Yini ongayisho kumntanakho ophikisana nesigaba somfundi esikoleni
"Ngiyakuzonda ukuzivocavoca!" Mhlawumbe uma nje izikole ziye zaba namakilasi emfundo engokwenyama, izingane ziye zakhononda ngazo: "Isigaba sokuzivocavoca siyisicefe / sithuthuka / sisabeka / sihlazo!" Ingabe ingane yakho izwa ngale ndlela? Zama ukushintsha umsindo wakhe; I-classroom yokuzivocavoca ingaba yindlela ebalulekile yokuthi izingane zihlangabezane nezidingo zabo zansuku zonke zomsebenzi womzimba . Ezimweni eziningi, izingane-ikakhulukazi intsha kanye nezibili-zithola umsebenzi omkhulu wansuku zonke esikoleni.
Ngakho uma bephinda babuye ngesikhathi se-PE, balahlekelwa ithuba elibalulekile lokuthuthukisa impilo yabo nokuqina kwabo.
Uma ingane yakho ithi iyayizonda iglasi lokuzivocavoca, zama lezi zinyathelo ukusiza ukulungisa isimo sakhe sengqondo.
Ukukhathazeka Ngezizwa Zengane Yakho Mayelana Nokuzivocavoca
Uma uqala ngokuthi "Yebo, ngisho noma uzonda ukuvivinya umzimba, kufanele uhambe," usuvele ulahlekile izethameli zakho, kusho uTamar Chansky, uF.D., isazi sezengqondo kwengane e-Philadelphia kanye nomlobi we- Freeing Your Child kusuka ekucabangeni okungenabulungisa: Amandla, Amasu Okusebenzayo Ukwakha Ukuphila Okuphelele, Ukuziphendulela Nenjabulo . Indlela engcono, kusho uDkt. Chansky, ukuqala ngemishwana ethi "Ngikuzwa, akuyona into yakho" noma "Angicabangi ukuthi nguwe yodwa ozizwa ngaleyo ndlela." Ingane yakho isazi kakade ukuthi kufanele afunde ekilasini le-PE. Ufuna ukuzizwa ezwa lapho ekutshela ukuthi akayithandi.
Hamba Isizathu
Zama ukuthola ukuthi yini ebangela ukumemezela kwengane yakho yokuzonda.
Yini, ngokukhethekile, emkhathaza ngekilasi le-PE? UDkt Chansky uphakamisa ukubuza, "Kuyini into embi kunazo zonke mayelana nesigaba sokuzivocavoca?" Ingane yakho ingase iphendule ukuthi ayike ikhethwe amaqembu, noma ukuthi wonke umuntu ungcono ezemidlalo kunalokho. Noma angase abe nomuzwa wokuthi akanaso isikhathi esanele sokushintsha izingubo emva kwalokho, noma akakhululekile ukushintsha phambi kwezinye izingane.
Ungacabangi noma ucabange-ungase ungalungile. Futhi cabanga, futhi, noma ngabe kunezinkinga zomzimba noma zezempilo ezithinta imizwa yengane yakho. Ingane enokubona okujulile okujulile, isibonelo, ingase ibe nesikhathi esinzima kakhulu ekuxhumaniseni ukunyakaza kwayo ekilasini.
Inkinga-Sombulula Ndawonye
Umgomo lapha ukuthi ingane yakho ifike ngezixazululo zakhe. Buza imibuzo ehamba phambili, njengokuthi "Ingabe ukuthuthukisa ukusebenza kwakho ku-PE kubalulekile? Ucabanga ukuthi uzokwenza kanjani lokho?" Yilungele ukunikeza iziphakamiso, kodwa zama ukuzinzisa njengemibuzo: "Ngakho-ke ufuna ukuzama amabhasikithi wokudubula ngezimpelasonto-ungathanda mina noma ubaba ukuba adlale nawe noma mhlawumbe u-Alex, noma uDonny?"
Uma ikamelo lokungena liyinkinga enkulu kuneklasi ngokwalo, cabanga ngezindlela zokunqoba ukunganaki. Mhlawumbe ingane yakho idinga ibhola lezemidlalo elingayigqoka ngaphansi kwezingubo zakhe zesikole, noma induku yokudliwayo ehlala esikoleni. Mhlawumbe angashintsha esitokisini sokugezela uma ethola kahle ukukwenza ngokushesha.
Ungakhathazeki
"Inzondo" liyizwi elinamandla futhi livusa izimpendulo ezinamandla ezivela kubazali (yingakho izingane zisisebenzisa!). UDkt. Chansky uthi: "Uma ingane ithi bayayonda okuthile, sibona intaba enkulu phambi kwethu. "Asiboni ukuthi sizobaqinisekisa kanjani ukuba bakhuphukele entabeni leyo.
Kuyasiza uma singabona umsebenzi wethu njengokuhamba nabo, esikhundleni salokho. "Futhi mhlawumbe, ingane yakho ingena ekilasini lakhe elilandelayo lokuzivocavoca ngaphandle kokuhudula izinyawo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, iklasi lokuzivocavoca esikoleni liyaqhubeka kangcono ngaso sonke isikhathi. Umgomo uguqukela ekusizeni izingane zijabulele impilo yonke impilo nempilo, ngakho-ke othisha bafuna abafundi babo ukuthola izinhlobo zokuzivocavoca abazithandayo. Esikhathini senkomfa yomzali nothisha, khuluma nothisha we-PE mayelana nemidlalo kanye nemisebenzi eyenziwe ingane yakho ekilasini, nangaphandle kwayo. Ungase ukwazi ukuthuthukisa isipiliyoni somkhakha wokuzivocavoca wonke umuntu.
Umthombo:
UCarlson JA, uSchipperijn J, et al. Indawo yokusebenza ngokomzimba njengoba kuhlolwe yi-GPS ku-Young Adolescents. I-Pediatrics , Vol 136, No 7, Januwari 2016.