Obaba banendima eyengeziwe ngokukhathalela izingane
Izindima zomndeni ziyaqhubeka nokushintsha, ikakhulukazi emvelweni ongenamhlanje, ocindezelayo. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi cishe izingxenye ezimbili kwezintathu zoomama bezingane ezincane zisebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya. Njengamanje, amaphesenti angaba ngu-40 kababa asebenza amahora angama-50 ngesonto emsebenzini. Ukungqubuzana phakathi komsebenzi nomndeni kuyaqhubeka, futhi ukunakekelwa kwengane kuvela kubazali kuyadingeka ikakhulukazi emndenini wezemisebenzi emibili.
Ngalokhu konke okushiwo, obaba ezikhathini eziningi abasasafuni kuphela indima "yokudla." Obaba bafuna ukuhileleka futhi bazama ukuchitha isikhathi esithile semfanelo nezingane zabo. Ngokusho kwalesi sihloko, "Khuthaza Ukubamba iqhaza Kwabazali Emisebenzini Yokunakekelwa Kwezingane Zasekuqaleni," kusukela kubazali, Inc., kuyilapho abanye obaba behlanganyela kakhulu ekuphileni kwezingane zabo, ngaphezu kwengxenye yabo bonke obaba emindenini emibili yabazali abanakho ukubandakanyeka okuphawulekayo kubo esikoleni somntwana (kufaka phakathi ukunakekelwa kwengane). Leli nani likhuphuka libe ngamaphesenti angu-82 lapho bexoxa nabababa abangahlali nezingane zabo.
Ucwaningo oluvela emnyangweni we-US Department of Education lubonisa ukuthi indima yabababa esikoleni nokunakekelwa kwengane kusiza ekufezeni izingane. Ucwaningo lwathola ukuthi izingane ezivela emizini yabazali ababili lapho obaba babambe iqhaza emisebenzini (njengemihlangano yesikole; izinkomfa zabazali nabafundisi; imisebenzi yokunakekelwa esikoleni noma yengane noma imicimbi; noma ukuvolontiya) kungenzeka ukuthi bathole amamaki aphezulu, bahlanganyele emisebenzini yangaphandle, futhi ujabule ekunakekeleni izingane noma esikoleni.
Nazi ezinye zezindlela abazali abangabandakanyeka ekunakekeleni kwezingane zakuqala.
Khulumisana nobaba
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ukuze bobabili abazali basayine?
Mema omama nobaba ukuba bahlanganyele emihlanganweni, izinkomfa, kanye nemicimbi ekhethekile. Uma kukhona obaba abangajwayelekile noma bengakaze bavakashele lolu hlelo, bafune futhi bazise ukuthi ukuzibandakanya kwabazali bobabili kubalulekile kumntanakho.
Imisebenzi Yokunikezela Kwababili Abazali
Abanikezeli bokunakekelwa kwengane ngezinye izikhathi bathi obaba bathanda imisebenzi ikakhulukazi kubababa kuphela. Ucwaningo luthi ngenye indlela, okubonisa ukuthi obaba bathanda ukuya emisebenzini nabafazi babo kanye nemindeni yabo. Lezi zinhlobo zemisebenzi zihlanganisa amaqembu asenkulisa, i-PTA, izikhundla zokuvolontiya ukuthi indoda nomfazi bangenza ndawonye , amakilasi okukhulisa abazali, kanye namaphrojekthi. Okubalulekile ukuthi ubaba uhileleke esikoleni.
ImiSebenzi YemiSebenzi Ngemuva kwemiSebenzi
Hlela ngokuvumelana nesikhathi lapho abazali abaningi abasebenza khona bengaya khona ngempela. Uma kudingwa ukubandakanyeka kukababa okwengeziwe, izinhlelo zokunakekelwa kanye nemisebenzi kufanele zihlelwe ngokufanele. Cabanga ngobuciko ngezinye izindlela izingane zingasiza ngoba abanikazi abasebenza emini bangase badinge ukuguquguquka njengoba becabanga ngezindlela zokuhlanganyela emisebenzini yesikole. Buza obaba ukusiza ngemisebenzi engenziwa ekhaya, njengokunquma ukubunjwa ekulungiseleleni imisebenzi yobuciko.
Khuthaza Ukubamba iqhaza Kwezinga
Vumela obaba bahlanganyele ngamakhono abo.
Uma unamathalenta akhethekile, kungani ungangenisi ekilasini? Unayo iresiphi oyithandayo noma wazi umdlalo omnandi noma udlala ithuluzi? Letha amakhono akho ekilasini lakho lesidakamizwa futhi ufundise into owaziyo ukuthi ungayenza kanjani.
Tshela obaba ukuthi uyakwazisa ukubandakanya kwabo
Obaba kufanele batshelwe ukuthi bakubonga futhi banikezwe ukwesekwa unyaka wonke hhayi nje ngoSuku lukaBaba. Abesilisa bahlanganyela ekuphumeleleni kwezezimali, ngokomzwelo nangokwezingane, futhi kudingeka badunyiswe ngemizamo yabo. Hlela imicimbi ekhethekile phakathi nonyaka lapho obaba bemenywa esikoleni.
Iningi labababa bafuna ukwenza ingxenye yabo ngokukhulisa izingane ukuze babe ngabantu abadala abaphumelelayo kanye nanoma yikuphi usizo olwengeziwe, isiqondiso, ukusekelwa nokuqiniswa kuyadingeka kakhulu kubababa njengamama.
Futhi, ingxenye engcono kunazo zonke ukuthi izingane zizuzisa ngemindeni ejabulayo esebenzisana ndawonye futhi abesilisa nabomama bahileleka ngokuphumelelayo empilweni yabo.