Ukuhamba esikoleni kungaba yindlela enhle yokuba izingane zithole okunye okudingekayo kwansuku zonke. Kodwa kungakanani lapho kufanelekile ukuba ingane ihambe yedwa esikoleni?
Izingane eziningi nabazali bazo bangase bacabange ukuthi bangakwazi ukusingatha ukuhamba baye besuka esikoleni sebhasi esikoleni, ngisho nangendlela eya esikoleni ngokwabo kusukela ekuqaleni kwebanga lesibili noma lesithathu. Kodwa-ke, ochwepheshe abaningi bezokuphepha kwezingane ezifana ne-American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) bathi izingane azikwazi ukubhekana nezimo eziphuthumayo noma izimo ezingalindelekile kuze kube phakathi kweminyaka yobudala engama-9 kuya ku-11 ubudala, noma mayelana nebanga lesihlanu.
Amakhono Okufundisa Umntanakho Ukuhamba Esikoleni
Abazali bangaqala ukuqhuba imithetho yokuphepha yabantwana kanye nemithetho yokuphepha ngezinyawo ukuze abafundi babo bebanga lokuzilungiselela bahlale bezimele futhi bahambe esikoleni bebodwa. Fundisa ingane yakho ukuthi:
- Qaphela ithrafikhi ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho uwela emgwaqweni bese ulahla ucingo noma amanye amadivaysi e-elektroniki enza isandla ekuhambeni okuphazamisekile.
- Njalo uwele emgwaqeni lapho kunezibani zethrafikhi; ungangeni phakathi kwebhulogi.
- Bheka ngakwesokunxele, kwesokudla, bese ushiya futhi ngaphambi kokuwela; ukuwela ngenkathi ugcina iso endleleni.
- Njalo ubukela ukujika izimoto uma uwela emgwaqeni.
- Khumbula ukuthi abashayeli bangaboni, ngisho noma bebona umshayeli.
- Gqoka izingubo ezinemibala egqamile noma idivaysi eyokwandisa ukubonakala kwayo, njengento ebonakalayo noma ngisho nesitsha sokuphepha, kuye ngomzila wabo.
- Ungalokothi ulandele umuntu ongumfokazi noma othile owaziyo kodwa akuyona umuntu oqokiwe "ophephile". Umuntu omdala ophephile ngumuntu oye wamukelwa ngaphambili wena nomntanakho ukuba abe ngumnakekeli, njengomkhulu noma umakhelwane omethembayo. Uma othile ezama ukumenza ahambe naye noma azama ukufika kuye, bese umemeza, "Usizo! Lo akuyena ubaba wami!" noma "Usizo! Lo akuyena umama wami!" bese ubalekela. Uma emshaya, mtshele ukuthi ukhabe, ujezise, futhi ugijime ngokuqinile ngangokunokwenzeka.
- Uma kufanele ngandlela-thile alahleke ngisho nangemva kokusebenzisa umzila nawe izikhathi eziningana, menze acele owesifazane-mhlawumbe owesifazane onomntwana noma umntwana-ukuze uthole usizo.
Umzila ingane yakho okufanele uyithathe esikoleni nayo ingadlala esinqumweni sokuthi ingabe iphephile. Umzila ongekho ukudlula emigwaqweni ematasa kungase kube nokuphepha ngesikhathi esincane, kuyilapho amanye ama-intersections amatasa angadinga ukuvuthwa okungaphezulu.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Abazali kuphela abangakwazi ngempela ukuthi yini ingane yabo engayisingatha. Uma uneminyaka engu-10 oqaphele futhi unakekele indawo azungezile, kungenzeka ukuthi ulungele ukuya esikoleni yedwa. Kodwa uma ingane yakho iphazamiseka kalula futhi ingeke ikhumbule njalo ukubheka ngaphambi kokuwela umgwaqo, khona-ke ungase ufune ukulinda. Njengazinye izinkinga zokuphepha nezempilo, zithemba izinkambiso zakho; uyazi kangcono ingane yakho kunanoma ubani.
> Umthombo:
> Emuva Amathiphu Esikole. I-American Academy of Pediatrics. https://www.aap.org/en-us/about-the-aap/aap-press-room/news-features-and-safety-tips/Pages/Back-to-School-Tips.aspx.