganise nemisebenzi yakhe .
Vumela Ingane Yakho Izimele
Iminyaka yokufunda esikoleni esiphansi yisikhathi sokuzimela okusheshayo ezinganeni. Ngesikhathi befika esikoleni samabanga aphakathi, izingane eziningi ziqala ukuchitha isikhathi zodwa ekhaya, zihamba esikoleni zodwa , futhi zisiza izingane zakubo. Kubalulekile ukuthi abazali bavumele izingane ukuba zikhule ngokuzimela ngokwengeziwe, zivumele ukuba baxoxe ukuthi bangakhuluma kanjani ngothisha ngezinkinga zabo ngokwabo, bahlele izabelo zasemakhaya , baqiniseke ukuthi i-uniforms yebhola ligcwele futhi lilungele njalo njalo. Okubizwa ngokuthi "i-helicopter parenting" kunciphise amandla amantombazane ukwenza izinto ngokwabo nokwakha ukuzethemba okuhle.
Fundisa Ukuhluleka Kwakho Kwezingane kanye Nokuhluleka Kwamathuba Okufunda
Gcizelela ukuthi ukuba umuntu kusho ukwenza amaphutha nokungafezeki. Mfundise ukuthi abone ukuthi lezi zithiyo ziyasifundisa ukuze siqhubeke sizama ukuthuthukisa.
Ungalokothi Uthumele Noma Udelele Izingane Zakho
Uma ingane yakho yenza okuthile okukukhohlisayo noma okungalungile, qiniseka ukuthi uhlukanisa ukuziphatha okuvela kumntanakho. Ungumuntu-uma ingane yakho iqhuma izinkinobho zakho cishe uyocasuka noma uthukuthele. Khuluma nengane yakho ngenhlonipho. Ungamemeza, uthathe umzwelo uma uyala ingane yakho (indlela enhle yokwenza lokhu ukusebenzisa imiphumela yemvelo nemicabango), futhi ukhulume nengane yakho ngendlela ethandekayo nenobungane .
Vala ifoni
Sihlale sixhunyiwe kulezi zinsuku, ngenxa yamadivaysi eselula asinika umbhalo nokuthumela kuma-social media bese sihlola i-imeyili usuku lonke, nsuku zonke.
Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi izingane eziningi ziyaqaphela ukuthi abazali bazo abazinaki. Akuzizwa kuhle ukuhlale unganakwa uma unomunye umuntu-uma usebenzisa isikhathi sakho ngedwa nengane yakho, faka ifoni futhi ungenzi iphutha lokuphuza , noma ukushaya ifoni, yakho ingane.
Qonda ukuziqhenya akuyona ukuzidla, i-Narcissism, noma i-Entitlement
Ukuba nokuzethemba akusho ukucabanga ukuthi izwe lizungezile noma ukuthi izidingo zakho zibaluleke kakhulu kunabanye abantu. Ukulinganisela ukuzethemba okunempilo namanye amakhono okuphila abalulekile izingane zidinga njengokungathi uzwela , ube nomusa , ube nemikhuba emihle , ube nomusa , futhi ube nomuzwa wokubonga .
Bavumele Bakha futhi Baveze Umsebenzi
Sebenza emisebenzini emnandi yengane nomntanakho bese uwabonisa eduze kwendlu. Uma ehambisa ekhaya imisebenzi yakhe, ukubhala, kanye neminye imiklamo esikoleni, umcele ukuthi akutshele konke ukuthi wakwenza kanjani, ukuthi ufuna abantu ababona umsebenzi wakhe ukucabanga noma ukuzwa (indlela umculi angase akhulume ngayo ngomsebenzi wakhe ), nokuthi yini ayithandayo kakhulu ngokudalwa kwakhe. Ukunika ingane yakho ithuba lokubonisa izinto azenzayo noma ukukhuluma ngezinto azenzile kuye kwenza ukuthi azizwe sengathi izinto zakhe zidinga ukunakekelwa, nokuthi umbono wakhe nemicabango yakhe kubalulekile.