Okudingeka Ukwazi
Kukhona isisho esidala ukuthi izimangaliso zezokwelapha nezenkolo eceleni, konke ukukhulelwa kwaqala ngesenzo socansi. Lokhu kungenjalo, akukho lutho oluphakamisa amashiya njengendaba yezocansi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.
Into eyodwa engingayiqaphela ukuthi ubulili kanye nobulili buhlukile kakhulu nokuthi ngisho noma ungahlanganyeli ngokobulili, ubulili bakho busengabonakaliswa.
Imikhuba yakho yobulili ngesikhathi ukhulelwe iyoxhomeka ezintweni eziningana:
- Izinkolelo zakho zangaphambili mayelana nobulili
- Izinkolelo zangaphambilini zozakwethu
- Izici zomzimba zokukhulelwa kwakho
- Izici zomzwelo zokukhulelwa kwakho
Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani ucansi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kungaba mnandi kakhulu, ngisho noma okwenzayo kube mncane. Kukhona ukunyuka kokugcoba kwamagciwane, ukugcoba kwesitho sofuzo kusiza abanye abantu ukuba babe i-orgasmic okokuqala noma i-multi-orgasmic, ukungabi nokulawulwa kokubeletha, noma uma uzama kancane, ukubuyela ocansini njengenjabulo ngokuphikisana ukuzala, nezinye izizathu.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kunezizathu ezenza ukuthi ubulili bungase kungabi mnandi: ukwesaba ukulimaza ingane, ukuhlukumeza, ukukhathala, ukunganaki, njll.
Nakuba lezi kungaba izizathu ezizwakalayo, ukucwaninga nokukhuluma nomlingani wakho kanye nodokotela kungakusiza ukucacisa ukuthi yini engalungile ngempela ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ikakhulukazi kuwe.
Ushintsho luvame kakhulu ngesikhathi ukhulelwe emzimbeni wakho nasezinkolelweni zakho. Ngenkathi abesifazane besaba bakhulu futhi bengakhululekile, amadoda ngokuvamile athola umzimba okhulelwe unesidingo futhi uyathandeka. Khuluma ngemibono yakho kanye nesimo sengqondo sakho emzimbeni wakho nasezocansi.
Qinisekisa ukuthi uxoxa ngemizwa onayo mayelana nobulili kanye nobulili.
Lezi zingxoxo zingabangela impilo egculisayo yocansi. Uma omunye wenu engathandi ukulala ocansini , lokhu kungabaluleke kakhulu. Chaza kumlingani wakho ukuthi kwenzekani nokuthi bangenzani ukukusiza ukuba ucansi. Isibonelo, ukudonsa okuningi, amabhuku aphumuzayo, ukudla okuthandana, ukusikhipha umzimba, ukushaya indlwabu, kokubili wena nomlingani wakho ovumelana nabo yilokho okudingayo.
Ukushintsha kwe-hormonal ukukhulelwa nakho kuyingxenye ekusebenzeni kwakho ekwenzeni uthando, njengazo zonke izintathu. Abesifazane abaningi baphelelwe amandla futhi bahlushwa isisulu ukuze babe nesithakazelo kakhulu phakathi nonyaka wokuqala, kanti i-trimester yesibili kuletha injabulo entsha njengoba isisu sakhe sikhula, futhi emuva kwesikhathi ngemuva kwesithathu, isifiso singase siphumelele. Ungaya kusuka ekubeni yi-horny ekukhulelwe ungenakho i-libido kumasekhondi angu-60.
"Hmmm ... ngokocansi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ... ngesikhathi sokuqala kokuthoma, ngobuqotho, ngicabanga ukuthi ubulili bekungaphezulu ... okuvelele ... lezi zinkinga zazibonakala ziphakeme, naphezu kokuthi 'Ohmigosh,' sizolimaza ingane? ' Manje ku-trimester yesibili, kuba okungaqondakali kancane, ikakhulukazi manje engikubonisayo. Kuye kwadingeka ukuba ... ummm ... kahle ... ulungise kancane, uhlakaniphile-kodwa ... ukusondelana akuzange kushintshe, "kusho uDee.
Kulungile, ngakho-ke siyazi ukuthi kunokuhluka okubanzi kulokhu okwenzayo nokuthi nini. Umbuzo omkhulu (Ayikho i-pun ehlosiwe.) Kanjani?
Izikhundla zocansi ekukhulelweni
Ukwakhiwa kufanele kube yinto yakho eyinhloko ngesikhathi ukhulelwe. Noma ngaphezulu ubeka ngokucacile, noma yini esebenza! Kunezikhundla eziningi zobulili ezikhululekile njengoba usanda. Lokhu kufaka:
- Owesifazane phezulu
- Spooning (Man ngemuva kwesifazane, ukungena kwangemuva )
- Amandla Namaqhubu
- Ukulala amanga, idolo livuliwe
Yini abantu abakushoyo ngezocansi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ? Iningi liyamangala.
U-Rich uthi "Angizange ngiqaphele ushintsho lwangempela kwezocansi ... bekuhlale kunesabekayo! Umehluko kuphela wangempela manje usezingeni!
Sifanele sibekezele ngesisu esisakhulayo, futhi ngenxa yalokho, kuye kwadingeka sihlolisise kancane ... kodwa kumnandi ukuhlola. "Omunye umbhangqwana wanezela ukuthi babethanda ukuthi" wayedlala ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. "
Lapho Kufanele Ungabi Nesondo Ekukhulelweni
Uma ungahlali ocansini kanye / noma ama-orgasms ngesikhathi ukhulelwe:
- Udokotela wakho ucebise ngokumelene nalo
- Unomlando wokubeletha ngaphambi kwesikhathi noma umsebenzi
- I-Placenta previa (Lapho ingxenye ye-placenta ifaka umlomo wesibeletho)
- Amanzi akho aphukile
- Okwamanje uhlangabezana nokuphuma kwegazi
- Wena noma umlingani wakho unesifo esithathelwanayo ngokocansi
"Ubulili babuvinjelwe ngemuva kokuhlolwa kokukhulelwa okuhle, i-orgasm yavinjelwa ngesonto eli-15, futhi kusukela ngeviki engu-15 ngiye nginamahloni kakhulu futhi ngingeke ngikwazi ukwenza lutho ngalokhu kuze kube sekuzalweni kwengane, okwangenza ngikhathazeke," kuchaza u-Alison . "Ukungabi nobulili kwakudalula ibanga phakathi kwami nomyeni wami, futhi ngesaba ukuthi ngeke sibuyisele umlingo uma kukhona ingane esanda kuzalwa endlini."
Ubulili be-Postpartum yiyona into ephelele. Nokho, ngizokushiya ngomcabango owodwa:
"Kwangingathokozi kangako ukulala ngocansi ngenkathi sakhulelwe," kusho uTami. "Kodwa, okokuqala ngemva kokuzalwa kwezinsana kwakungesabekayo!"