Amathoyizi nezipho ukusiza ukukhuthaza ukuthuthukiswa
Uma izingane zisadlulisa uphawu lwezinyanga ezi-3 azibe zisanda kuzalwa. Kule minyaka yobudala, bazoqala ukwenza okuningi-njengokuqala ukuphuma nokuthinta izinto, ukumomotheka, nabanye bangase baqede. Ukuze usize ingane yakho ikhule ngokwengqondo nangokuthuthukiswa, kubalulekile ukuba nezingane ezithile ezithokozisayo ezizojabulisa izinzwa zazo futhi zenze ukuphila kwakho kube lula. Amathoyizi adlala umculo, enza imisindo ekhanda, noma ukusiza nge-tummy time yilabo abambalwa abasebenza izinyanga ezinyanga ezintathu.
Uma ungumngane noma umhlobo wokuhlangana wesihlobo okokuqala, sifake izipho ezinhle kakhulu kuleli qembu lobudala kanye namathoyizi umama, ubaba nomntwana ngokuqinisekile bayakwazisa. Lapha, amathoyizi kanye nezipho ezingcono kakhulu zokuthenga umntwana oneminyaka engu-3 ubudala.
Eyakhelwe ukugqugquzela ukuthuthukiswa kokucwaninga ngomculo, le-toy boombox yezinhlobonhlobo idlala izinguqulo zezingoma eziyisikhombisa ze-classic ezivela eMozart kuya ku-Chopin ngenkathi zikhanyisa ukuze zijabulise amehlo omntwana. Kulula ukuba izandla ezincane zibambe, ingane ingakwazi futhi ukuqonda i-Take Along kalula ne-bead yesibambo sokuphatha. Lesi isipho esiphelele kumzali ngoba sisebenza ekhaya nabazali abaningi bathi kuyimfuneko yokuhamba imoto ngoba iyophazamisa umntwana.
Ngenyanga ezinama-3 ubudala, umntwana akahlezi ohlangene (lokhu kuvame ukuqhubeka phakathi kwezinyanga ezingu-4 no-7) kodwa bangase bafune ukubheka emhlabeni wonke futhi lapho lesi sihlalo esiphezulu sisebenza khona izimangaliso. Umntanakho othanda ukwazi ukuhlala ahlale esizwa esihlalweni se-Fisher-Price Sit-Me-Up Floor futhi ubukele umama nobaba benze ukuhlanza okusheshayo nxazonke zendlu. Isihlalo sisebenza kusukela ezinyangeni ezingu-3 futhi singawavumelanisa kuze kube yizigidi ezingu-25 kodwa uma ingane yakho ingenalutho lokulawula intamo ungase ufune ukulinda kancane ngaphambi kokusebenzisa lokhu.
Njengamadivayisi amaningi ahleliwe, i-AAP itusa ukuba ungashiyi ingane yakho lapho isikhathi eside, kepha uma udinga ukugeza okusheshayo kwezitsha noma nje udinga izandla ezimbalwa ngaphandle kwesihlalo lesi sihlalo sizoba ukwelashwa kokubili ngawe.
Isikhathi somswakama sibalulekile ekuthuthukiseni kwengane futhi lo mdlalo wokudlala usiza ukwenza lo msebenzi ube mnandi kakhulu kulabo abanakekeli nabantwana. Umbhede okhululekile ukhululekile ukuba umntwana ahlale lapho edlala futhi ehlola ngamathoyizi afakiwe. Izingane zizothola izikhonkwane ze-satin, imisindo ye-crinkle, isibuko, isikhombisi, nesilwane esizosiza ukuphazamisa emsebenzini owenzile. Kukhona umcamelo womzimba uma ingane idinga ukwesekwa okungeziwe uma wenza isikhathi somzimba.
Uma isikhathi sesisu siphezu komncane wakho singasakujabulela lokhu njengomdlalo wokudlala futhi uma bekhulile bangathanda ukugubha futhi balayishe endaweni yabo ekhethiwe. Njengoba isinyathelo esincane kakhulu kulokhu kwenza isipho esiphelele kubazali abanesikhala esincane.
Ngenkathi ingane ingahambi-akukho lutho olungaphezu kwezingubo zomntwana-ikakhulukazi njengesipho! Lezi zinhlayiya ezithambile zizoqeda noma yikuphi ukugqoka futhi zinikeze imfudumalo encane ezinganeni zeminwe. Yenziwe esikhwameni sangempela lezi zicathulo zifika emaphethini angu-29 nobukhulu beminyaka engu-2-3 ukuze uthola i-pair (noma embalwa) yengane empilweni yakho.
Ngaphandle kokubukeka okuhle, lezi zicathulo zikhuthaza ukuthuthukiswa kwezinyawo kusukela izicathulo ezisezingeni eliphansi zisiza izingane ukuba zihambe ezinyaweni. Futhi ngokungafani nezinye izicathulo zamantombazane namasokisi, laba empeleni bahlala ezinyaweni ngakho-ke awukwenyali ukuthola isicathulo esingekho.
Akukaze kube mncane kakhulu ukuqala ukufunda ingane. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiliphi incwadi, konke ukufunda kusiza ukuthuthukisa eziningi zezinzwa. Ezinyangeni ezintathu, ukufunda kungase kubonakale kungenangqondo kodwa ungase umangale ukuthi bajabule kangakanani baba nezithombe futhi belalela izwi lakho. Bheka, bheka! uthatha ingane enezithombe zayo ezimnyama ezimnyama nezigqamile eziphambene nezithombe ezizokwenza ukuthi izingane zibe nezincane kakhulu.
Ababuyekezi abaningi bomzali bathi izingane zabo zazingenasithakazelo ezincwadini baze zibuke lokhu. Abanye bayayitshela ngisho bayancenga ingane yabo lapho bekhala. Noma ngabe yenzani, le ncwadi izoba yintandokazi ngesikhathi esheshayo.
Thola amakhono amancane emoto asusiwe ama-maracas enemibala eyobaheha ukuba bathuthumele, bathuthumele. Ukuphatha okuncane kulula ukuwaqonda futhi uma beqala ukuhambisa izandla zabo kuzungeze bazobe bethinta umsindo abazokukhiqiza. Ngaphesheya komunye ama-maracas yi-pom-pom esithambile ukuthi ingane ingakwazi ukuqonda noma ukufaka emlonyeni wayo ukuhlola ngenkathi enye ingxenye iqukethe ubuhlalu bokuthuthumela.
Abazali abaningi bathi izingane zabo zazithanda lezi zimpawu zonyaka odlule, futhi zaphawula ukuthi laba basize ukufundisa izingane zabo ukuthi zingabamba kanjani kangcono.
Sithembele, awusoze waba nama-bibs anele. Ukusuka ibhodlela nokuncelisa, ukuxosha, ukuphalaza, futhi kungekudala ukudla okuqinile ingane yakho izokwenza umonakalo omkhulu. I-Bandana bibs yindlela elula neyinkimbinkimbi yokuvimbela ushintsho lwezingubo ezingalindelekile lungenzeki. Lezi zinhlamvu zifika kuqoqo lwesishiyagalombili futhi zenziwa ngamaphesenti angu-100 ukotini oluphilayo ngaphambili futhi ngemuva kunesembozo se-polyester esisiza ukusheshisa ukomisa, ngaleyo ndlela kunciphisa izinguquko zebha nokugeza okuningi.
Ekuboneni kokuqala, lezi zivele zibonakala zibopha izinkomishi ezindala. Kodwa uma usana, lezi zizohlinzeka iminyaka neminyaka yokuzijabulisa. Uma beneminyaka engu-3 ubudala bazobamba futhi mhlawumbe bahlafuna kubo, njengoba bekhula kancane bayofunda ukuthi bangawafaka kanjani futhi bawahlele. Abanakekelayo bangawaphonsa nalawo ekugezeni bese uwasebenzisa ukuthululela amanzi phezu kwekhanda lomntwana noma ubonise ukuthi amanzi angadonsa kanjani kusuka komunye indebe kuya kwesinye ngemigodi engezansi. Uma ingane yakho encane iqala ukwenza sengathi idlala bayothanda ukusetha itafula nalezi zinkomishi ezincane ezimnandi. Imibono kanye namathuba angapheli. Futhi ngalomthamo ophansi, akuyona i-no-brainer yendlu yonke.
Njengoba ingane iqala ukusebenza kancane kungase ibe yisikhathi sokuqoka isikhala somuntu ohlukile salowo omncane. Lapha ungaba namathoyizi wengane yakho nomama nobaba bangaba nendawo enhle yokuhlala phansi. Lezi tile zokudlala ezivela ku-Yay Mat zisebenza ezimangazayo ngoba zifika emaphetheni afanelekayo angafanelana kunoma yiliphi igumbi lokuphumula ngaphandle kokubangela ama-eyesore amaningi. Khetha kusukela emgqeni ohlaza okwesibhakabhaka, i-swan serene, noma iphethini lemifanekiso elimnyama nelomhlophe.
Abazali bangaqiniseka ukuthi lezi tile zenziwe ngezinto ezingekho ezinobuthi futhi ziyi-BPA-, lead-, ne-phthalate. Bafika futhi esikhwameni esitoreji esithakazelisayo esenza ukuba intukuthelo ikhulule.